- Ividiyo nguGabe Deem-Umlingo woTywala awunayo isilathiso soTyhini: INkomfa ye-SASH, i-2015
- PHAMBISA (2018): Sifundo sifumana Umahluko phakathi kokusetyenziswa kwe-porn kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesini, kwaye abaphandi bayazibuza ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi kwi-intanethi kufanele kwahlulwe ngokwahlukeneyo kubuxhakaxhaka bobulili ("umlutha wesini"): Enye ingxaki nokuba ingxaki yokusebenzisa iifoto zoonopopasho ingabonwa njengentlukwano yecala lokuxhatshazwa koxhatshazo xa ubudlelwane nothando kunye nokunyanzeliswa kungabinamandla njengokuba kufunyenwe kulolu cwaningo]. Umcimbi wesibini-ongathi unxulumene nokuhlulwa kweengxaki zoononografi ezijongene neengxaki ezixhatshazwayo-yiyiphi indlela engabonakaliyo yokusebenzisa iifoto zoonografi ezisetyenziswayo (kwaye ngokukhethekileyo iingubo zoononografi ezisetyenzisiweyo kwi-intanethi) zingabelana ngokufanelekileyo.
- PHAMBISA (2018) Abaphandi bathetha i-hypothesis esekwe kwifizoloji yokwahlula "iziyobisi ngokwesondo" ukusuka "kwizilonda zamanyala": Siphakamisela ukuphonononga kwiziphumo ezizayo ukuba i-subtype echazwe yindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo ingabonakaliswa ngezinga eliphezulu lezinto ezintsha ezifunayo kunye nokunyaniseka okuxhamlayo njengolu cetywayo yi-RDS, ngelixa i-subtype ehambelana nokubonwa kweefosografi ezijongene neengxaki kunye nokuzenzela izinto zesondo zodwa kunokuzibonakalisa kunoko ngokunyuka kwe-reactivity ye-ventral ye-ventac reactiv for the cues and benefits ngaphandle kwe-hypoactivation of circuit circuits.
- PHAMBISA (2022) Sifundo sifumana Umahluko phakathi kwabasebenzisa i-porn kunye nabalutha ngesondo: “Xa uthelekisa i-OCSB [abasebenzisa iphonografi] kunye nezigulana ezingezizo i-OCSB [amakhoboka ngesondo], iziphumo zibonise ukuba abaguli abangeyiyo i-OCSB babonise ukuxhaphaka okuphezulu kwezifo ezosulela ngesondo, ipesenti ephezulu yabantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nesini esinye kunye namanqaku aphezulu kwixhala kunye nokusilela kolawulo lwesondo.
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INGXELO: Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kufuna abantu bangempela; Umlutha wezobisi ufuna isikrini
Ukubeka iqela 'kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi' kunye 'nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini' phantsi kwe-Umbrella yoTywala ngokwesondo kwenza ukuba ngaphambili kubonakale kungabonakali ngenxa yokuba umlutha wesondo oqhelekileyo unqabile. Ngenxa yoko, ababoneleli ngezempilo bathambekele ekubeni babachaze gwenxa abo baneempawu zokuziphatha gwenxa, ezikhokelela kunyango olungasebenziyo. Umzekelo, ulutsha, kungenjalo iziyobisi ezingamanyala ezisempilweni ezine-erectile dysfunction banikwe iziyobisi esikhundleni sokuba iingcebiso zokulahla i-pornography. Abanye baphathwa ngenxa yokudandatheka, ukukhawuleza okanye iingxaki zokugxininisa endaweni yokuxhatshazwa okungabikho kwingcambu yeempawu zabo.
Ukwahlukana phakathi kokuluthwa koononophelo kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuninzi, njengoko kuboniswe kulezi zengxelo:
Umlutha wesondo (iminyaka eyi-35): Ndaziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndisezantsi ukusuka kubusuku bangaphambili ndikhangela isini esingaziwayo. Ke ndibuyela kwi-Intanethi. Umfazi ujonge ukuhlangana ngokungaziwa. Undixelela ukuba ndize ngapha, ndithatha iikhondom. Endleleni yam, uyandithumela imiyalezo andixelele ukuba ndiyothatha ipitsa. WTF? Oku kuyothusa, kodwa ithemba lesini esingaziwayo kunye nenoveli lininzi kakhulu ngeli xesha. Nangona kunjalo, ndinoloyiko lokuba ndingaphangwa, ndimxelela ukuba ndingathanda ukudibana naye kuqala. Ucango luyavuleka kwaye kumnyama kakhulu ngaphakathi ngaphandle kokukhanya kwescreen sekhompyuter. Andikwazi ukumbona ngokwenene, kodwa ndihamba kuyo nayiphi na indlela. Uthi, “Jonga le nto ndiyinxibileyo. Usisini akunjalo? ” Kodwa kwilizwi elinzulu… sisidwangube! U-SHe uthi, “Ayilunganga le nto?” Ndicinga ukuba kufanele ndimthengele ipitsa ngenxa yobubele ndiphume ndiphume apho. Emva koko ndiva umntu ehamba kwigumbi lokulala elingasemva. Ndiyoyika kakhulu kwaye ndiziva ndisekhaya, ndonwabe ngokungabinakujongana nayo nayiphi na idrama kwaye ndishiyeke nemali. Ndisebenzisa nje iphonografi kwaye ndiyolala.
Umlutha wezobisi: Ndingu 23. Ndaqala ukuzama ukulala ngesondo xa ndingu 18, kodwa andinakukufumana. Ndandinayo i-masturbating phantse imihla ngemihla iminyaka eyi-6, ngokubanzi ngokubamba ngokuqinile kunye neziboniso ezingabonakaliyo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Ndiye ndalala ngesondo kunye namaqabane amane ebomini bam kwaye andizange ndifike kwi-orgasm kunye nabo. Ngamafutshane, ubomi bam ngokwesini buye badanisa. Ewe ubudlelwane bam bokugqibela baphela ngenxa yeengxaki zokwakha. Wandityhola ngokuba li-gay. Ndiyazi ukuba ayiyonyani leyo kwaye wayeza kundikholelwa njani ukuba umzimba wam wawungabonakali unomdla kuye?
Umlutha wezobisi (iminyaka engama-25): Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba unobungozi bezobisi kodwa ungabi ngumlutha wesondo? Ndiyazi ukuba andinakukwazi ukulawula ukusetyenziswa kwam kwe-porn, okanye ukuphulula amalungu esini ngokuphupha. Kodwa emva kwesondo ndoneliseka ngakumbi. Ngamanye amaxesha ndisinda kwiveki okanye ngaphandle kwe-porn. Nam andizange ndixhomekeke ekuphathweni gadalala kwabantwana, ke andicingi ukuba ndibaleka iinkumbulo zangaphambili. Uninzi lweziyobisi zesondo endizaziyo kwintlanganiso ye-SLAA nazo zingabaxhaphazi beziyobisi. Andizange ndinqwenele utywala okanye iziyobisi, nangona ndisela kakhulu kube kanye ngexeshana. Andinantloni ngokusetyenziswa kwam iphonografi kwaye zange ndenze njalo. Kwakhona, uPatrick Carnes uthi eyona nto bayikholelwayo abantu abakhobelana ngesondo kukuba "Akukho mntu unokundithanda ukuba bayandazi njengoko ndinjalo". Ndiyazi ukuba ayinyani kuba amaqabane kunye nabahlobo bam bayazi malunga nokulutha kwam kwaye andikaze ndibone mpendulo kubo ngenxa yoko. Ewe ndineengxaki ezijikeleze abantu kwaye andizithembi kakhulu, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba kungenxa yokufumana ngaphezulu kunye nexesha elininzi phambi kwekhompyuter ngokuchasene nokunxibelelana nabantu bokwenyani. Iphonografi kum yindlela yokubaleka inyani kwaye ujongane noxinzelelo-yeyona moto isebenzayo kwaye inomdla kakhulu ukuba unqamule inyani. Ngokuqinisekileyo andicingi ukuba 'ndingumlutha wesondo.'
Nazi ezinye iindlela zokugqithiswa kwezilonda ze-porn
1. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kubandakanya abantu bokwenene; Iziyobisi ezikwi-Intanethi zibandakanya isikrini. Izilonda ezingamanyala zixhomekeke kwiiphikseli / ukukhangela / ukubonwa kwezinto ezibonakalayo rhoqo. Ngokuchasene noko, iziyobisi ezikhobokisa zixhomekeke kumaqabane amanoveli, i-voyeurism, i-franch, i-flashing, isondo eliyingozi, njalo njalo; Iphonografi inakho okanye ayinakongeza ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha.
2. Iziyobisi ezenziwa kwi-Intanethi zifana kakhulu nomdlalo wevidiyo ngaphandle kweziyobisi. Ihlala ingaphumeli nakwezinye izinto zesondo. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabasebenzisi be-porn abanobunzima abanakho ukuvuswa ngabafazi bokwenyani-nditsho nabafazi abafumana benomtsalane ngokwesondo. Ukuthelekisa umlutha woononophala kunye nomlutha wesondo kufana nokuthelekisa World of Warcraft nomdlali weLas Vegas high-roller.
3. Abakhoboka le-Intanethi abasebenza gwenxa kwi-Intanethi bahlala bethetha ukuba bangathanda ukuba nentombi engagungqiyo, okanye, ukuba baneqabane, ukuba bafuna ukuphendula wakhe. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kufuna amaqabane ahlukeneyo. Zixhomekeke kumntu weveli kunokuba iipekseli zorano.
4. Oo ntlungu yokusebenza kwezesondo sisikhalazo esiqhelekileyo phakathi kweziyobisi ezingamanyala ze-Intanethi. Ngokuqhelekileyo asiyiva malunga neengxaki ezinzima zokusebenza ngokwesondo phakathi kwezilonda zesini.
5. Ukuba likhoboka lamanyala kubonakala ngathi kuyanda njengoko ukufikelela kwi-porn-high-speed ngexesha lokufikisa kuyanda, nangona abanye abantu abadala bekwachaza ukuphuhlisa umlutha emva ukutshintsha kwi-intanethi ephakamileyo.
Lilonke, ukulandela iziyobisi ngokwesondo kwabantu abaphilayo kungaphezulu, ngelixa umlutha we-porn uphoswa ikakhulu sisenzo se-3-D. Ngokwenyani, iphonografi ingqina "isini esibi" kubasebenzisi abaninzi. Inokwenzeka njani into yokuba imeko enqabileyo ivele?
I-intanethi ye-intanethi: ininzi engavamile yendalo
Kwiminyaka emva nje, imivuzo engokwemvelo yongcolileyo njengokutya kunye nesondo sele ihlangene nabanye engavamile ubuhlobo. Lezi ziphoso zihamba ngeendlela ezifanayo ze-neural ashukumisayo njengoko inzuzo yemvelo ivuselela ubuchopho bethu ukuze iqhubekele. Ubungqina bethu bobunqweno bathandaKwaye banomdla wokungawuboni izinto zabo ezingaphumeleli.
Umzekelo, eboniswe ngeendlela ezingapheliyo zokutya okungabizi kakhulu, okumnandi, okunekhalori ephezulu, iipesenti ezingama-79 zabantu abadala baseMelika batyebe kakhulu, kwaye amashumi amathathu eepesenti kuthi bangamakhoboka ezi zinto zilungileyo (ukutyeba), ngaphandle kweziphumo ezibi zomzimba, ezentlalo nezengqondo. "Umlutha" ngu ixesha lezonyango apha, hayi isafobe. Kuthetha ukuba ingqondo yomthengi itshintshile ngeendlela ezifanayo ezisisiseko ezenziwa likhoboka leziyobisi.
Inkuthazo yezesondo nayo ifile. Ubuncinane isiqingatha seminyaka elishumi elinambini, abo banokufikelela kwiWebhu ngesantya esiphezulu baye bakwazi ukusebenzisa isimahla i-erotica ekwi-intanethi. Njengokutya okungenamsoco kwanamhlanje, kuyakhuthaza ngokukodwa kwiimbali zembali yoluntu. Isiphumo? Kwabesilisa abancinci, ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kufana nokulingana nokufikelela kwi-Intanethi. Ngokwenene uphando idatha eqokelelwe Kwiminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo sele kutyhilile ukuba i-9 yamadoda asekholejini aneminyaka yobudala (kwaye malunga nesinye kwisithathu sabasetyhini) babesebenzisa i-Intanethi. Iimodeli ezindala zomngcipheko wokulutha zisekwe kwizinto, hayi kule yanamhlanje iinguqu ezingaphezulu lokutya kunye nesondo, ngoko iingcali ezininzi ziyaqhubeka zifundiswa ukuba zonke izilwanyana zesondo ezingabonakaliyo.
Awu, ukuba iiforamu ezikwi-Intanethi zikhona naziphi na izinto ezibonisa, abasebenzisi be-porn banamhlanje baya ngokukhalaza ukuba (1) abanako yeka ukujonga, kunye (2) kuphazamisa ukuphuhliswa kwazo eziqhelekileyo ukutshata kunye nobuchule bokukhwelana. Bangaphi banamhlanje abasebenzisi be-erotica abakwi-intanethi ababa likhoboka akukho mntu waziyo, kodwa amazinga okulutha kwi-Intanethi kulutsha luyaxhuma. A Isifundo saseHungary Kutshanje utshintshile ukuba omnye kwabahlanu abaselula baye basebenze. (Ubunjengebuntathu bobudala bubonisa ngokufanayo utshintsho olunxulumene neziyobisi.)
Ndandiqonda ukuba ndizenzele ngokwenene kwi-brink of orgasm kuphela ekuboniseni-ngaphandle kokusebenzisa isandla sam konke. Ingqondo yam yabuyela ekuthembeleni kwimifanekiso eqingqiweyo eyondliwe kuyo ngamehlo am ukuba ndiveliseUmsebenzisi we-intanethi
Ngaba i-Intanethi yokuthengisa iziyobisi kwi-Intanethi iya kudlula amanqanaba okutyeba kakhulu kwamanye amaqela abantu ngoku ukuba iphonografi ye-Intanethi isasazeke ngakumbi kunayo nayiphi na into yokuqinisa indalo ngaphandle kwe-junkfood? Ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ingqondo ngokwendalo ikhupha i-dopamine yesini ngakumbi kunokuba isenzela ukutya. (Ukukhutshwa kwe-Dopamine ngexesha lokusetyenziswa kwe-Intanethi akulinganiswanga, ngenxa yezobuchwephesha kunye nezinye izizathu.) Ngaphezu koko, kukho umda ekusetyenzisweni kokutya, kodwa akukho namnye ekubukeleni iphonografi. Kwakhona, nangona kungekho mntu ufuna ukutyeba, ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn kuya kwamkeleka ngokwasentlalweni yonke imihla.
Kutheni le nto iziyobisi zingamanyala nje “ikhoboka lesini”
"Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo" kubonakala ngathi akuqhelekanga. UGqirha Carnes uye wayifunda amashumi eminyaka. Umsebenzi wakhe utyhila ukuba abo, njengabantwana, bengakhathalelwanga, behlukunyezwa, behlukunyezwa, bedlwengulwa, okanye beboniswa ubundlobongela kunye / okanye isini besebancinci basemngciphekweni wokukhulisa isiyobisi sesini (oko kukuthi, likhoboka lesini ngokungakhathali ). Basebenzisa isondo njengendlela yokuzenzela amayeza ukubaleka, ukuphelisa iintlungu zabo zengqondo ukuba bazive bengakhuselekanga kwaye bengathandwa ngokwaneleyo.
Abasebenzisi beSono abavakatyelayo Yethu kwiwebhusayithi zihlala zingalingani kule profayile, nangona bezichonga njengeziyobisi. Kwimodeli kaCarnes, iziyobisi ezenziwa ngokwesondo ezifumana kwakhona zidinga iminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu, kunye nenkxaso eninzi yokubuyisela ukusondelelana okusempilweni ebomini babo. Ngokwahlukileyo, uninzi lweendwendwe zethu luyachacha, nkqu nakwiimpawu ezinzima ezinje ngeempembelelo zoononophala, kwinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwezine. Iimpawu zokurhoxa zinokuba nzima, kodwa ekugqibeleni uninzi lwabantu lubuyela kubuntu babo bangaphambi kokuba babukele iphonografi kunye namanqanaba e-charisma.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kufuneka kusebenze nzima kwaye kaninzi kubungozi bokubanjwa okanye izifo ukuba zenzeke. Abasebenzisi beSono banamathele kuphela izikrini zabo ukuze bafumane ukulungiswa. Akumangalisi ukuba iblorho abafana abangaphantsi kweminyaka ethile basebenzisa i-intanethi ye-intanethi, abaninzi baninzi kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bafana ne-childhood-trauma profile. Ubungqiqo obunempilo obutsha (nangaphezulu) zithandwa ngokuqhelekileyo Ukudityaniswa kwe-intanethi ngokudibanisa ukumangalisa, ubutsha, isini, kunye nokufumaneka okungafunekiyo simahla.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba umntu osebenzisa i-porn enzima akasayi kulungela inkcazo ye-Carnes yeklasikhi, iziyobisi ezingamanyala ziyaqhubeka nokufakwa kumakhoboka ezesondo ziingcali kunye neentatheli ezixhomekeke kubo. Ukucinga ngeziyobisi ezingamanyala kwi-Intanethi njenge "subset" yokulutha ngokwesondo (kunqabile) kunciphisa ukubonakala kwayo. Enye ingcali isiqinisekisile ukuba ekubeni kunqabile ukuba likhoboka lesini, izehlo zokuziphatha gwenxa kwe-Intanethi, "zincinci." Huh?
Sivile neengcali ukuba abasebenzisi be-intanethi abangafanelanga iphrofayili-yophuhliso lwabantwana bezesondo Ayikwazi kuba ngumlutha, nokuba ngababodwa ngokwabo bakholelwa ukuba. Ezi ngcali zifuna ukuba ukugqithiswa koonobumba kunokuvela kuphela ngenxa yeziphumo ezithile omnye I-pathology (enje ngeziyobisi zesini, i-ADHD, uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo lwentlalo). Kufana nokuzama ukudlala umdlalo wevidiyo phantsi kwesiyobisi somdlalo webhodi, okanye ukutshaya phantsi kwesiyobisi. Oku kusithela okwenyani kwaye kushiya abantu aba "lungileyo" iziyobisi ezingamanyala ngaphandle kwengqele.
"Imicimbi yokuthandana" ingachaza njani ukuba likhoboka lamanyala phakathi kwabakwishumi elivisayo abanamava amancinci kakhulu? Uninzi lwaba basebenzisi bobutsha boononophala lutsala abathandekayo. Bayothuswa yinto yokuba ubudoda babo buphendula kuphela kwi-porn hayi kumaqabane okwenyani. Ngamafutshane, abahambelani nemodeli 'yemicimbi yokuzibandakanya kwezesondo'.
Mhlawumbi njengesiphumo sengcinga engafezekanga, uphando malunga nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-Intanethi kushiyeka kakuhle emva kokuqhuma kwenyani yesi siganeko. Okwangoku, "ukuvusa umlutha" kuqhelekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba ufanele intetho ye-TED ngu-Psychologist uPhilip Zimbardo: "Ukuditywa kweeGay. "
Ngethamsanqa kwimpilo yabantu kwikamva, i I-American Society of Addiction Medicine kutshanje kuqinisekisile ukuba umlutha unokuba eziphambili isifo. Ngumsebenzi we ingqondo iguqukakungakhathaliseki ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana, nokuba ingaba isigxina sinokuziphatha ngendlela uluntu olwamkelekileyo olwamkelekileyo / olwamkelekileyo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo: I-etiology yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ayihambelani ne-etiology ye-intanethi ye-intlanzi ye-intanethi (nangona abanye abantu ababethathekayo ngokwesini baxhaphaza ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye izilingo ezingamabhinqa zineengxaki zobuntwana). Izilonda ezilawulekayo zingahlakulela izizathu ezifanayo zokutya izilingo ezikhulayo: (1) ngaphezulu kokusetyenziswa kwezinto ezihamba phambili, (2) ubuchopho obuqhelekileyo bubona into engavumelekiyo, kunye / okanye (3) ukuqala ukusebenzisa ngexesha lobudala, xa ingqondo ingakumbi iplastiki kwaye baninzi bazimisele ukufuna imincili kunye nemveli.
Ukudibanisa "ukuphulula amalungu esini" kunye "nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn" kusitha iziyobisi
Zombini iingcali kunye nabasebenzisi abancinci be-Intanethi abangakwaziyo ukwahlula "ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-Intanethi" ukusuka "ekuphulula amalungu esini." Iingcali (izizukulwana ezindala) zicinga ukuba i-intanethi ye-intanethi njengenye enye uncedo lokuhlaziya i-masturbation. Ngokwahlukileyo, izizukulwana ezisencinci azazi ukuba i-masturbation engenasondo iyakwazi. Ziye zanamathela kubunewunewu obugqithisileyo beWebhu kwaye zihlala zibonisa izinto ezothusayo. Uninzi aluzange luphucule ngenye indlela. Khawuqwalasele lo mvavanyo ulothusayo walo mfana:
Kwiiveki ezimbini emva kokuyeka uononophala, ndazama into eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo-i-masturbation kwi-orgasm ngaphandle koononophala-into engazange ndiyiqwalasele (isoloko isetyenziselwa i-intanethi). Kwiintsuku ezimbini kamva, ndongeza i-porn kwi-whim ndabuya ndabuya.
Amava amabini ahluke kakhulu. Ukutshonywa kwendlela yokuhlaziya i-orgasm kwakuchukumisekile ekugqibeleni, ngenxa yokuba andinayo i-buzz, akukho tshintsho yombono. Yaba yinto enhle, eyakhayo.
Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kubangele iseshoni yoononophala / i-masturbation epheleleyo, evakalelwa ngathi ndiphelele kwi-DRUG. Yonke imifanekiso yajika umzimba wam wangumlilo ovuthayo woxinzelelo, nganye nganye inamandla ngakumbi kunale yokugqibela. Ndivile ukuba u "dope surge" oqhelekileyo ubaleka engqondweni yam emzimbeni wam. Ndandiva kwaye ndizive KONKE into ngamandla. Kwi-orgasm, kwakunjengamafu e-idiocy atshabalalisa phezu kwam, kwaye yonke into yahamba. Ukuziva unqabile okokugqibela kuhlala iintsuku ezimbini ubuncinci.
Ukudibanisa ukuphulula amalungu esini kunye nokusebenzisa iphonografi kwi-Intanethi kubangela umsantsa oyingozi kunxibelelwano. Siva le meko ilandelayo rhoqo kwiforum yethu: Umfana oselula onengxaki yokungakwazi ukwenza izilungiso eziqhelekileyo ubuza kugqirha. Ukuba ucinga nokubuza ukuba ukuphulula amalungu esini (izihlokwana "iiyure zokusebenzisa iphonografi mihla le") kubangela ingxaki, uphendula ugqirha, "Ukuphulula amalungu esini (isincoko esithi" isini esidala esithandwayo ") akunakubangela i-ED (okanye olunye uhlobo lweziyobisi Iimpawu ezinje), ke enye into ibangela iingxaki zakho. Nanga amanye amacwecwe olingo lweCialis kunye nokugqithiselwa kugqirha wezonyango. ” Umfo uyahamba, eqinisekile ukuba ukubandezeleka kwakhe akunanyango, kwaye uyaqhubeka nokwenza ingxaki yakhe ibe nzima kuba esoyika ukuba ukuba akayisebenzisi uyakuphulukana nayo.
Iingcali zichanekile ngengqiqo enye: Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-masturbation kuya kunqabile ngaphandle koononophala lwe-intanethi. Iphonografi yanamhlanje ingaphezulu koncedo lokuphulula amalungu esini. Ifaka indawo yokucinga ngee-tab ezininzi, ukukhangela rhoqo, ukuhambisa ngokukhawuleza kwindawo efanelekileyo, umbono we-voyeur njalo njalo. Yahlukile, kwaye ingaphezulu ukukhohlisa, ukuqiniswa kunokuba yindoda yesondo kuphela.
Ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kwanamhlanje kudlulela ngaphaya komvuzo we-orgasm. Abafana abayenzi i-masturbate ukuya kuvuthondaba xa bebukele emsebenzini, babelana ngeziqeshana kwiifowuni zabo, ehamba ngeenqwelo, okanye ngexesha leeyure zokuhlela xa ushwele.
Uninzi lwesiphithiphithi esiqhelekileyo malunga ne-porn kubonakala ngathi luvela kulungelelwaniso olungalunganga, olujonga eyona nto iphambili. Iqala ngokucinga ngokuchanekileyo ukuba i-orgasm yendalo kwaye abantu abaqhele ukuba ngamakhoboka kuyo. Iyaqhubeka nokucinga ukuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-Intanethi akunakuvelisa nantoni na nge-punch ye-neurochemical punch kune-orgasm. Iqukumbela ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ke akunakubakho.
Nantsi impazamo: Ukulutha ngokwenene hayi ziboshwe kubungakanani bempembelelo ye-dopamine. Iicigarettes, umzekelo, zitsala phantse iipesenti ezingama-80 zalabo abazizamayo, ngelixa ii-heroin zitsala kuphela abasebenzisi abambalwa. Ngokucacileyo, ifuthe le-dopamine yesigarethi lincinci xa kuthelekiswa nefuthe le-dopamine ye-heroin yokudubula. Ukuhenda kwesigarethi kuxhomekeke kubuchule babo bokuqeqesha ubuchopho ngokukhupha (isoyikiso sedopamine). Ngenxa yoku, amandla abo okuphinda basebenze kwingqondo yokulutha abanakulinganiswa nefuthe labo le-neurochemical. Eli nqaku lenziwe kwincwadi kaDavid Linden Icompass yePleasure.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuyafana nokukhotyokiswa yi-heroin kuba kukho umda wokuba umntu unokulungisa kangaphi, kwaye umlutha ngokubanzi ufuna ukwakhiwa kwe-neurochemical build-up. I-intanethi ye-intanethi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ibonakala ifana nokutshaya. Ngamnye ufumaneke ngokulula, umfanekiso wenoveli ubonelela ngento encinci, enomvuzo yokuqhekeka, eqeqesha ingqondo ukuba iphinde iphinde iziphathe, ngokungafaniyo nokukhupha.
Ngamafutshane, ayisiyiyo i-neurochemical blast ye-orgasm ebopha iziyobisi ze-Intanethi, nangona i-orgasm ikwaqinisa ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn. Ikhonkco enamandla ngakumbi yile esinobuchule obukhoyo I-intanethi ye-intanethi. Ayothusi into yokuba xa umntu ezama "ukuqala ngokutsha" ingqondo yakhe, la mava aqhelekile:
Nangona ndibe nesibongozo esinamandla sophonografi ngexesha lokuqalisa kwakhona, andizange ndibe nomnqweno onamandla wokuphinga. Mhlawumbi le nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ubuchopho bam bulahle i-pornography ngaphezu kokulahlekelwa ukukrakra / okanye i-orgasm.
Umlutha wanamhlanje we-porn unokuninzi ngokufana nomlutha wevidiyo ye-Intanethi, kuba yena (okanye yena) uxhomekeke kwi-mini-dopamine eqhubekayo kwiimpawu ezibonakalayo ezinomdla. Njengemidlalo yevidiyo, iphonografi kwi-Intanethi kukuzonwabisa okungazami. Akukho sidingo sokufuna iqabane lokwenyani. Ukwanomlutha wokutya kuba iphonografi ikwi-hijack inomdla wethu wendalo onamandla (ukuvelisa kwakhona) usebenzisa unikezelo oluvuselelayo olungena kwiinkqubo zethu ezilungiselelwe izinto ezintsha kunye nokufuna.
Yomelele kwilizwe elithe tye
Iziyobisi ezingamanyala azikho kumnqweno wesini; Baye babambelela kwi-Intanethi. Abazange baqeqeshe ngesondo, kodwa ngenxa yokukhuthaza. Nanga amagqabaza amathathu:
Ndazi ukuba ndiyinkathazo xa ebomini bamantombazana behleli behamba phambi kwam kungabi nam, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ndagxuma kwikhompyutheni ndaza ndajonga i-porn crazy ndavuya gqitha kwaye ndigubha nzima.
[Iiveki emva kokuyeka iphonografi] Ndizive nditsalwa ngumfazi wokwenyani okokuqala ngqa ixesha elide. Kuyamangalisa, kodwa ndandisisidlangalaleni xa ndandiphonografi.
Ndiyathemba ukuphula iminyaka engama-30 yokusetyenziswa koononophelo oye, ngenxalenye, wandenza intombi eneminyaka engama-40 ubudala. Ndaqala ukusetyenziswa koononophelo kwiminyaka eyi-12-13 ubudala, ndatshitshiswa kwimifanekiso yabasetyhini abathandekayo kuphela (abesifazana / abesifazana abasetyhini kunye / okanye ii-boobs ezinkulu), ndingazange ndiphume ngaphandle koononophala, kwaye ndiyisebenzise rhoqo. Ndandinamathuba nabafazi abaliqela, kodwa yayiyidud epheleleyo. Kwangoko kulo nyaka, bendinenye into yokusilela ukwenza kunye nomfazi endimthandayo kancinci, kwaye emva kweminyaka engama-30 ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndenze into ngalo. Ingxaki kukuba, ndicinga ukuba andikaze ndiphuhlise iindlela "ezifanelekileyo" zendlela yokwabelana ngesondo kunye neqabane lokwenyani. Akukho ndlela indala, igqithileyo yokubuyela kuyo; ayizange ibekho. Ndiyi-33 yeentsuku zoononophala / i-masturbation mahhala. Kodwa ukuvala indlela yam yangoku, ndiziva ngathi ndirhangqwe lihlathi elishinyeneyo apho unyawo lungazange lubekwe ngaphambili. Kwaye ngaphandle kwesibhakela, xa ndiziva ngathi ndiyayidinga i-chainsaw kunye ne-bulldozer.
Kuba nje ukubakho kweziyobisi ezingamanyala kuhlala kungabonakali, abasebenzisi abaphuhlisa iimpawu zikwimeko enobungozi. Kuya kufuneka bazibonele ngokwabo izinto, kwaye akukho lula ukudibanisa amachaphaza phakathi kwe-porn neengxaki zokungasebenzi ngesondo (okanye uxhalaba oluhlobene nezocwangco, ukuxinezeleka okanye iingxaki zokugxininisa) kunye nokujonga iifostile. Emva kwakho konke, i-intanethi ye-intanethi yinto enamandla ye-aphrodisiac. Kwakhona kwenza umsebenzisi uzive bhetele ngelixa ujonga. Akumangalisi ukuba abasebenzisi banomdla wokuchaza iimpawu zabo nakweyiphi na into ebekiweyo, okanye bagqibe ngelithi, "Ndinguye lo."
Okwangoku, iiprotokholi zeengcali kunye neentatheli ezithandekayo zenza uhambo lwabaninzi babo basemngciphekweni wokuxhatshazwa koononophala lwe-intanethi ngokungadingekile. Ngapha koko, abo bafuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo, kuba bayazinyanga ngenxa yemicimbi yobuntwana bayabanjiswa kwi "porn ayinabungozi". Ngapha koko, abasebenzisi abakwishumi elivisayo abasebenzisa iphonografi banika iintambo ekuphenduleni kwabo ngokwesondo kwiipikseli, hayi ebantwini-kwaye abanye bafumana ukuvuswa okugwenxa xa bengenakuphumelela, okanye ukonwabela, isini sokwenene. Ngaba aba basebenzisi kufuneka balinde de babe ngamakhoboka apheleleyo ukuze baqale ukuphinda bavuselele ubuchopho babo?
Ndineengxaki zoxinzelelo kunye nokuzithemba iminyaka. Ndandikrokrela inxalenye yayo ngenxa ye-PMO kodwa ndihlala ndivakalelwa kukuba kunzima ukuyeka. Kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo ndayeka malunga neenyanga ezi-3 kwaye ndonwabile kunakuqala kobomi bam bonke. Ndandihlala nabantu, ndaya kwimihla nabasetyhini, kwaye ndazithemba ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Nangona kunjalo… nangasiphi na isizathu ngaphandle kokukruquka… okanye umkhwa… ndibuyele umva. Ndehla ndadandatheka ndade ndacinga nokuzibulala. Ukusukela ngoko ibingumzabalazo… kude kube ngoku! Ngomhla wama-21 ndikhululekile kwi-PMO kwaye andijongi emva!
Emva kokuba ndidlulile kwinqanaba leeveki ze-2 ndaqala ukubona ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukuzithemba ngakumbi, kunye nokuthetha okungcono. Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndiya ndisiba kwimeko yesiqhelo kwakhona — njengomntu ebekufanele ukuba ndinguye. Abasetyhini bayandibona kwakhona kwaye ndinokuthetha nabo ngokwenyani. Ndiva ngathi ndidibana nabantu ngokubanzi ngcono. Ndenza ngcono kwezemidlalo. Ndiziva ndomelele, ndikhawuleza kwaye ndibukhali. Ingathi inkungu iphakanyisiwe! Ndineminyaka engama-29 ubudala kwaye ngoku ndiziva ngathi ndinamandla ebendinawo kwishumi elivisayo. Injongo yam kukuba yi-PMO ikhululekile ebomini bam bonke. Umfutho endiziva ukuba womelele kunoyolo oluncinci oluziswa yi-PMO. Ndijonge ukuhlala kwaye ndingazifihli. Ukuthatha umva kulawulo yeyona nto ikhululekileyo ndikhe ndeva ixesha elide.
Inkcazo: nabani na apha apha umlutha wesondo?
indlela endandijonga ngayo, ukuba ngaba umlutha wakho wesondo kunye nawe ujabulela oko ukwenzayo, kutheni umise? ukungafani nokuxhatshazwa kobulili apho ukhangelelwa kwikhompyutheni yenzatha. kubomi bakho bokwenene besifazana! thandani wena!
GUY 2)
Ukunyaniseka, njengomntu owayelikhoboka le-porn kuninzi lobomi bam bokufikisa ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwaye ngenxa yoko, andikaze ndibelane ngesondo- andikwazi nokucinga ukuba abantu abathetha ngantoni xa kufikwa kumlutha wesondo . Ndicinga ukuba andinakukwazi ukuyicinga ngeli nqanaba. Akunangqondo kum.
GUY 3)
Lol mna nawe !!!
Okwangoku ndicinga ukuba umlutha wesondo uya kuba mkhulu kodwa kungenxa yokuba kuya kuthetha ukuba ngokucacileyo andinayo i-porn. Ndingacinga kodwa ukuba inyani iya kufana nokulutha kwezesondo- isondo liya kulawula iingcinga zakho kunye neeyure oza kuchitha ulala ngesondo. Ndicinga ukuba ubukubudlelwane obude kunye nomntu onwabela inani elifanayo lesini kunokuba kulungile. Ukuba akunjalo ke ndicinga ukuba ingafana nesihogo.
Ukuthekelela nje-kunzima ukuba intombi-ntombi ingaphenduli.
GUY 4)
kuyenza icace into yokuba iziyobisi ezingamanyala namhlanje, ngaphezu kwako konke, iziyobisi kwi-Intanethi:
Ukuba nina bantu nifuna ukwazi imfihlo yam, bekungekho nzima kangako. Ikhompyuter yam yaphuka. Ngokukrakra, konke oko kuthatha. Ngaphezulu kwehlobo ndiza kuyenza ifane neveki okanye ezimbini de iphinde ibuye, kodwa emva kokuba ilaptop ishiyekile, bendisekhaya ndkhululekile. Ngaphandle kokuba ndiziva izikhuthazo ezindala zibuya. Ungayichazanga eyokufumana i-pc entsha kwiiveki ezimbini ezizayo. Ndifumane kwakhona isigwebo.
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