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Okwangoku, siyaphumelela. Kukho malunga neebhiliyoni ezisixhenxe kuthi abazulazula kweli litye lilodwa. Siye sahlala kwilizwekazi ngalinye, sawela lonke ulwandle, kwaye saphuhlisa ezona ndlela zintsonkothileyo zokukhupha ubutyebi bendalo kwinto esiyibiza ngokuba likhaya. Akukho nanye kwezi ebinokwenzeka ngaphandle kweempawu zethu ezimbini ezibalulekileyo zethuku: umnqweno wokuphila kunye nomnqweno wokuzala. Ukuzala kubalulekile ekuphuhliseni naluphi na uhlobo kunye nempucuko yayo, kwaye ngo-2013, abantu bayaphumelela.
Abantu bayaphumelela ngenxa yokulangazelela imbuyekezo yangoko nangoko kunye nengaphakathi, kwaye isondo yenye yeenjongo zethu eziphambili. Uluntu alufikelelanga kweli nqanaba ngamabona-ndenzile. Sikrelekrele, kwaye siyayazi loo nto nathi. Ngelishwa, sisenokuba sifumene amandla ethu kade kakhulu.
Ubuchopho bomntu abuthi, “Mntu, kufuneka ufumane umntu wesini esahlukileyo ukuze ukwazi ukuzala uze uhambisele phambili uhlobo lwakho.” Endaweni yoko, ubuchopho bethu buyatsiba isizathu sokwenyani kwaye basihende ngokunxulumanisa isondo nemvakalelo yolonwabo olugqithisileyo. Ngelishwa, siyaqhatha inkqubo yengqondo yethu. Kutheni uchitha iminyaka ufumana iqabane xa ukuphulula amaphambili kukodwa akuyolisi? Siyigqwesile inkqubo ebesithembele kuyo ngokwethuku ukuba siqhubeke ngokwethu. Namhlanje, asizange siphelise kuphela imfuno yeqabane, kodwa siye sakha indlela ephezulu yokufumana ulonwabo kunesondo esiqhelekileyo: i-intanethi ye-intanethi ye-intanethi.
Imvelaphi yokuqala yephonografi yanamhlanje ivela kuHugh Hefner's Playboy ekuqaleni kweminyaka yoo-1950. Iimagazini ze-Hefner's Playboy zibonise abafazi ngokukhohlisayo behamba ze, ngokusisiseko bemisela umzekelo kumashishini amanyala anamhlanje. I-Playboy ayizange ivele kuphela njengenguqu epholileyo yephonografi yanamhlanje, kodwa yayifikeleleka kakhulu ngenxa yoshicilelo kunye nezithintelo zobudala. Iphonografi yanamhlanje ikude nePlayboy. Nabani na onekhompyutha yale mihla kunye noqhagamshelo olukhawulezayo lwe-Intanethi unokufikelela amaqabane amaninzi kunokuba ookhokho bakhe babenokufikelela kuwo kubomi babo. Iphonografi ye-Intanethi isimahla, iyafumaneka ukujongwa iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, kwaye ibonelela ngencasa enganelisekiyo kumsebenzisi ngenxa yesiqulatho esikufutshane esingenasiphelo esilayishwe kwiindawo ezingamanyala mihla le.
Amadoda asele ekhulile angamalungu e-Generation Y achaphazeleka ngakumbi kulawulo olukhulayo lwe-Intanethi. Olunye uphawu oluchazayo lwesiZukulwana Y kukufumaneka kwekhompyuter. Ubukho obuhlala buhleli bekhompyuter yobuqu kubo bonke ubuntwana ekhaya bubeke imeko yesi sizukulwana ukuba siyijonge njengendalo kunye nomthombo osisiseko wolwazi. Xa indoda eneminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-14 ubudala ekugqibeleni inomdla malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesini, ukuguqukela kwikhompyuter ukufumana iimpendulo kungqina ukuba lithuku lendalo. Amalungu amaninzi aselula angamadoda eGeneration Y aqala ukuphulula amaphambili kwasebuncinaneni ngoncedo lwe-porn ye-intanethi kwaye aqhubekile ukuya ekuqaleni ukuya kwiminyaka engama-20.
Ukubukela iphonografi kwi-Intanethi yeyona nto idumileyo kwi-Intanethi ngenxa ye-Coolidge Effect. I-Coolidge Effect yafunyanwa kwisifundo esithelekisa iipatheni zokukhwelana phakathi kweegundane kunye nexesha elithathiweyo ukufikelela kwi-ejaculation.
Xa impuku iqhubeka ilala neqabane elinye, uphononongo lwafumanisa ixesha de i-ejaculation inyuke kakhulu ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Xa i-rat idibene namaqabane amaninzi, ixesha de i-ejaculation yahlala ihleli ngokufanelekileyo, ibonisa inyaniso ebalulekileyo malunga ne-intanethi ye-intanethi; Iphonografi ye-Intanethi ayingomsebenzi ophindaphindiweyo. Ibonelela ngamaqabane angenasiphelo, iguqula izinto ezithandwa ngumsebenzisi ukuze ikhokelele kumxholo owothusayo ngakumbi, ide ikhokelele kumsebenzisi ekujongeni umxholo ongahambelaniyo nesini sakhe. Ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ye-Intanethi ayitshintshi, kodwa yinkqubo yokuguquka ekhokelela umsebenzisi ukuba ajonge umxholo onzima ngakumbi.
Impembelelo yentlalontle ye-porn igalelo kwi-defining factor of Generation Y; senze uthumo lwethu lwe-subconscious ukuba singagcini nje ngokubuyisela unxibelelwano lokwenyani kunye nezikrini, kodwa siluchaze njengokuziphatha okwamkelekileyo eluntwini. Umzekelo, ukuba iqela lamalungu amane okanye amahlanu e-Generation Y anxulumana kunye kwaye amabini okanye amathathu kuwo alawula incoko, ayisiyonto nje ekrwada, kodwa yamkelekile ngokwasentlalweni ukuba umntu wesine okanye wesihlanu akhuphe ifowuni yakhe. kwaye uqale ukuthumela umyalezo okanye ukuphequlula kwi-newsfeed ye-Facebook. Endaweni yokuzama ukungena kwincoko ekhoyo, amalungu amaninzi eSizukulwana Y esisilela kwindlela elula yokuqokelela ukubaluleka kwentlalo. Ukunyuka kwephonografi kwi-Intanethi kudale iziphumo ezifanayo zentlalo. Ehlabathini elifanelekileyo (ukusuka kwimbono yokuziphendukela kwemvelo), i-masturbation yayingayi kubakho. Akukho nto kwaye ayinagalelo kwinkqubela phambili yabantu. Kutheni kukhululwe imbewu kwindawo engayi kuchunyiswa? Ukuphulula amaphambili ngephonografi ye-Intanethi ayifuni ukusukela umntu wesini esahlukileyo okanye ukuzimisela; ihlala ikhona ilindile, kwaye iya kuhlala ikhona. Yimpazamo engakholelekiyo amadoda aselula athembele kuyo kakhulu endaweni yokufuna eyona ntombazana. Ukusetyenziswa rhoqo koonografi kwi-Intanethi kubangele ukuxhalaba kwentlalo kunye nokungakwazi ukwenza ngokuhambelana nenjongo yethu yokuvelisa.
Ngeminyaka eyi-18, inani lamadoda eSizukulwana Y aphulula amaphambili afikelela kuma-99 ekhulwini. Abaninzi baphulula amaphambili imihla ngemihla okanye imihla ngemihla kuphela ngoncedo lwe-intanethi ye-porn. UGary Wilson uxoxa kwi-TEDx yakhe intetho ethi The Great Porn Experiment ukuba ngenxa yokungeniswa ngokupheleleyo kwi-masturbation kunye ne-intanethi ye-intanethi kuwo wonke amadoda kwi-Generation Y, imiphumo ye-intanethi ye-intanethi ayinakuvavanywa kuba ngokusisiseko wonke umntu uyayisebenzisa. Ngokulula, iqela lokulawula i-porn-free alikho. Le ngxoxo inesiphene ngandlel’ ithile ngenxa yokunqongophala kokuvavanywa rhoqo kuphononongo, kodwa isifaniso esinye siyinyani: ukuba onke amalungu angamadoda eGeneration Y atshaya ipakethe yecuba ngosuku ukuqala kwiminyaka eyi-12, ukuxilongwa kumhlaza wemiphunga kuya kuthathwa njengesiqhelo. . Esinye isisombululo sokusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi ye-intanethi kuwo wonke amalungu e-Generation Y yamadoda kukuyeka okwethutyana kuzo zonke iintlobo ze-porn kunye ne-masturbation.
Ngokucacileyo, kwicandelo leReddit.com elizinikele kuphela ekuyekeni iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amalungu esini, abasebenzisi bahlala bethumela iimpawu zokurhoxa, njengokuphuthelwa, ukungabikho kokugxila, kunye nokudakumba. Injongo kukuya kwi-masturbation kunye ne-porn simahla kwiintsuku ze-90 kwaye uxele ngaphambi nangemva kweziphumo. Emva kweempawu zokuqala ezimbi ezidweliswe ngasentla, abasebenzisi banika ingxelo yokunyusa ukuzithemba, ukuzithemba, i-sex drive, kunye nokukwazi ukuxabisa amalungu esini esahlukileyo kungekhona nje njengento yesini. Enyanisweni, uphando oluthile olunesihloko esithi UPhando loBudlelwane phakathi kwe-Ejaculation kunye neNqanaba le-Testosterone kwi-Serum kuMadoda lide libike malunga ne-50% yokunyuka kumanqanaba e-serum ye-testosterone emva kosuku lwesixhenxe ngaphandle kokuphuma. Ukunyuka kweepesenti kumanqanaba e-serum ye-testosterone emva kweveki ngaphandle kwe-ejaculation iyahluka xa uthelekisa isondo kunye nokuphulula amaphambili kunye ne-intanethi ye-intanethi. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, amadoda kwiGeneration Y ephakanyiswe kwizinto zanamhlanje ngokuqhubekayo afuna umxholo owothusayo kunye nomzobo ukufezekisa isiphumo esifanayo sokuqala. Ukwabelana ngesondo okwenene kufuna abantu abangaphezu komnye, okubandakanya omabini amaqela ukuba avumelane nayo nayiphi na intshukumo yesondo enqwenelwa lelinye icala. Ngenxa yokuba umntu ophulula i-masturbating yedwa ufuna kuphela imvume yakhe, ukuthambekela ukuqhubela phambili kumxholo onzima kuphezulu kakhulu.
Abantu abanegunya, ngokukodwa amaziko amaninzi onqulo, bebesoloko bekhuthaza ukuba abantu bazikhwebule ngokupheleleyo ekuphululeni amalungu esini nakwisini sangaphambi komtshato. Amadoda athandabuzayo oMzukulwana Y anokubuza ukuyeka ukuphulula amalungu esini ecinga ukuba abasemagunyeni baye bashumayela ukuziyeka iminyaka. Omnye usenokuthi, “Kutheni sifanele sikukholelwe ngeli xesha?”
Umahluko ngumthombo wesizathu. Le ntshukumo yokuyeka iphonografi ye-Intanethi yaqala njengentshukumo ejolise kontanga. Kule meko, uBhuti omkhulu akanguye umntu osemva komkhusane. Izifundo zovavanyo zezi. Ukuyeka ukudityaniswa kwe-intanethi ye-porn kunye ne-masturbation ngumba ophefumlelweyo oontanga abaye bawamkela ngokuzithandela kwaye bahlala bechaza iziphumo ezilungileyo. Noko ke, ukuyeka kuphela iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amaphambili, ayisosisombululo. Linyathelo nje lokufikelela usukelo lokugqibela.
Injongo yokuyeka ukubukela iphonografi kunye nokuphulula amaphambili kukubuyisela umvuzo wengqondo kunye nokuthanda intsebenziswano yokwenyani yabantu endaweni yeepikseli kwiscreen. Injongo kukuyeka ukuziphatha kokubuyela ekhompyutheni endaweni yokuthatha ithuba kwaye umcele ukuba aphume. Injongo kukususa indlela engalunganga kwaye yokuziphatha ebonakalayo kwiinkqubo zethu kwaye qalisa kwakhona oko kwakuthethwe ngawo abantu: Revreace.
Uluhlu lweencwadi (iSimbo se-MLA):
UFiorino, uDennis F., u-Ariane Coury, kunye no-Anthony G. Phillips. "Ijenali yeNeuroscience." Utshintsho olunamandla kwi-Nucleus Accumbens Dopamine Efflux Ngexesha le-Coolidge Effect kwiiRats zaMadoda. Np, kunye neWebhu. 19 Jan. 2013.
Uvavanyo olukhulu lwePorn: UGary Wilson eTEDxGlasgow. Perf. UGary Wilson. YouTube. TEDxGlasgow, 16 May 2012. Web. 19 Jan. 2013.
Jiang, Ming, Xin Jiang, Qiang Zou, kunye neJin-wen Shen. Uphando malunga noBudlelwane phakathi kwe-Ejaculation kunye neNqanaba le-Testosterone yeSerum kum. Ijenali yeYunivesithi yaseZhejiang. Inzululwazi, ngoMatshi 2003. Web. 22 Jan. 2013. .
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