28歲-已婚:生活得到極大改善

我達到90天的標準,我想報告一下我一生中看到的一些好處:

  • 我對自己感覺更好。 一開始我已經很自信,但我的信心並沒有顯著提高,但是我注意到的是,基本上我一直對自己感到非常非常好。 不斷隱藏我的習慣的恥辱消失了。 令人難以置信的解放。
  • 我與妻子的關係有了很大改善。 在我開始nofap之前,我們已經建立了非常牢固的關係。 我們每天都花了很多時間在一起,我們有很強的溝通。 我可以誠實地說,我們從不打架,因為我們拒絕大喊大叫,我們總是互相傾聽,即使我們不同意某些事情。 現在我和我的妻子在一起度過的時間和以前的親密時光(在我們婚姻中的一個大弱點之前)對我們來說更加充實和愉快。
  • 一種安全的感覺。 在我始終確保清除瀏覽歷史記錄之前,如果要下載任何內容(很少,我通常只是查找東西),我會將其放在隱藏的文件夾中,所以沒人能找到它。 現在,我的瀏覽器很乾淨而且硬盤驅動器也很乾淨,我可以不用擔心將計算機解鎖,以便任何人查看。

總體而言,這對我來說是非常有益的經歷,我沒有計劃很快停止。 色情很爛,永遠不會回到我的生活。 這是事實。 搭檔通常是在浪費時間,我唯一一次允許我自己再做一次的是,如果我的妻子離開了一段時間,並且一條規則是,搭檔時我的想法是關於她的:排他地。 我開始進行nofap的部分原因是因為我想將性快感與我的妻子(只有我的妻子)聯繫起來。 我認為我已經在很大程度上取得了成功。

這是一條漫長而艱難的道路。 我有PMO習慣十多年了。 現在,我終於擺脫了束縛,這是非常滿足和解放的。

明智的一句話:永遠不要認為自己治癒了PMO成癮。 我傾向於認為自己的方式就像一個正在恢復的色情癮君子。 我想避免任何可能導致我再次陷入陷阱的自滿情緒。 在我的餘生中,我將成為一個正在恢復的色情癮君子,努力保持清潔,過上充實的生活。

感謝每個人以及所有努力前進的人的支持:繼續努力! 如果有人希望獲得有關方法的特定提示,請隨時詢問保持清潔的方法。 在主帖子中,我不再贅述,因為它已經是一堵巨大的文字牆。

TLDR:我已經整整90天了,我感到很驚奇,生活比以前更加出色100%。

90天–令人難以置信的生活改善

by Aeveras


 

60日報告 (self.NoFap)

by Aeveras

簡單地說:我的生活好多了。 我覺得自己像個男人。 我更開心 我的妻子更快樂。 我覺得我的妻子更親近了。 我更喜歡和妻子在一起(性感時間和平常時間)。 簡單地說,生活充滿了生命。

<--break->” src=”https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/spacer.gif” title=”<--break-->“>I have had some struggles recently. The temptations seem to be coming back and trying to trick me into viewing stuff that would probably be considered super softcore. On second thought, it probably wouldn’t even be considered porn, just sexy pictures.</p><p>It’s been a struggle but I’m saying no and even in the moments where I looked at some stuff that I know wasn’t good for me I kept my hands out of my pants. That right there is a huge victory in my mind. When I started on nofap one of the rules I set for myself that I would only touch myself for pleasure in conjunction with activities with my wife. In the past anytime I had an erection I felt like I HAD to MO. Now I seem to have the self control to not touch myself that way.</p><p>My goal is simple: no more porn for the rest of my life, and probably no fapping for the rest of my life. I want my sexual pleasure and excitement to be tied to my wife. It seems to be working, because my wife excites me so much more than before now. Even the hint of a striptease gets me super hard.</p><p>For anyone who might be struggling with constant relapse know that there IS hope. I was trapped in the PMO cycle for over a decade until I finally broke free.</p><p>The best advice I can give anyone struggling is to consider, seriously, how important being free of this addiction is to you. What sacrifices are you willing to make?</p><p>In my case, the sacrifice that has helped the most was choosing to block all social media and all image databases via K9 (my wife holds the password for me so I cannot change the settings without her help). This severely limits what I can access and makes it easier to stay clean because I know if I do want to find junk to look at it’s going to take a lot of work. Making access to porn difficult has made staying clean much easier.</p><p>TLDR: staying clean of porn and fapping has improved my life dramatically.</p></div></div><p> </p></div><footer class=