The issue of whether porn addiction is real has produced a storm of controversy. Yet all this noise may be distracting us from a graver risk to healthy sexuality: sexual conditioning of adolescents. READ MORE I monitor a number of popular online recovery forums. I have read self-reports of thousands of otherwise healthy young men […]
Read More… from “Porn Addiction: Not the Whole Story” PsychCentral
Young men are finding that addiction to hardcore videos is harming their physical ability to have real sex. Gary Wilson explains how science and online discussion groups are helping them to quit In 2007, something strange happened on the internet. I know, something strange is always happening on the internet. But this wasn’t a viral […]
It wasn’t that long ago that the world’s eager young wankers could happily jerk themselves into a state of exhaustion without a care in the world. But for some time now there’s been a growing level of consciousness of something that should probably have been quite obvious to anyone whose blood hadn’t all been redirected […]
Read More… from Fap Or Fuck: It’s Time to Choose (VICE interviews Gary)
Ok, so I’m just one day away from 100 and it feels like I reached that number all of a sudden, without even paying any attention to it since day 73 when I broke my previous record. This is by far the longest time I’ve been without PM (or any masturbation to visual stimuli) since […]
I’ve been abstaining from PMO on and off for a year now. I was in a long relationship previously (almost five years) and it was my first experience with sex. Unfortunately, I became addicted to PMO about a year in. I didn’t realize it at first, but it began to slowly affect my relationship. My […]
Read More… from ED – 1 year of struggle, but I am finally cured
Noah B. E. Church is a wildland firefighter, EMT, tutor, entrepreneur, speaker, and author. At 24 years old, he’s also a recovering porn addict. Having first encountered internet pornography at the age of nine, it wasn’t until very recently that he realised how badly his porn habit had affected his sexual and emotional well-being. Following […]
Read More… from Interview with Noah B.E. Church (author of WACK)
I had weird fetishes and could not stay hard during sex, 80 odd days in now fap now and I feel like I could screw the world and do a pretty good job at it as well. Sex anxiety has gone away I am now having great sex with my girlfriend. She was with me […]
Read More… from Age 19 – I had weird fetishes and could not stay hard during sex
I’m in my early 40’s and have been PMO’ing for 20+ years. I suffer/suffered from DE (delayed ejaculation) and have not had an orgasm via Oral, Vaginal, or any other method except by my own hand in at least 15 years. I had thought my problem was unique to me, and it caused tremendous pressure […]
Read More… from Age 42 – I haven’t ‘finished’ naturally in 15 years: Now I can
Yep, I am an old-fart. In my 40s. Felt the “superpowers” about 4 days in. Increased confidence. Public speaking got a lot easier. The ‘powers’ go down after sex, which is good and bad. Good cause the sex is amazing now. My ED and DE (delayed ejaculation) is totally gone now. I am experiencing similar […]
Read More… from Age 40s – ED & DE are totally gone. Sex is amazing. Increased confidence at work.
How crazy is that! 35 years old, had lots of sex over the years but never any intimacy and never a steady girlfriend due to: no confidence to speak to the girls I wanted unrealistic expectations low self esteem feelings of unworthiness Also suffered from escalating sexual fantasies due to years of daily porn viewing. […]
Read More… from Age 35 – extreme feishes, DE & ED, lack of intimacy