Eli candelo lijongana nezibophelelo ezibini kunye neziyobisi. Ubume bobuchopho obuphantsi kokubini kokudibana kunye nokulutha yinkqubo yomvuzo. Igama elithi `` bonder '' lithetha ukuba indoda nebhinqa bahlala kunye ukukhulisa inzala yabo. Mhlawumbi bahlala kunye ubomi bonke, okanye ixesha lokukhwelana kuphela. Eli lungiselelo lahlukile kwizilwanyana ezihenyuzayo, ezingabelaniyo ngomsebenzi wokuba ngumzali, kwaye zilandele namaqabane amaninzi.
Ngokumalunga ne-3% yezilwanyana ezinxilisayo zizibophelelo zembini, okanye zintombi zentlalo. Umntu ongumntu ongumntu oyedwa uthetha ukuba bahlale kunye, kodwa bangazikhohlisa ngeenxa zonke. Akukho zilwanyana zezilwanyana ezithandana ngesondo, nangona isibini phakathi kwezilwanyana sinokuhlala ngesondo.
Abantu ziindidi zokudibanisa. Sineesekethe zobuchopho zokuzibophelela kwiqabane, okanye ngokwemiqathango engeyoyenzululwazi, sithandana. Izilwanyana ezihenyuzayo azinaso isekethe yokubopha. Iindlela zokudibanisa izibini zibandakanya inkqubo yomvuzo kunye ne-dopamine. Ukubophelela kwenye, njengakwiibhondi ezimbini, sisiyobisi santlandlolo. Izifundo zeebhangers zibonisa izinto ezimbini:
- Ziyakwazi ukufumana izilwanyana.
- Iziyobisi zithimba iindlela zokubopha ezibhanti, zisenza ukuba kube nzima ukuhlala ubotshiwe, okanye "othandweni".
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