Ishumi labaneminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-13 ubudala boyika ukuba "likhoboka" kwiphonografi, uphando lwe-NSPCC ChildLine luye lwaqukumbela.
Jonga ividiyo Intombazana ethetha ngempembelelo ye-porn kuhlaselo xa yayineminyaka eyi-13
Omnye kwabahlanu kwabamalunga nama-700 oselula ekwenziwa uhlolisiso kubo wathi ubone imifanekiso engamanyala eyothusayo okanye eyabacaphukisayo, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba.
I-charity ikwathi i-12% yabo babuzwayo bathi bathathe inxaxheba, okanye benza, ividiyo ebonisa isondo.
Ithi ukubukela iphonografi “yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla” kuninzi lwabantwana abanxibelelana nomnxeba woncedo.
I-ChildLine iqalise iphulo lokuphakamisa ulwazi kunye nokubonelela ngeengcebiso kubantu abancinci malunga nemiphumo eyingozi yokugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo i-porn emva kweziphumo zophando.
'Aggressive'
Enye inkwenkwe engaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-15 ixelele iChildLine ukuba “wayesoloko ebukele iphonografi, kwaye ezinye zazo zinoburhalarhume”.
Wathi: “Ndandingacingi ukuba oku kuyandichaphazela ekuqaleni kodwa ndiye ndaqala ukuwajonga ngendlela eyahlukileyo amantombazana mvanje yaye oko kundenza ndibe nexhala.
“Ndingathanda ukutshata kwixesha elizayo kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba ingaze yenzeke loo nto ukuba ndihlala ndicinga ngamantombazana ngale ndlela ndiwacinga ngayo.”
Intombazana, esele ineminyaka eli-17 ngoku, yaxelela i-BBC ukuba yaxhatshazwa ngokwesondo sisithandwa sayo xa bobabini babeneminyaka eli-12 ubudala.
“Wayecinga ukuba kulungile kwinqanaba elithile,” watsho.
“Ndaziva ndimdaka, ndididekile, ndothukile.
Iphonografi ayisiyovidiyo yemizuzu eli-10 kuphela - ineziphumo.
Iphulo le-Childline Fight Against Porn Zombies (FAPZ) isebenzisa uluhlu lweemifanekiso ezijongayo kwiimpembelelo zokugqithiswa kwe-porn kumakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana.
Oopopayi banxibelelanisa kuluhlu lweenkcukacha kunye neengcebiso zokunceda abantu abatsha baqonde ifuthe lokuphindaphinda umxholo wephonografi kubomi bokwenyani kwaye ubakhusele ekuzibekeni emngciphekweni.
'Ufikelelo olulula'
UPeter Liver, ongumalathisi weChildLine, uthe kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokuphandle ngalo mba.
Wathi: “Abantwana abakubudala obahlukahlukeneyo namhlanje bayakwazi ukufikelela lula kwizinto ezininzi ezibonisa amanyala. “Ukuba siluluntu siyakuphepha ukuthetha ngalo mba, siyasilela kumawaka-waka olutsha oluchaphazelayo.
“Siyazi kubantu abancinci abanxibelelana ne-ChildLine ukuba ukubukela i-porn kuyinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla, kwaye i-poll yethu ibonisa ukuba omnye kwabahlanu kwi-12 ukuya kwi-13 yeminyaka ubudala ucinga ukuba ukubukela i-porn kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo.
"Baxelela i-ChildLine ukuba ukubukela i-porn kubenza bazive bedandathekile, kubanika imiba yemifanekiso yomzimba, kwaye kubenza bazive becinezelekile ukuba bahlanganyele kwizenzo zesondo abangazilungelanga."
Wamkela isibhengezo kwiveki ephelileyo yezicwangciso zokufundisa abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-11 malunga nokudlwengulwa kunye nemvume yezesondo njengenxalenye yemfundo yomntu, yentlalontle kunye nempilo (PSHE) ezikolweni.
“Iphulo lethu liyasixhasa ngokucacileyo esi siphakamiso,” utshilo.
"Kulo lonke uluntu, kufuneka sisuse ihlazo kunye neentloni ezikhoyo malunga nokuthetha nge-porn - yiyo loo nto sisungula lo msebenzi kwaye sincede abantu abancinci ukuba benze ukhetho olunolwazi."
'Iyonzakalisa kwaye iyakhathaza'
[Bukela ividiyo yengcaphephe ekhalisa ialam]
UDame Esther Rantzen, umsunguli weChildLine, uthe iyothusa into yokuba abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-11 besondela kumnxeba woncedo ngenkxalabo malunga nephonografi.
“Abantu abancinci bajikela kwi-intanethi ukuze bafunde ngesondo kunye nobudlelwane,” utshilo.
Siyazi ukuba bahlala bekhubeka kwi-porn, bahlala bengenzi ngabom, kwaye basixelela ngokucacileyo ukuba oku kuyingozi kwaye kuyabacaphukisa.
"Ingakumbi amantombazana athi aziva ngathi kufuneka ajonge kwaye aziphathe njengeenkwenkwezi ze-porn ukuze athandwe ngamakhwenkwe."
UDame Esther uthe ukuphuculwa kwemfundo kubalulekile.
"Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka sithethe nabantu abancinci ngesondo, uthando, intlonipho kunye nemvume ngokukhawuleza ukuba siziva silungile, ukuqinisekisa ukuba bafumana imbono efanelekileyo phakathi kobudlelwane bobomi bokwenyani kunye nelizwe elimangalisayo le-porn," watsho.
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