Imvumi ephumelele iGrammy uBillie Eilish kutshanje uthethe malunga nokuvezwa koonografi eneminyaka eyi-11, eveza iziphumo ezibi ebenazo kubomi bakhe, umfanekiso wakhe womzimba, kunye nokukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo. Kudliwanondlebe kwi "Howard Stern Show", inkwenkwezi eneminyaka eli-19 ubudala iveze iinkcukacha ezininzi ezibuhlungu:
Ndandidla ngokubukela i-porn eninzi, ukunyaniseka. Ndaqala ukubukela i-porn xa ndandineminyaka eyi-11 […] Ndicinga ukuba iyitshabalalise ngokwenene ingqondo yam, kwaye ndiziva buhlungu kakhulu ukuba ndivezwe kwi-pornography eninzi.
Ngexesha lodliwano-ndlebe, uBillie Eilish uchaze amava aqhelekileyo abasebenzisi be-porn ababikayo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, yena yanda kwizinto ezigqithisileyo ukuze kugcinwe umgangatho ofanayo wokuvusa.
iye yafikelela kwinqanaba lokuba ndingafuni…ndandingakwazi ukubukela enye into, ngaphandle kokuba inobundlobongela andizange ndicinge ukuba inomtsalane.
Ukwenza mfiliba imigca yemvume
Ukusetyenziswa koonografi kwemvumi akuzange kutshintshe nje into awayefuna ukuyijonga kwiscreen, ikwaphembelele amava akhe okuqala ngokwesondo kunye nento awayeziva enyanzelekile ukuba ayivume:
yakhokelela kwiingxaki. Amaxesha ambalwa okuqala, uyazi, ndalala ngesondo, andizange ndithi 'hayi' kwizinto ezingalunganga. Kungokuba ndandicinga ukuba yeyona nto ndandifanele nditsaleleke kuyo.
Ukuvezwa kwi-porn enobundlobongela njengomntwana kwakumkhathaza ngokucacileyo. “Ndicinga ukuba bendinedumbe ubuthongo kwaye ezi zoyikiso zasebusuku zinciphisa amaphupha amabi ngenxa yoko,” utshilo. "Ndicinga ukuba yindlela eqale ngayo kuba bendiza kubukela iBDSM exhaphazayo kwaye yile nto bendicinga ukuba inomtsalane."
Nangona kunjalo, ezi zityhilelo zendlela iphonografi ye-intanethi emchaphazele kakubi ngayo zonke zibuyela emva ngoku kuba mdala kwaye unobulumko. Ngaphambi kokuba abelane ngempembelelo embi enayo iphonografi kuye, wawachitha ngokungxamisekileyo ipropaganda ekhoyo ezivezwa lishishini le-porn kunye nezifundiswa eziqhutywa yi-ajenda ezibangayo phonografi ayibangeli iingxaki, kodwa kunokuba nayo “Iintloni” malunga nokusetyenziswa koonografi kubangela iingxaki. UBillie Eilish wachaza ukuba, kuye, akukho nto inokuqhubeka nenyani.
Ndandikade ndingumntu othetha nge-porn ngalo lonke ixesha. Ndiya kuba ngathi, 'O, kuyisiphukuphuku ukuba nabani na ucinga ukuba i-porn imbi okanye i-f ***,' uyazi, 'Ndicinga ukuba ipholile kwaye ilungile kwaye inika amandla.' [...] Ndandingumthetheleli kwaye ndandicinga ukuba 'ndingomnye wabafana' kwaye ndandithetha ngayo kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndipholile ngokungabi nangxaki ngayo kwaye ndingaboni ukuba kutheni imbi.
Ukuya phambili
Ibali likaBillie Eilish libalulekile kuba libonisa oko abasetyhini bavelisa iingxaki ekusebenziseni i-porn, kwaye abantwana abacinga ukuba i-porn "ixhobisa" kwaye suku ukuba neentloni ngokuyibukela kusenokubangela iingxaki. Ubume bezesondo kunye notshintsho lwengqondo olunxulumene nokulutha lunokwenzeka nokuba banentloni ngokusetyenziswa kwabo ngamanyala, okanye hayi.
Abakwishumi elivisayo kufuneka bafunde indlela yokulawula nokukhusela elona lungu lesondo libalulekileyo: kwengqondo. Kufuneka bafunde malunga nokujikeleza komvuzo wengqondo kunye nobuthathaka bayo obukhethekileyo ngexesha lokufikisa, ngakumbi malunga noku. 'izivuseleli ezingaqhelekanga' njenge-porn ye-intanethi.
Ubugorha bukaBillie Eilish ekwabelaneni ngebali lakhe esidlangalaleni kubhence iingcamango ezingezizo kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuya kunceda abantu abaninzi abatsala nzima. Ngoku kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuba sifunde kumava akhe, kwaye sifundise isizukulwana esilandelayo solutsha malunga nobungozi obunokwenzeka be-porn.
Kuba ukuba asikho? Ngoku iya kuba lihlazo.
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