Ngaba Ufuna Uncedo Emva Kosondo? (2010)

Ngesinye isikhathi isifiso sithatha phezulu emva kwesondo eshushu

Ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo kubangela ukungazinzi

Ngaba "okukhona ukrwela, kokukhona urhawuzelayo" ngamanye amaxesha kusebenza kwiijoli zesondo? Ngaba inyani iyinyani? Okubangela umdla, amaTshayina aqaphela "ukonyusa iminqweno yesini emva kobuhlanga" kumawaka eminyaka eyadlulayo. Amadoda namhlanje enza njalo:

Ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndixhalabile kwiintsuku ezilandelayo. Ngamaxesha anje, ndinemizwa enamandla yokutsala abanye abantu basetyhini (nangona bendingafuni ukulala nomntu ongomnye ngaphandle kweqabane lam) .—Tom

Intombi yam entsha saye sahlukana, kwaye ngoku, usuku okanye ezimbini kamva, ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyabona ukuba kunamandla okuhlaziya i-masturbate kwaye ndiphinde ndijonge i-porn (emva kweenyanga ezintathu ezingenasondo). Kubonakala ngathi kuyaphikisana ukuba ukuphathana kwethu okunzima kunokubangela oku, kodwa kuyenzeka. Ndiyidlwengula ngakumbi kwaye ndade ndakhangela iifoto ezizenzekelayo izolo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndazama ukuphulula amalungu esini ngaphandle kwe-porn. Ndothuswa ngumsindo, iimpawu zam zokurhoxa * azange ziye kwaphela. Ukuvuseleleka okungamanyala kuphela kwandinika ukukhululeka okwethutyana kwezi minqweno kwaye, mhlobo wam, yingcinga eyoyikisayo neyoyikisayo. Geza, kunene kufana nokuqhekeka, uyazi? -Dick

Emva kokuba i-orgasm yokuqala ehleliweyo, ndandisondele gqitha kumfazi wam, kwaye ekuqaleni ndaziva ndonwabile. Emva kwamanye amabini ama-orgasms, ndaqala ukucinga xa ndifumana enye-mhlawumbi kathathu ngeyure. Emva koko ndafumana enye i-orgasm yodwa, kwaye ukuphindaphindiweyo kweengcamango malunga nokuphindwe kabini. Kaloku ukuba ndiyazi ukuba ndikhangele ntoni, kuya kucace ukuba ubukele inkqubo. Kucacile ukuba i-fregasy ephezulu ye-orgasm iyimpembelelo ephazamisayo, ekubonweni kwe-utilitarian, engathandekiyo. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokugqibela, umzekelo ngamnye ndibuyele kwi-pornography okanye ndenze i-masturbated ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke ngosuku emva kokuba ndibe ne-orgasm ngexesha lesini.-Harry

Ndabona ukuba emva kokubhikisha kwi-pornography, kufuneka ufune ukuzitshintshela ukuba ubuyele kumzila ngoba i-orgasm yenza u-hornier. Izinsuku ezintathu zokuqala zinzima.-max

Kude kwiveki ephelileyo, bendineeveki ezine ndingajiki kwaye ndiziva ndilungile ngayo. I-ejaculation enye kwaye ndigqithise kakhulu kwaye ndiziva ndilingwa yi-porn. Khange ndibenamava kwezi veki zine. Ngoku ndiziva ndizingca. Ndiyakuthanda ukunika umfazi wam, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda ukufumana enye indlela kwakhona.-Alan

Emva kwemizamo emininzi, ndakwazi ukufikelela kwiintsuku ze-90 ze-porn. Ubomi bam baphucuka kakhulu… ndahlukana nentombi yam, ndalala namantombazana ama-4, ndafumana intombi entsha. Ndandihlala, ndithembekile, njl. Kwezinye iinyanga ndandifumana i-LOTS yesini esesabekayo, kodwa kwafuneka abuyele kwilizwe lakhe ngoJanuwari. Emva kokuba emkile… kakuhle, i-porn / fapping iminqweno yabuya HARD. Ndaye ndafaka amaxesha ama-2/3 ngemini kwaye ndibukele iphonografi (into endandingayenzanga kwiinyanga ze-6). Konke ibikukuhla ukusuka apho: Ukuphulukana nenkuthazo, ayiphumanga ngeempelaveki, ndafumana ubunzima, njlnjl. Emva koko kwafuneka ndilale nenye intombazana kwaye… masithi yayiyinto edanisayo. Khange “ndisebenze” njengoko bendisenza ngaphandle kokufota. Ke ngoku, ndizimisele ngakumbi kunangaphambili, ndibuyile kwiintsuku ze-5 ze-nofap kwaye ndiziva ndibhetele kakhulu. Kwam eyona ngozi inkulu ziintsuku ze-3 emva kokulala ngesondo okanye ukufota. Ukuba ungagqitha kuloo nto, sisiqwenga sekhekhe. Kodwa iminqweno emva kokwabelana ngesondo… f * ck leyo sh * t. Ndenza iziyobisi ezininzi nazo, kwaye ukufota ngokuqinisekileyo kunzima ukuyeka. Ke ulumke. Musa ukubuyela umva. Ukuba uziva ngathi uyaphuphuma vele uphume wenze nantoni na onokuyenza ukuze ufumane isondo lokwenyani. Ukufakwa kwefayile akufanelekanga.-Ralf

Ngokomphengululi uDoulas Wile (Ubugcisa beBherchamber), i-Daoists yamandulo yaseTshayina yabhala ukuba i-orgasm inokukhulisa umnqweno wesini (emva kwento yokuvuselela emva kwasemva komtshato) -ngokuba iyakhuphela emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Kwangelo xesha, banyanzelisa ukuba ubudlelwane obumnandi babalulekile empilweni entle nasemzimbeni.

zabo isisombululo kule khowudi landela ukufumanisa ukuba ukulala ngesondo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwakuncipha ngakumbi kunokwakheka kwesini ngesinye isikhathi kunye nesenzo sokuhlala. Ngokombono wabo, isondo esiningi kunye ne-orgasm encinci londla ngokwenene izithandwa ezizinzileyo kunye nomzimba wonke ingoma (amandla), kunye namadoda akhululekileyo "kwiingcinga zenkanuko."

Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuzama ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zesondo "ngenkcitho ngaphandle kothintelo" kuyigqibile ingqondo, ukubalwa kweempawu ezinje nge-ejaculation ngaphambi kwexesha, ukungonwabi emva kwe-orgasm, ukuphuma ebusuku kunye nokungahambelani kobudlelwane.

Awu, bafazi. Benza iphakamileyo ephakamileyo kwaye iyanqanda ngokuphindaphindiweyo.-UFriedrich Nietzsche

Ngaba ngaba ababukeleyo bekunene? Ngaba ubuncinane bezinto eziphakamileyo zikhokelela kwiindawo ezincinci kunye nolwaneliseko oluninzi? Mhlawumbi mhlawumbi, nangona ulungelelwaniso lokufunda emva kweminyaka "yokuchitha ngaphandle kokuthintela" kufuna ukuba uvule ingqondo, umonde kunye noburharha. Nazi ezinye iingxelo zabathandi:

Umfana wokuqala

Siye sazama le ngcamango malunga nenyanga. Yam markcard:

• Akukho nxeba

• Akukho masturbation yedwa

• Akukho nto ejaculation kwiiveki ezintathu

• Iintlanzi ezintathu “zamathafa”, ngaphandle kokuphuma

• Umkami kunye nam siyaqalwa kwakhona

Imifanekiso engamanyala iyamangalisa kulula ukuyishiya (ewe, ndaye ndakhangela kanye kwiveki yokuqala). Andibonanga zimpawu zokurhoxa kwaye andiziva ndilingwa kakhulu. Oku kuyamangalisa kum, kuba bendijonga iphonografi rhoqo kumashumi eminyaka. Ngexesha leveki yokuqala, ndaye ndenza i-ejaculate kathathu. Ukususela ngoko ndiye ndazibona iinzuzo zokuba 'ndingayi.' Ukuba ndiziva ndinqwenela ukuya kwi-cum, ndiyayiphumza kwaye ndiyivumele idlule. Emva koko sikulungele ngakumbi. Ndonwabile kakhulu ekwenzeni uthando olude, olucothayo olubonakala ngathi alupheli. Ndiye ndafumana i-orgasm enye engakholekiyo kunye nezinto ezibini ezi-mellow (zonke zingenayo i-ejaculation.) Kodwa ukuhlala rhoqo kwi-orgasms akusosisizathu sam esiphambili sokuphila. Elona candelo lililo kukuba umtshato wethu uphume ixesha elide kwaye uvuselelwe. Umfazi wam kunye nam sisondele kunokuba besineminyaka, ebhedini nasemini yonke.

Umntu wesibini

Okokuqala, ndakwazi ukuhamba phantse iiveki ezintandathu ngaphandle kwe-orgasm kwaye ngelo xesha ndaziva ndizinzile ngokweemvakalelo. Ngelo xesha ndalala ngesondo kunye neqabane lam. Nangona kunjalo, kwinyanga ephelileyo okanye ndibuyile ndabuya ndaya rhoqo "ngesiqhelo" kwi-orgasmic frequency ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo (1-2x / iveki) kwaye imeko zam ziye zazinza. Ndizibandakanya ngakumbi ekuqhubekeni nasekuxabaneni kunangaphambili. Ndiziva ndilungile ngexesha kwaye ndiziva ndilungile ukuba ndingayi kwi-orgasm, kodwa ukwakheka kukhuthazo kwenza kube nzima ukuba ndingafuni ukukhululwa ngaxa lithile.

Umntu wesithathu

Ndiyinciphisile imvama yam ye-orgasm ukuya kuthi ga kwikota enye kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo (eyayiyi-0.76 / usuku). Ukunyanzelwa kwi-orgasm, endandingakwazi ukuyiphelisa iminyaka emininzi, kuye kwancipha ngokuqondakalayo. Umfazi wam uthe uyasiqonda isizathu sam sokuzama ukunciphisa isantya se-orgasm, kodwa xa sisenza uthando, ngamanye amaxesha uzama ukundenza i-orgasm. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukungqamanisa indlela yam yokuziphatha ngokwesondo nomfazi wam ekugqibeleni kuya kusisondeza. Ukuba i-orgasm rhoqo yayiyeyona glu yeemvakalelo zibalaseleyo kubudlelwane, ngekhe sibuye ngokungenakuphikiswa, sihambelane ngokuvisisana kudala. I-Orgasm ayizisi abathandi kufutshane. Eyona nto indicaphukisayo kukuba uhlala ene-orgasm ngexesha / enxulunyaniswa nesini (kwaye enee-orgasms ezimbalwa ngokubanzi), kwaye ebesoloko efumana ukonyusa ubudlelwane kweziphumo ze-orgasms ezimbalwa. Ngokungafaniyo nam, akazange akhalaze ngokungoneliseki ngokwesondo, kunqabile ukuba aqale ukulwa, kwaye waneliseke ngakumbi bubomi kunye nomtshato wethu.

Umntu wesine

Ubomi bam bobulili bungcono kunokuba bekunjalo. Ndifumana ngakumbi, kunye nokwabelana ngesondo okungcono kunangaphambili. Ndiyonwabile ngakumbi, kwaye ndinamathele ngakumbi kumfazi wam. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba abanye bethu banamandla esini asebenzayo kunabanye, kwaye oku kungasifumana "izinja zophondo" engxakini. UKarezza [ukuthandana ngesondo ngaphandle kwenjongo ye-orgasm] ukuhlangula! I-Karezza ifana ne-ritalin yendalo kubuntu be-ADHD. Iye yasindisa ubomi kum.

Umfana wesihlanu-

(Ngubani owaye waphinda waqalisa ngokutsha) Emva kokuhlaziya i-masturbation, ndaqaphela ukuba umphumo we-chaser wawusenyani. Ke xa ndandihamba ixesha ngaphandle kwe-orgasm, iiveki ezimbini zokuqala ngakumbi iintsuku ze-4 kunye ne-7, kunye ne-10 - 12 zazinzima kakhulu. Emva koko kubakho utshintsho engqondweni. Ngamava am lawo. Okwangoku, ndikumhla we-20 ukusukela M / O wokugqibela kwaye ndiziva ndonwabile. Ndisaziva ngamanye amaxesha ukubamba, ukuba ndinephupha elimanzi kunokwenzeka ukuba ndifuna isondo okanye MO.

Umfazi-

Kuthatha umyeni wam inyanga ukuba abuyele emva kokusebenzisa isohlwayo olunzulu. Ngoku ngoku sinciphisa i-orgasms yethu malunga nanye ngenyanga, kwaye sibona ukubahluko omkhulu. Ilungiselelo lethu elitsha linelisekile kwaye asiyikukhathazeka. Ludinga uthando oluqhelekileyo kunye nokuvuswa komzimba (okufutshane kwe-orgasm) ukuba uhlale ungundoqo.

Ingaba isayensi yanamhlanje ingayichaza na ukukhanya kula mava? Mhlawumbi. Ngapha koko, iiDaoists zazilungile ukuba ingqondo sisitshixo. Ukuvuselelwa okunzulu (ayisiyiyo kuphela into yanamhlanje exhasa isini-izinto ezincedisayo, kodwa nokuba zivusa ngokwaneleyo isondo kunye ne-orgasm) kunokuba ngumqondiso kwingqondo ukuze ujonge kolunye ukhuthazo olukhulu.

Oku kuyahambelana ngokupheleleyo neutywala”Ingcinga: umbono wokuba xa ubhaliso lubhalisa imincili enzulu (ngohlobo lomqondiso we-neurochemical ukuba into exabiseke ngokwenene imalunga), iyaziphotha okwethutyana ukuze isikhuthaze ukuba silandele okungakumbi. I-Daoists yathi ininzi kakhulu "iyancipha ingqondo," ehambelana nale ngcamango, njengokuba ukuphazamiseka kunokwenzeka ukuba, ngokuyinxalenye, imveliso nciphisa i-D2 (dopamine) receptors kwi-striatum yengqondo.

Naliphi na indlela echanekileyo, isiphumo sinokuthi, endaweni yokuziva unelisekile emva kokuvuswa kwezesondo, ngokukhawuleza sijonge ngokukhawuleza ukuze sivuselele. Inyaniso, ukutshisa i-hook-up, inamandla ngakumbi. Ngoko ulungele oko. Lo mfana wazibonela oku:

Ukudibanisa kwakumangalisa! Kwakukule ntshontsho yaseBrazil. ENTLE! Saxhamla kwindlu yendlu yokuhlambela. Ndifuna ngaphezulu emva komjikelo wokuqala, kodwa sele eyifumene. Ngaphandle koko, sasihlala kwigumbi lokuhlambela ixesha elide kwaye abantu baqala ukunkqonkqoza emnyango bekrokrela. Yayiyinto entle kakhulu, mhlawumbi phezulu kuluhlu lwam, kodwa ukufika kwam ekhaya ndaye ndayiphinda entloko kwaye ndifuna okungakumbi. imbi kakhulu. Kwafuneka ndiyikhulule kwakhona okanye ndandiza kutsiba eweni! Ndineemfuno ezincinci zokubukela iphonografi kwakhona kodwa andinakukwazi ukuzizisa kuyo. Wowu! Ubuncinci ndiyazi ukuba ndingaphezu kwesiyobisi! Kodwa ngoku i-masturbation ibuyele kwaye ndiqala ukuqaphela ukuxhalaba kweentlalo kuphinda kuphinda kwakhona. Ndiyikhumbula indoda yam ephezulu!

I-orgasm ekhuselekileyo ingasiphonsa kwisantya sokunganeliseki kunye nokudimazeka. Okubi nakakhulu, kunokubangela ukuba abathandi bathandane ngokungahambisani neemfuno zabo zesini, xa ngokwenene, ukunganeliseki kwabo ngumkhiqizo weenguqu zengqondo yenguqu ephosakeleyo, engenakuphumelela ngempumelelo ngokunyusa.

Ngokwahlukileyo, abathandi abathandanayo ngokuzinzileyo kwaye kaninzi, bengenayo i-neurochemical blast ye-arousal kunye ne-orgasm, bahlala bexhamla ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuvuna amaninzi amanzuzo ebusini kunye nobudlelwane obusondelene nabo, bagcine ukuqonda kakuhle komnye nomnye, kwaye ugweme izifiso ezinomsindo wokuvuselela okukhulu. Kanye njengoko iiDaoists zibhaliswe.

Ekugqibeleni, njengoko abafana beqala kwakhona, ukunyaniseka kwempembelelo emva kwesigxina kudla ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko nangona uvakalelwa kukuba unamandla okhuphayo xa usaphinda ubuyeke, ngoku kusenokwenzeka ukuba uhlale unjalo ngendlela yakho engqondweni.

Iingcinga ezi-17 kuNgaba Ufuna Uncedo Emva Kosondo? (2010)"

  1. Amava omntu omnye 'wesiphumo sokusukela'

    Ndandisondela kwiiveki ezimbini (bekuya kuba ngoMvulo) ndiziva ndihle. Nangona ndibe neempembelelo ezimbi ezimbi, njengentlungu, amaphupho angaqhelekanga, kunye neengxaki zokulala ngokugqithiseleyo, ndandisanda kuqaphela ezinye iingenelo zokungabikho. Ukuzithemba kwam kwakusenyuka, ndandizikhulula ngakumbi kwiimeko zentlalo, ezininzi iintsuku ndaziva ndomeleleyo kwaye ndiphila, ubuso bam kunye nesikhumba bebukeka bomelele kwaye bephila, kwaye ndiqala ukuhlaziya emva kokungabikho xesha elide. Iingcamango kwaye unxusa abantu babike ukuba ndandibonakala ndingenakho, kuba inxalenye enkulu.

    Ndiyicinga inyani yokuba bendiqala ukubona ujikelezo lwandiguqula ukuba ndibe nokhuseleko lobuxoki- ngokungathi bekungafuneki ukuba ndiqhubeke ndibeka imizamo yengqondo ukuze ndihlale kude ne-pmo. Emva kokuba nobusuku obukhathazayo apho ndingakhange ndithethe nyani namantombazana endiya kuwafuna, ndafika ekhaya ndaza ndanomnqweno onamandla wokuba ndinikezele. Kwakungekho kwizinto ezinzima endihlala ndizenza kwikhompyuter, kodwa izinto ezithambileyo zeSkinemax. Ukunyaniseka ngokupheleleyo, ndandinxilile kwaye ndithatha intsangu, ke ndiqinisekile ukuba amandla am okuqiqa ancitshisiwe. Ndiyazi xa ndijika isitishi ukuba akukho kubuya mva kwaye andikhathalelanga ngalo mzuzu.

    Ndavuka ndiziva ndingalunganga kodwa ndingazinzanga kakhulu kum. Ndiyazi ukuba ndingaphinda ndiqale kwakhona, kwaye ukuba ngelinye ixesha ndibone iphonografi esempilweni (xa kuthelekiswa nezinto endizibukeleyo xa bendilikhoboka elipheleleyo, kodwa ngaba ikhona iphonografi esempilweni?) Yayingekokuphela kwehlabathi. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ndivukile ndifuna okungakumbi. Ndinezibongozo ezomeleleyo endinazo ukusukela oko ndaqala. Ndaziva ndingenamandla, ngokungathi bekungenakuphepheka ndiza kusebenzisa i-pmo nangona ingcinga yam yayikhala kakhulu. Ndaye ndazibophelela kwizinto ezigabadeleyo kwikhompyuter yam eyandifaka kule meko kwindawo yokuqala-izinto endineentloni ngazo kwaye endizifumanayo ziyenyanyeka, kodwa ingqondo yam engamakhoboka ayinakuhlala kude nayo. Ndine-blocker, kodwa ke ingqondo yam endlala iphonografi ifumene indlela yokuyijikeleza.

  2. Nantsi amava omsebenzisi ongeyena-porn:

    Ndineengxaki ngokunyanzelisa i-masturbation ngexesha elithile. Ndizifumene ndisenza lonke ixesha kwaye ndikufumene kunzima ukuyeka. Ndisandula ukwaphula isiqu sam sesithathu ngokuyeka. (Inye ibe malunga neeveki ezintathu). Ndicinga ukuba eli xesha lelokuqala ukuba andikaze ndizabalaze nangaluphi na uhlobo lwesiphumo sokusukela. Ndicinga ukuba mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka uyeke okwethutyana ide ingqondo yakho ikwazi ukuzilungisa, kwaye emva koko unokugcoba ngempilo emva koko. Ndicinga ukuba kum mhlawumbi iiveki ezimbini yindawo elungileyo eshiyekileyo. Kodwa xa ndiqala ukuzama ukuyeka ndifuna ixesha elide ukuze ndingabuyiswa ekunyanzeleni i-masturbating.

  3. Iposti yale ndoda iyabonisa
    uhlobo lomjikelo we-neurochemical osebenza emva kwesiphumo sokuleqwa. Uyabona ukuba iintsuku "ezantsi" (apho abanye abantu befumana nje umnqweno onamandla) banokuqhuba umntu abuyele kwi-porn ukuzama ukufumana elinye ixesha elifutshane leemvakalelo ezilungileyo. Ingxaki kukuba, kubasebenzisi abaninzi, ngokuhamba kwexesha i-lows iya isiba mandundu kwaye ukuphakama kukudlula ngokukhawuleza.

    Ndifumene umzekelo womntu wobuqu: Usuku endiyidlwengula kunye nosuku olulandelayo lukhulu, luninzi lamandla kwaye linethemba elikhulu. Emva koko iintsuku ze-2-3 ziyingozi kakhulu: iintloko, ukukhathala, ubuvila, ukudandatheka kancinci ngamanye amaxesha.
    Ukuba ndiyaziphumelela ezi (ngaphambili, bendisoloko ndisohluleka), ndibeka ulungelelwaniso kwimeko yesiqhelo, ndingaziphakamisi kakhulu, kodwa ndingadandatheki, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndikulungele ukubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi enzima. Umahluko omkhulu kuphela kukufumana amandla ngakumbi kwizinto zomzimba. Olu luphuculo olucacileyo.

  4. Ndicinga ukuba ndingaphela ndinokufumana ezinye zezi zinto kungekudala…
    Ndiye ndaziyeka kwi-PM iiveki ezimbini. Umfazi wam senza uthando malunga neveki kunye nesiqingatha-edlulileyo. Umama-mkhwenkwe nomkhwekazi baye batyelela ixesha elithile kwaye oku kwenza kube lula ukungahambi nabo.

    Ke ndiye ndaqaphela ngoku ukuba khange ndihlaziye umnqweno wam wokuba umfazi wam uvela kwindawo ehluke kakhulu. Kubonakala kunxulumene ngakumbi nomnqweno womzimba kuye, endicinga ukuba yeyona nto. Uyavuya kakhulu ukuba angakhuphisani nesandla sam sasekunene. Kodwa nabantu endlini akunakwenzeka ukuba "bathandane".

    Ndicinga ukuba iyakutshintsha kule mpelaveki emveni kokuba wonke umntu emkile… ndiyathemba. 🙂 Kodwa ngokwenene ndiqala ukonwabela ukuziyeka kwi-masturbation. Njengoko abanye beqaphele, ilizwi lam libuyile ukuze livakale ngakumbi kwaye linzulu. Ndiziva ndibhetele. Ndikwazi ngcono ukugxila emsebenzini wam kwaye andiziva ndineentloni ngalo lonke ixesha.

    Zonke izibonelelo ezilungileyo zokuziyeka.

  5. Omnye umzekelo we "chaser"

    Emva kokubuyela umva, iintsuku ezimbini ezalandelayo zazinzima kakhulu. Ndinobunzima obukhulu ekugxileni, ngakumbi emva kwemini. Ndikuva ngokwenene ukukhutshwa kwe-dopamine entlokweni yam njengoko ingqondo yam yaziva icotha kwaye indindisholo. Amagama am ayengacacanga kwaye ndinobunzima ekunxibelelaneni nabanye. Emva koko, umnqweno wokuphulula amaphambili kunye nokwabelana ngesondo wawunamandla kunangaphambili. Le veki yayiyeyona inzima ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yokuphinda ubuye. Ngelixa ndandikwimifanekiso engamanyala / ye-masturbation, ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo zam kwakunzima kwaye ndandinomsindo omkhulu kunye nenzondo. Ndiqaphele njengoko ixesha lihamba, la maxesha ancipha rhoqo. Kwiveki ephelileyo, ndinamava okutshintsha kwemozulu ngenxa yokubuyela umva ndicinga. Nangona kunjalo, kwahlukile kuba ndakuba ndiwuva umsindo kunye nokudakumba, bekuhambe kakuhle endaweni yokuphindaphinda kumjikelo engqondweni yam. Kwakhona, amaxesha ayemfutshane kodwa ayomelele ngakumbi, ngokungathi ndandiziva ngokwenene ngeemvakalelo. Ndinombulelo kuba ndade ndasifumana isizathu sokuba ndizive ndinomsindo kwaye ndidandathekile ngalo lonke ixesha. ”

  6. Iphupha elimanzi
    unobangela "wokuleqa" kwabanye (kodwa hayi abanye). Nantsi ingxelo yomntu omnye:

    Ke izolo bendinephupha lam lesibini elimanzi okoko ndayeka iphonografi. Kufanelekile kangakanani, ndicinga ukuba ndicinga malunga (nentombazana) ngaphambi kokuba ndilale. Ndiyicinga ukuba yinkqubela phambili ngaphambili xa ndandinokuphupha kuphela ngamaphupha angamanyala. Ngenxa yoko, ndaziva ndiba buhlungu imini yonke. Ndaziva ndiphelile kwaye ndidikiwe imini yonke. Kufuneka ube sisiphumo sokusukela.

  7. I-Chaser iyakushintsha ukuqonda
    Lo mfana wathi:

     Ke ndiye ndaphinda ndaphinda ndabuya ngoLwesithathu, emva kwenyanga engaphezulu kwe-porn simahla… Khange ndicinge ukuba iyakubuchaphazela ubomi bam yonke le nto ingako, kodwa ubukrwada obungcwele buyenzile kwaye ndicaphukile. Nantsi kumnyama nomhlophe:

    Bendithandana nale ntombazana malunga neeveki ezi-2 ngoku: Umhla woku-1-bendonwabile, ndithetha ubusuku bonke kwaye ndidanisa ebharini. Umhla we-2-waya kukubhowula, emva koko wayokuphungula iziselo, wathetha ubusuku bonke kwaye wonwaba kwakhona. Umhla we-3-Isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya, babenexesha elimnandi, babuyela endlwini yam bekhonkxiwe kunye, kwaye ndaziva ndimangalisiwe. Omnye weyona mihla intle ndibenayo okwethutyana…. NGOKU XELELA NGOKUQHUBEKA NOKUPHILA NGOKUPHELELEYO NEYURE EZI-3 ZEBHAYIBHILE NGOLWESITHATHU…. Umhla we-4 izolo-uye kwisidlo sasemini kunye nemyuziyam, umhla wonke endimgxeka engqondweni. “Amazinyo akhe amhlophe ngokwaneleyo, utyebe kancinci, incoko yakhe iyadika, njl.” Ukubamba izandla naye ndiziva ndinyanzelwe, bendingafuni ukuba kufutshane naye, ingqondo yam yahamba yaza ekugqibeleni, wandibuza ukuba kutheni ndithule kangaka. Ndikwazile ukubeka umboniso, ke ndicinga ukuba ubenexesha elifanelekileyo, kodwa kum ibilixesha elibi. Ndandifuna nje ukusuka kuye.

    Bonke ubusuku bokugqibela bendizibuza… Yintoni engalunganga ngam? Kutheni ndingayithandi nje le ntombazana? Ndingaze ndiyigcine intombi? Kutheni ndingasamthandi? Ngaba ndiya kuze ndithande nabani na? Khange ndicinge ukuba ukubuyela umva kunokuba nefuthe elingako… Kodwa emva koko kwathi qatha kum, jonga iinyani. Kwenzeka nini ukuba i-porn binge yenzeke, kwaye loluphi usuku olubi? Le ilandelayo emva kweseshoni ye-PMO… Ayisiyongxaki leyo.

    Ke ndiziva ngathi inokuba ndiyonakalisile, kodwa ndinomnye umhla phofu. Sihlangene ngoMvulo. Ingqondo yam kufuneka ibe ilunge ngakumbi, kwaye siya kuyinika elinye ithuba. Nokuba yeyiphi na, esi sisihogo esinye senkuthazo yokungaze uphinde uthinte izinto kwakhona.

  8. Umqhubi
    luhlobo olugqithisileyo lomjikelezo oqhelekileyo we-neurochemical after orgasm. Kuhle ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi eyakho. Ngaphandle koko unokuhendwa ukuba ube ne-orgasm rhoqo ... kwaye ufumane iqabane lakho lingathandeki ixesha elininzi. Nantsi i-anecdote yelungu leforum malunga nale nto:

    NgoLwesine, ndishiya umsebenzi, ndaqaphela ukuba kukho amantombazana angama-5 amangalisayo phambi kwethu, kwaye mna nomhlobo wam sathetha ngako. Uyibiza ngokuba "nguLwesine weMpembelelo." I-gf yakhe ihlala eGothenburg, ke bayahlangana ngeempelaveki (bayatshintsha xa behamba).

    Uthi ngentsasa yangoMvulo akaboni nayiphi na intombazana enomtsalane kwimetro, zimbalwa ngoLwesibini, ezinye zangoLwesithathu, kwaye ngoLwesine igcwele ngamantombazana amnandi- esekwe kwimitha yangaphakathi ayisebenzisayo ukujonga ukuba unjani. Kulungile, unomjikelo weveki. Yintoni eyam? :-)

  9. Elinye ilungu lebhunga:

    Emva kweentsuku ze-6 zokuqalisa kwakhona, ndibuyele umva. Yayiyindidi yesidenge.

    Ngoku, usuku lwe-1 kamva, ndiziva ndifuna ngamandla kwi-PMO, nokuba ipenisi yam ifile ngokupheleleyo. Ngoku ndiyayiqonda kakuhle into yokuba likhoboka liziva njani. Ayisiyo ipenisi efuna i-PMO… akukho ndlela. Ingqondo. Ifuna i-damn dopamine…

    Ndiziva ndibi kakhulu. Namhlanje walala kakhulu.

    Iimpawu:

    1. impawu ezimbi kakhulu ezinjengomkhuhlane. Umsindo wam emqaleni ufana nobuqhophololo.

    2. Sindwe kakhulu.

    3. ukudakumba. Ndibona yonke into emnyama. Iphantse yafika njengosuku olubi ebomini bam.

    4. Ukuxhalaba, ukwesaba.

    5. Ilizwi lam livaliwe

    6. Ukulala

    7. Ndineenkwenkwezi zeDeja Vu. Ngokungaqhelekanga

    8. Ukucinga kakhulu malunga namanyala ambalwa. Andikwazi ukuzikhupha entlokweni yam.

    9. Ayikwazi ukusebenza, andinasiphelo.

    10. Ngahlelwa.

  10. Ndiva ukuba ndikwilizwe leengxaki kwaye ndifuna UNCEDO!
    Ndiyiminyaka eyi-24 ubudala kwaye ndiqalise kwakhona ngoku kwiintsuku ezingama-52 ezidlulileyo. Ndiye ndaxhonywa kakuhle, kwada kwaneeveki ezimbalwa emva, emva kokulala ngesantombazana yam, ndiza kufumana iimpembelelo ezinkulu kwi-PMO (andizange ndibe nayo ngaphambili). Ixesha le-1 lalimalunga ne-2 1/2 iiveki emva, ndibukele imifanekiso embalwa kwaye ngokungazi ndaqala ukuzihlikihla ngaphezulu kweebhlukhwe zam. Njengokuba yayingumlingo, ndenza imizuzwana malunga nemizuzwana ye-10 kuyo! Oku kwenzeka emva kwemini, emva kokulala ngesantombazana yam ekuseni. Ixesha le-2nd lenzeke malunga neveki kamva, kuphela ngeli xesha, ndandibukela imifanekiso embalwa kwaye ndazinqanda ukuba ndingathinti kwaye ndivale iifestile ngaphambi kokuba ndifumane i-MO. Ngoku, namhlanje ekuseni walala nentombazana yam kunye nemizuzu embalwa edlulileyo ndandinomdla onamandla kwi-PMO. Ndanele ngokwaneleyo ukuba andizukubukela iividiyo, ndaphinda kwakhona, ndaqala ukubukela imifanekiso kwaye ndacinga kum, "ndinokuthi ndigqibe ngayo", ndiye ke ndaya MO'ed imizuzwana ekubukeni komfanekiso.

    Ndiva ngathi ndonakalisa iReboot endikade ndiyilandela ngezi zinto zincinci, kuba isini sam kunye nobomi ekuhlaleni buphucuka. Ndizithiyile ngokunikezela kule minqweno xa isondo kunye nentombazana yam lihle! Ukuba kukho naliphi na icala elilungileyo kwezi zinto bendikhe ndanazo, ngaba ayikaze ndibukele naziphi na iividiyo (apho ndiza kuchitha iiyure ndibukele kwaye ndi-MO'ing), umahluko kukuba emva kokubukela imifanekiso embalwa, ngaphandle kwemizuzu emi-5, ndenza i-orgasm ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndivale yonke into kude. Inyani yomcimbi kukuba, ndifuna UKUQHUBEKA ngokupheleleyo ndilahle le porn kunye nomkhwa wokuphulula amalungu esini, kodwa ingqondo yam yokulutha inamandla ngamanye amaxesha.

    Ndifundile ngophononongo lwabasebenzisi oluchazwe kweli nqaku, kwaye ndiyavuya ukwazi ukuba ayindim ndedwa owenza lo msebenzi wokuleqa. Ndiza kuzama konke okusemandleni ngeli xesha kungabikho mntu uzalisekisa umnqweno wam ekupheliseni lo mkhwa wengxowa.

    Ndiyabulela ukuva kwam.

  11. Ukusuka reddit-NoFap

    Ewe, kumava am elona xesha lam libuthathaka ziiyure ze-18 emva kokuba ndilale nomfazi wam. Emva kokuba ndibuyele kwi-orgasm ndinomdla onamandla wokujonga iphonografi. Ingathi kukho into ekhutshiweyo. Kufuneka ndilumke ngokwenene LINK -

  12. Ukusuka kwi-redditor

    Ndaphumelela ukuyeka ukuhamba phakathi kwe-07 / 03 kunye ne-07 / 13, kwaye ngeli xesha leentsuku ze-10 ndandiziva ngathi ndiba ngumntu (ukunyuka kwe testosterone, akunjalo?), Kodwa nge-07/14 ndaziva iqhume emva kwesondo kunye nentombi yam, eyamisa kwangoko i-adventure yam ye-nofap. Ndiza kuqhubeka nokulala ngesondo kunye ne-gf yam, kuba yeyona njongo iphambili yokuphuma kwam, kodwa ndiza kuyikhathalela iqhume.

  13. Ingxelo yeentsuku ezingama-90 - akusekho msukeli
    (LINK)

    Isiphumo sokuleqa kubonakala ngathi siyinto yexesha elidlulileyo. Ndinephupha elimanzi kwaye ndakwazi ukulawula ngokulula umnqweno wokuqala ukuphinda ndihlaziye kwakhona. Ndavuma kunye nentombazana, kwaye andizange ndive nesidingo sokujonga iifoto. 

    Xa ndicinga ngesondo kwaye ndicinga malunga nokuhlangana okwenene ngokwesondo kunye nabasetyhini bokwenene. Kwaye xa ndisiya esidlangalaleni ndiye ndithathe ingqalelo enkulu yobuhle babafazi. Kwaye ukuvusa endikufumanayo akufani nokugcwala i-porn-buzz eyayingeyiyo inkanuko yesini, kodwa umnqweno wokubuyela emva kwescreen sekhompyuter kunye neebhlukhwe zam ezijikeleze amaqatha am.

  14. Ukulala ngesondo kufana nokuhamba ngeveki 1-2 Konke kwakhona

    Ukulala ngesondo kufana nokuhamba ngeveki 1-2 Konke kwakhona

    Imvelaphi: phakathi kwe-30s, utshatile iminyaka eyi-7. Umfazi uhlala kwesinye isixeko bc somsebenzi so sibonana kuphela ngeempelaveki. Ngaba ndandabelana ngesondo kakhulu nge-Sat. Ilanga. kwaye ndonwabile nje namhlanje. Ndiziva ngathi ndibuyile ngemini ye-4-5, ndizama ukoyisa iminqweno kwakhona. Kubonakala ngathi ndiye kwi-1-2 yeeveki kwi-o / o orgasim emva koko kube lula. Kodwa ukuba neentlobano zesini kundibuyisela emva ngokwemiqathango. Ndiyazi ukuba bekungafanelekanga ukuba ndikhalaze. Zininzi ii-nofappers w / o SOs kwaye uvelana nawe b / c akukho ndlela ndinokuthi ndiyenze kude kube ngoku ngumfazi wam. Kodwa oku kusenzima kwaye andikuboni kuya kusiba lula.

  15. Kusuka kwenye iforum
    Lo mfo usebenzisa i-blocker ye-porn kuba…

    Ndabona ukuba emva kokuba nayiphi i-orgasm i-chaser isomelele kangangokuba ndiza kutshabalalisa ndize nditshise ngokukhawuleza ukuba ikhomputer ayifaki.

    Ndiyathanda ukuba am amandla am ngokwaneleyo akwanele kodwa ayikho. Ingxaki eyongezelelweyo yokuphuma kwaye ifowuni ivumela ukuba ndibuyele engqondweni yam.

  16. Chaser izimvo-ngesondo neqabane

    Ndenze ixesha (malunga neenyanga ezi-2 nganye) kwi-nofap zombini kunye nangaphandle kwesondo, kwaye ndafumanisa emva kweeveki ezimbalwa zeNoFap, ukuyigcina emva kokukhululwa yi-WAAAYYY inzima kunokugcina nje ngaphandle kokukhululwa. Kungenxa yeso sizathu le nto uninzi lwabantu luphula umgama omde, nokuba luyanda, aluhlali luqala umgama omde ngengomso. Zama ngamanye amaxesha, uqiniseke ukuba uhlala u-horny ngalo lonke ixesha nge-nofap, kodwa hamba uye kulala ngesondo, emva koko undixelele ukuba unjani (ndithembe ukuba kuya kuba kubi).

    I-Nofap yayiyindlela endiyenza ngayo ngaphandle kwesondo. Yizame.

    Kuya kuba yimpazamo, nangona kunjalo, ukucinga ukuba i-NoFap ilula xa usabelana ngesondo rhoqo. Amava am abonisa ukuba umva uyinyani. Mhlawumbi yeyona nto ithethwayo malunga nokusukela; ngokuqinisekileyo iyavumelana namava am. Ingqondo yakho icinga "wow, ii-orgasms ziyonwabisa! Masibe nokuninzi! ”

    Ihlobo elidlulileyo ndahamba phantse iinyanga ze-3 ndingafakwanga, ngelixa ndingabelani ngesondo kwaphela. Ukusukela ngoko ndiye ndaba nobudlelwane obahlukeneyo kunye nabahlobo bam (i-4 iyonke). Ndikufumene kunzima ngakumbi ukuyeka ukufota ngelixa eneneni kubekwa rhoqo kuyo. Ngoku ndincoma iNoFap, kuba ngamanye amaxesha ndiyasokola ukuza, okanye ukugcina i-hardon, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba i-PMO ngoyena nobangela uphambili. (Andinguye umsebenzisi we-porn onzima nangaluphi na uhlobo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba inefuthe elibalulekileyo ukuba ndenza njalo. Ukufota ngokubanzi kuyenza, ngakumbi xa ingaphezulu kube kanye mihla le).

    Ndisebudlelwaneni ngaphezu kweminyaka eyi-2 ngoku kwaye xa siqala ukuba nobudlelwane ndandingaphezulu kweentsuku ze-90. Ngokombono wam ukuba nobomi bezesondo "obunempilo" ngelixa uzama ukuyeka i-PMO yeyona nto inzima… yindlela elula yokumisa i-PMO xa unokuthintela ngokupheleleyo ukwabelana ngesondo. Ewe ngamava obuqu kodwa kum kufana [nokuzama] ukwazi ukuxabisa iwayini ngesidlo sangokuhlwa ngelixa ulikhoboka lotywala

Amagqabantshintshi zivaliwe.