The main problem in my life always was social anxiety, the absence of any social skills and ability to talk. Even when I was 4-5 years old, I remember how I was not able to say hello to my kindergarten crush, and when she hugged me, I was paralyzed and nervous af. Middle school bullying […]
Read More… from Age 17 – NoFap doesn’t help with social anxiety; it KILLS it!
People become a sissy from multiple different ways, but the commonality is extremely kinky porn. … Discovering sissy porn, which not only comes under BDSM but a pretty extreme version of it is the real problem. Here’s a link to the google doc It’s not a very organized manual or anything like that, it’s just […]
Read More… from DE gone – Extremely kinky porn is the commonality behind sissy
Paul Wright PhD is a highly regarded, prolific pornography researcher. Apparently, he’s tired – as are many others in this field – of the deceptive tactics employed by some of the notoriously agenda-driven sexology researchers in the field (and their biased refereeing of papers). He highlights two of their stratagems in separate Letters to the […]
Read More… from Paul Wright, PhD Calls Out Porn Researchers’ Questionable Tactics (2021)
At the start of this year, I was reading about the negative effects of porn, so decided to see if I could completely stop watching it, even though I didn’t think that I had a problem with it. I’m not sure exactly how long it has been since I stopped, but a few months is […]
Read More… from DE gone – I didn’t think I had a problem with porn
Less lethargy ➡️ More energy Less clutter ➡️ More clarity Less procrastination ➡️ More productivity Less distraction ➡️ More focus Less worries ➡️ More hopes Less shit ➡️ More Purpose Being “Limitless” is what I feel right now. No social anxiety at all although it was absent before also. Women attraction: well that isn’t my […]
Read More… from 250 days – “Limitless” is what I feel right now
It definitely gets easier. I remember the first month, I described urges as “DDOS attacks,” because of how frequent and high-volume they were. It feels uncomfortable to feel the porn urge arise, and having to sit with it. It’s like trying to sit with an urge to sneeze, scratch, pee, or breathe. I don’t know […]
Read More… from Finally, I stopped “trying” and quit pornography for life
Next week will be 11 months without porn consumption. Last month I posted on Reddit about some insights I got thanks to healthy recovery. Check it out if you are interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/mtkk2p/10_months_the_journey_is_worthy/ Next month I’ll post the “One Year Post” that will be a review of my personal recovery journey, some tips to those who […]
Read More… from The goal is healthy long-term recovery, not just porn abstinence
I asked a girl out from my flag football team a few weeks ago, and she said yes! We went out last night and walked around the park, and it was interesting. I wasn’t worried about sex or trying to get her home or porn or any of that. Instead I enjoyed hearing about her […]
Benefits: Confidence is the #1 most obvious benefit I’m feeling right now. When you don’t feel shame of doing PMO, many aspects of my character improve along with it; speaking, eye-contact, and not fidgeting. I’ve also noticed my work in music composing has been more inspired. It’s certainly a lot more energetic and creative than […]
Read More… from Age 25 – It took work to kick the addiction, but my music is flowing
I just wanted to share that after more than a year struggling with this, I finally did it… I am not going to lie, it was hard, I think the worst process I have gone through. I relapsed, I failed at sex, I failed, I felt suicidal, depressed, anxious, trapped, hopeless… So guys out there, […]
Read More… from PIED – Now, even when I’m anxious it works. It was definitely the porn!