Shinn: Kugonana ndi zolaula kumayambitsa maganizo, thupi (Daily Kansan)

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Ndine wojambula pa intaneti yolaula. Mwayi ndi, ngati muli mnyamata wamsinkhu wa 40, inunso. Ndiloleni ndione izi.

Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti kwapezeka kwa ogwiritsa ntchito kuyambira ndisanabadwe. Mosiyana ndi amuna a mbadwo wa abambo anga, pamene ndinkakonda kudziwa za kugonana, ndinali ndi mawebusaiti osiyanasiyana omwe ali ndi zithunzi ndi mavidiyo kuti andisonyeze momwe akatswiri amachitira. Ndipo chowonadi chovuta ndi chakuti, kuyambira pomwe ndinapeza zolaula, sizinangowonjezereka, komabe zakhala zovuta pamoyo wanga (nthawi zina mumayenera kuti mugwiritse ntchito Drake kuti muvomereze " ).

Aliyense amene akuwononga Tumblr akudziŵa zochitika zolaula, ndipo nthawi iliyonse dzina lake "PornHub" lataya, pafupifupi aliyense wa zaka zanga - amuna ndi akazi ofanana - amadziwa za webusaitiyi. Koma chifukwa chakuti zolaula zili ponseponse ndipo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti zitsitsimutse mobwerezabwereza, kafukufuku waposachedwapa akuwonetsa zoipa zanthawi yaitali, ndipo anyamata akuzindikira.

Physiologist ndi woyambitsa YourBrainOnPorn.com Gary Wilson anaitanidwa kukapereka TED Talk chifukwa cha kuwonjezeka kwa chidziwitso chodalirika cha sayansi chokhudza zolaula-ntchito ndi zotsatira zake. Malinga ndi Wilson, yemwe adafotokoza kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi mutu wa Italy Society of Andrology ndi Medicual Medicine Dr. Carlo Foresta, kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula mobwerezabwereza kumabweretsa chizoloŵezi chokakamiza, zomwe zimachepetsanso zowonongeka zowonongeka, zomwe zimayambitsa zizindikiro zambiri zoipa. Malingana ndi kufotokoza kwa vidiyo ya Wilson's TED Talk, zizindikilo zimaphatikizapo "kuchuluka kwa zinthu zakuthupi, zovuta zowonongeka, mavuto a kugonana, kusintha kwakukulu pa zokonda zogonana, kusokonezeka maganizo, kusokonezeka" ndi "kusakhoza kuima."

Poyika mfundo zake mowopsya, kuwonetsa zolaula kumayambitsa matenda osokoneza bongo kwa amuna mu 20s. Ndipo kukhala wachilungamo, si iye yekha amene akuzizindikira izo.

Wolemba Naomi Wolfe wa ku New York Magazine anafunsa mafunso achinyamata ndipo anapeza kuti zolaula za pa Intaneti zakhala zikupanga "mbadwo wonse wa amuna ... zosavuta kugwirizanitsa ndi akazi-ndipo pamapeto pake sizitsitsimutsa." Chifukwa cha izi, iye akulemba, atsikana amamva ngati kuti "sangathe kuwerengera" kugonana.

Chimene chimandiyanjanitsa ndikuti anthu akukakamiza akazi kuti azitsatira miyezo yosakwanira ya kukongola. Tsopano, kuonjezera ku chisokonezo, ndikupempha ntchito yopangira chipinda chogonjera, nthawi zonse kugonana kwachinyengo kumayambitsa amuna kutaya galimoto yawo yachilengedwe. Zonse zimawoneka ngati Catch-22, koma pakhoza kukhala njira yotulukira.

Wilson akufotokoza kuti palibe kafukufuku wochuluka kuti atsitsimutse zotsutsa izi zokhudzana ndi zolaula, zomwe zinachititsa ED, powona vuto la kufufuza nkhaniyi chifukwa chosowa gulu lodziwika bwino la anyamata omwe sagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Koma iwo omwe aswa zizolowezi zawo amati adziwona kusintha kwakukulu pa thanzi lathu, thanzi lawo ndi thanzi lawo.

Njira yatsopano yomwe idayambitsidwa ndi gulu la ogwiritsa ntchito a Reddit lotchedwa "NoFap" - zovuta zamasiku 90 kuti apewe zolaula komanso maliseche - zakhala zikugwira kale anyamata masauzande ambiri omwe akumana ndi zisonyezo zolaula kwambiri ndipo akufuna thandizo.

Malinga ndi tsamba la Reddit la NoFap, pogwiritsa ntchito mauthenga ovomerezeka ndi mamembala, phindu lotha kusiya zolaula ndilo kupatsa chisangalalo, kuchepetsa kudziletsa, nthawi yowonjezera komanso maganizo abwino, makamaka kugonana.

Munthu mmodzi - wosayanjanitsidwa ndi NoFap - anakumana ndi zotsatira zofanana pambuyo posiya zolaula.

Pawailesi ya Wilson ku Ashland, Oregon inatchedwa "Ubongo Wanu mu CyberSex Jungle," mnyamata wodwala matenda opatsirana pogwiritsa ntchito matenda a maganizo, anafotokoza zambiri za momwe iye amapezera zolaula, zomwe zimapangitsa ED, kuti ali ndi mphamvu, mphamvu, luso lochita zachiwerewere atasiya zolaula.
Chochititsa chidwi ndi momwe matenda a maganizo a munthu amathandizidwira ndi nkhani yomwe imayambitsa nthawi yake, nkhawa ndi kukhala yekha monga zinthu zomwe zimamulowetsa kuchita zolaula. Monga mwana wa koleji akukhala ndi munthu wokhala naye pafupi, ndikutha kufanana ndi izi.

Ngakhale kuti palibe kafukufuku wochepa kwambiri wa sayansi wotsutsa zonena za zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zizindikiro, palibe wina woti angatsutsenso. Mu wailesi ya Wilson yailesi, akufotokoza kuti "zolaula za pa intaneti zothamanga kwambiri zikupita patsogolo pa kafufuzidwe" posachedwapa. Kenako amaseka kuti "pamene DSM (Kufufuza ndi Kusanthula Buku la Mental Disorders) imatuluka m'zaka za 20, mwinamwake" chinachake chidzadziwika podabwitsa, kumene mlendo wake akuyankha: "Eya, pamene hafu ya amuna ali osayenerera. "