Ndapindula zambiri m'zaka zapitazi za 2 kusiyana ndi zaka 27 zaka zopweteka ... Nthawi imachiza chirichonse. Ndikukutsimikizirani.
Sindikupangitsani chithunzichi kuti chimveke ngati ndine wodzikuza (chimene ndikukutsimikizirani kuti sindiri). Ndiyesera kupewa kupereka uphungu wochuluka chifukwa monga momwe akunenera, zonse zomwe mukuchita ndikuuza anthu momwe angakhalire ngati inu nokha. Izi ndizochepa chabe ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti zimakulimbikitsani ena mwa inu. Ine ndikudziwa bwino chomwe chiri ngati kukhala pamunsi mwazitali kwambiri. Ngati ndingathe kuthandiza mmodzi wa inu, ndiye kuti izi ndizothandiza.
Popeza ndabwezeretsa ubongo wanga pakadutsa pano komwe sindiri chabe wachabechabe (ndikuwongolera nkhaniyi) mdziko lino, ndatha kuganiza bwino ndikugwiritsira ntchito mphamvu zopindulitsa. Mphamvu ya kugonana ya munthu n'zosakayikitsa kuti ali ndi mphamvu zambiri pamoyo wawo. Ngati simunawerengepo "Ganizirani ndi Kulemera" ndi Napoleon Hill ndiye ndikukupemphani kuti muchite zimenezo mwamsanga. Mutu wogonana ndi wokondweretsa kwambiri ndipo ndizofunikira kwambiri pokhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuchita chilichonse. Musasiye konse mukangoyamba chinthu ndipo kungodziwa kuti mudzagunda pamsewu ndi kukakokera mu mtedza nthawi zingapo panjira kumapangitsa mphoto. Ogonjetsa adzapeza njira yopambana, ndipo kukhala ndi ubongo ndi thupi lanu pazitsulo zonse ndizomwe zimayambira.
Kuyambira nthawi imene ndabwezeretsanso ndinatha kuyesa kufufuza moto m'boma langa, kupita ku Dipatimenti ya Moto, ndikupita ku Fire Academy, ndikuwona zinthu zowopsya m'chaka changa choyamba. Pamene ndikugwira ntchito yachiwiri monga woyang'anira kampani yaying'ono, ndikupanga ndalama zoposa $ 165,000 / chaka ndipo ndabweza kale ndalama zanga. Aliyense yemwe adandidziwa zaka zingapo zapitazo angaganize kuti palibe njira yomwe ndingapangire ku 20 zanga. Ndinazindikira kuti si kale kwambiri kuti anyamata ndinapita kusukulu ya sekondale ndikukhala ndi dziwe kuti ndione kuti ndizitenga nthawi yaitali bwanji kuti ndikhale wakupha. Ngati ndikanadziŵa ndekha, ndiye kuti ndikadalowa m'nyanja nthawiyo.
Zomwe zimayambitsa maso kwambiri zomwe ndakhala ndikuzipeza chifukwa chowombera moto / EMT ndi kuchuluka kwa heroin overdoses zomwe zikuchitika m'dziko lonse lapansi. Dera laling'ono lomwe ndimagwira ntchito pafupifupi pafupifupi 22,000 anthu amalandira 2-3 pa sabata mosavuta. Pambuyo poona ena mwa ma junki pamwambo wawo wotsika kwambiri, nthawi zonse nthawi zina ndi "mphindi" yondipatsa ine ngati mukufuna. Ine ndakhala ndiri mu nsapato zawo ndipo ndikuvutika ndi chizoloŵezi chofanana kwambiri ... ndipo ndikupitiriza kunena kuti ndimadwala kwambiri (atleast ena amatha kugwirizana ndi anthu ena) - omwe palibe amene amalankhulapo chifukwa ndikuchititsa manyazi. Aliyense akufulumira kuwatcha anthu awa scumbags. Komabe, panali nthawi yomwe iwo sanali apolisi ... iwowa anali anthu osadziŵa bwino omwe anapanga chisankho choyera (kaya anali kutengera anzawo kapena awo a idiocy) ndipo zinachitika kuti apite njira inayake mu moyo - njira yomwe imatayika kwathunthu ubongo wanu komanso kusokoneza chidziwitso chanu padziko lapansi (zovuta zowonongeka zowonongeka?). Chiyembekezo chokha cha iwo ndi ngati adziwa zomwe adakhala ndikuchita khama padziko lonse kuti athetse vuto lawo labwino. Kudziwa momwe chizoloŵezi chimagwirira ntchito ndi nthawi yomwe zimatengera kuyamba kuyang'ana kusintha mosakayikira sitepe yoyamba. Chotsatira ndicho CHIFUKWA chokha ndi cholinga / galimoto kuti akwaniritse zinthu zopindulitsa. Mukakhala pafupipafupi, zimakhala zosavuta. Ndikhulupirire.
Malangizo anga ndikuti ndiphunzirepo mapeto a sayansi omwe Gary ndi Marnia adayika mowolowa manja apa ndi kuyamba pomwe pano, osati mawa kapena sabata yamawa. Chotsani kompyuta yanu ngati muyenera. Achibale anu onse m'banja lanu sanadzipereke kuti mukhale pano ndi kukhala otayika. Khala wopambana, ziribe kanthu momwe kulili kovuta. Ngati zikanakhala zophweka ndiye kuti aliyense azichita izo ... chifukwa chake pali anthu ambiri omwe amamwa zolaula.
"Ngati munthu aphunzitsidwa kuti ali chabe nyama yosinthika, mtundu wapamwamba kwambiri wa anyani, ndikuti akamwalira ndiye mapeto ake ndi onsewo, mwachilengedwe amadziuza kuti:" Bwanji osasangalala ndi moyo ndili nawo? Bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito chilichonse chomwe chilengedwe chandipatsa m'njira yosangalatsa kwambiri ndikumverera? ” Palibe zoletsa zamakhalidwe abwino; palibe zowunikira zauzimu zowunikira pano; palibe nzeru pano yomwe munthu wamakhalidwe abwino angadalire; ndipo zotsatira zake ndikuti tsopano ndizofala mdziko lapansi kuwona zakugonana ngati chinthu chochititsa manyazi, kapena, komano, ngati chinthu chomwe sichiyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito molingana ndi malamulo achilengedwe, koma ngati njira yodzikonzera. ”
"Chifukwa chake, zomwe zimatchedwa kuti kugonana, sizimayambira kuipa kosawerengeka pakati pa mtundu wa anthu koma chifukwa cha kusadziwa komanso chifukwa cha chiphunzitso chakale, chophweka komanso chosavuta kumva, chaiwalika. Kugwiritsa ntchito nkhanza kwa thupi kumabweretsa matenda omwe amachititsa kuti thupi likhale lopweteka, kapena, muzochitika zoipa, kuwonongeka komanso kusasamala msanga. Zingakhale bwino kunena momveka bwino kuti thupi ndi lodabwitsa komanso lokongola kwambiri kuti kugwiritsa ntchito molakwa ntchito iliyonse kumabweretsa mavuto m'thupi, kapenanso kufanana kwathunthu kwa ziwalo zina zonse za munthu. "
"Kugonana m'galimoto yamakono yaumunthu ikugwira ntchito ziwiri: (a) choyamba ndi chofunikira kwambiri, kupitiriza kwa banja laumunthu; (b) chachiwiri, kulimbikitsa ndi kumangiriza thupi la umunthu lonse, ndi ziwalo zake zonse ndi ziwalo zake mongazomwe, ndi kusungidwa mmalo mwazofunikira zogonana. "
"N'kutheka kuti sitingakwanitse kuyembekezera kuti masiku ano amanjenjemera ndi mantha komanso kuti khalidwe la kugonana lidzagwiritsidwa ntchito pokhapokha ngati cholinga cha chilengedwe chasintha, monga momwe tafotokozera pamwambapa; kotero kuti mwinamwake kwa zaka zambiri ntchitoyo idzagwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika ngakhale muukwati pofuna kungoganizira chabe; koma mulole izo zidziwike bwino pakati pa amuna ndi akazi omwe ali ndi khalidwe labwino kuti aliyense agwiritse ntchito ntchito iliyonse ikuphatikizapo zotsatira zake, ndipo kugwiritsira ntchito molakwa kwa ntchitoyo kumaphatikizapo zotsatira zoopsa zomwe zimayambitsa kuwonongeka, ndi nzeru zabwino zodziwikiratu komanso chidziwitso cha kudzidziletsa ndi kudzikonda -kubwezeretsanso kudzafika panthawi yomwe ikukhudzidwa kwambiri mu ubale umenewu. "
-David Pratt
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