Ndikulongosola bwino za momwe ndimasinila zolaula nditha kumasuka, ndipo tsiku lililonse ndimakhala ndi ufulu watsopano chifukwa sindilinso kapolo wokakamiza kuchita zachiwerewere.
Pomwe YBOP imachita ndi "momwe" zolaula komanso njira zomwe zimayambitsa izi ndimafunitsitsa kumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe zolaula idakopa ine. Izi ndizofunikira makamaka chifukwa chakuti zolaula sizimachita chidwi ndi ine panthawiyi. Mukadakhala kuti mukuyika gawo la zolaula patsogolo panga sizikadakhala ndi chidwi masiku ano; koma kwa nthawi yanga yayitali ikadalanda chidwi changa mpaka nditadziseweretsa maliro, kapena mpaka kutopa.
Ndiyenera kunena kuti ndikuwoneka kuti ndafika pachiphalaphala china chatsopano. Ndikumva ngati chinthu chonsecho chiri kumbuyo kwanga tsopano. Posachedwa ndidakhala masiku angapo mumzinda waukulu womwe udali ndi zolumikizana zingapo mkati mwa 1/4 mamailosi mchipinda changa cha hotelo ndipo ndidawapeza osayesa kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimaganizira zaka zingapo zapitazo. Zakhala zosasangalatsa ngakhale kuziganizira. China chake chasintha mkati mwa psyche yanga ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti mankhwala osungulumwa komanso kusungulumwa sapezeka ndi zosavomerezeka. Ndikuganiza kuti izi zimakhudza mwachindunji chiyembekezo cha ziyembekezozi kuti zindipangitse ine. Zili ngati ndazituluka kale, monga momwe munthu wamkulu amamera chakudya chosadya bwino monga momwe amachitira akadali mwana. Sindikuganiziranso chisangalalo chabodza chazisangalalo zotsika mtengo. Ndimawona kuti zolaula ndizopusa, osati mosiyana ndi momwe ndimawonera ana omwe ali ndi phokoso lalikulu komanso owononga magalimoto awo.
Ndamva za zidakwa zomwe zauzidwa kuti "yankho lavuto lanu silili pansi pa botolo" ndipo ndikuganiza kuti izi ndizofanana. Ngati wina akuganiza kuti yankho lakukhumudwa kwawo lingapezeke mdziko lokonzekera zachiwerewere atha kufunafuna yankho, koma, mwachiwonekere, osalipeza, chifukwa zolimbikitsa zakugonana sizingakhutiritse zokhumba zakugonana. Pozindikira kuti, zolaula, kapena umaliseche wachidule mufilimu yopanda zolaula, zimasiya kukopa. Zimakhala zovuta kuyambitsa wina akangodziwa kuti chitsimechi ndi chowuma, titero kunena kwake.
Izi zimanditsogolera ku imodzi mwamaganizidwe anga okhudzana ndi zolaula. "Mapeto ake, zolaula zimachitika chifukwa anthu ena amasirira zomwe amawona zikuwonetsedwa." Anthu ena samasirira zolaula, zomwe zimandikhutiritsa, zimafotokozera anthu ambiri omwe alibe chidwi ndi zolaula. Ngati wina sasirira zomwe amawona, zolaula sizikhala ndi zotsatirapo pa iwo, monganso momwe nyama zimayanjanirana sizikhudza anthu mwamaganizidwe. Sitimasilira nyama tikamawona zikukhalira ndipo sindinganene kuti ndakumanapo ndi munthu yemwe adadzutsidwa ndi zoonekazo.
Zolaula sizimandisangalatsa chifukwa chomwechi chomwe ndidalamulira masamba azakudya zamasiku ano. Ndinalamula zamasamba chifukwa ndizopatsa thanzi komanso zabwino. Ndikadakhala kuti ndagula maswiti ndikulandila zopatsa mphamvu zochulukirapo, koma zotulukapo zosiyanazi ndizosiyana. Malo omata maswiti amachititsa shuga wanga wamagazi kutsatiridwa ndi dontho la shuga m'magazi ndi kufinya. Mudzalandira ma calorie koma kukhutitsidwa kulikonse kwa chisangalalo sikungokhala kwakanthawi. Zamasamba ndizotsutsana, siziyambitsa shuga m'magazi anu kapena zimapangitsa kuti insulini itulutsidwe. M'malo mwake amapereka zakudya zambiri ndipo ndizochepa ma calories. Ndi mgwirizano wabwinoko. Zotsatira zake zimakhala zakale.
Zolaula ,ulendo wopita ku kalabu yazovala, kapena nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito kutsatsa kudzera pa Craigslist kutsatsa kwa zogonana wamba zimakhala ngati maswiti. Chisangalalo chimakwera msanga ndipo chimatsatiridwa ndikuchepetsa. Munthu akhoza kumangosangalala ndi zosangalatsa zotere kwa maola ambiri, koma sipadzakhalanso kukhutitsidwa kwamuyaya chifukwa, kumapeto kwa tsiku, palibe chilichonse. Palibe maubwenzi omwe amapangidwa, palibe chabwino chokhalitsa chomwe chingatulukemo. Orgasm ndi ejaculation ndizosangalatsa, koma sikuti zimapangitsa kukhutitsidwa kosatha.
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