Kutha kuchedwetsa kukhutitsidwa ndi luso lofunikira pamoyo lomwe tonsefe timakhala nalo mosiyanasiyana tikamakhala ndi malingaliro okhwima padziko lapansi. Ana aang'ono alibe luso limeneli. Chilichonse chomwe angafune kapena akufuna, amakhulupirira kuti ayenera kukhala nacho pakali pano. Pamene tikukula, timayamba kuphunzira kukhala oleza mtima ndikudikirira zomwe tikufuna. Sitimatokosera mu mathalauza athu, timadikirira mpaka titapeza bafa.
Sitimalira tikakhala ndi njala, timadikirira moleza mtima mpaka titakhala ndi mwayi woti tidye. Izi ndi zitsanzo zoyambira kutsimikizira mfundo.
Nanga izi zikukhudzana bwanji ndi zolaula komanso kukula? Chabwino… kwambiri! Monga zolaula, timalola chidwi chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche kuti muchepetse kukula kwa ana pankhani ya momwe tingadzisamalire pogonana. Ndikufuna kumva izi pakadali pano, chifukwa chake ndimazichita zivute zitani. Kenako ndimachitanso. Ndi zina zotero… Ngati ndingathe kuchedwetsa kukhutitsidwa kwanga m'derali, ndiye kuti sindiyenera kuyankha zokhumba zanga zogonana pakadali pano. Nditha kuzisiya. Ndikhoza kudikira mpaka nditakhala ndi mnzanga.
Chaka chatha, ndazindikira kuti mphamvu zanga zogonana sizikhala zopanda malire. Nthawi iliyonse, ndimatha kuigwiritsa ntchito, kapena kuisunga. Ndipo monga ndalama, sindingathe kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe ndilibe. Chifukwa chimodzi mwazinthu zoyipa kwambiri zondichititsa kukhala ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula ndi nthawi yomwe mkazi wanga ali ndi malingaliro ogonana ndi ine, tikulowa, ndipo ndili ngati, "Houston ... ndili ndi vuto. ” Sindinadziwe nthawi imeneyo, koma ichi chinali cholakwika changa - chotsatira chokhudzidwa kwambiri ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti komanso maliseche. Koma tsopano ndikudziwa bwino. Chifukwa chake chilakolako chofuna kutuluka chikadzuka, ndimadziuza kuti, "sungani." Ndipo ndimayesetsa kuchita zinthu mochedwa kuzikwaniritsa. Mphoto yake ndi yayikulu, chifukwa mwayi ukapezeka ndipo ndalama zanga zogonana ndizokwera, chisangalalo chomwe chimandidikira chimatha chilichonse chomwe ndingapange.
Chofunikira ndikuti kuzindikira kuti kuchedwetsa kukhutitsidwa si lingaliro chabe lomwe mutha kumvetsetsa, ndi luso lomwe liyenera kuchitidwa. Musamadziumire nokha ngati simuli oyenera nthawi yomweyo; palibe amene alipo. Ingopitirizabe kuyeserera pokankhira kunja mphotho yanu patali nthawi iliyonse; kudzitambasula kwanu kuti mukhale oleza mtima. Potsirizira pake, mudzapeza kuti mutha kudziwa mphamvu zanu zogonana; mwachitsanzo osaganizira za izi mpaka nthawi yakuchita nazo. Mchitidwe woterewu umafuna kuleza mtima ndi kulimbikira, chifukwa chake musayembekezere kuti zingachitike usiku wokha.
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