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Sindikutsutsana ndi zolaula mwanjira iliyonse. M'malo mwake, ndimakhala ndi makanema osindikizidwa ochepa omwe amakhazikitsidwa nthawi iliyonse pakakhala vuto. Koma chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe sindimakonda kwenikweni ndi momwe zolaula zambiri zingakhudze anthu - makamaka anyamata omwe ndalumikizana nawo m'mbuyomu. Zambiri zanga nkhani zachiwerewere amakonda kukhala pakati pa anyamata omwe afotokoza bwino zomwe akuyembekeza kuchokera pazomwe awona pa zolaula zambiri. Nkhani yayitali, zinali zokhumudwitsa nthawi zonse kwa ine, ndipo monga kafukufuku watsopano adapeza, mwina ngakhale kwa iwo.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku woperekedwa pamsonkhano wapachaka wa American Urological Association, akuwonera Zolaula zambiri zingayese pa moyo wanu wa kugonana, makamaka ngati ndinu wachichepere komanso wosadziwa zambiri zogonana.
"Kuonera zolaula ndikumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri kumagonana ndi munthu mmodzi," okwatirana ovomerezeka ndi achibale komanso wodwala wovomerezeka Jenner Bishop, LMFT, CSAT-S, imauza Bustle. “Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuli ndi vuto lotere. Kupanikizika kwa maliseche komwe mumakonda, kuthamanga kwa maliseche - zonse zomwe zimayesedwa ndi zomwe zimusangalatse munthuyo. Chifukwa chake mukakhala ndi zithunzi zolaula komanso zosangalatsa zomwe zingakupatseni mayankho abwino, zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu wina weniweni, wamoyo, mnofu ndi magazi akhudzeni momwe mungafunire kuti akhudzidwe. ”
Phunziro, lomwe linafalitsidwa mkati The Journal of Urology, adachitidwa ndi wofufuza wotsogolera, Dr. Matthew Christman, katswiri wa zamagetsi ndi a Naval Medical Center ku San Diego ndi anzake omwe anafufuza amuna a 312 pakati pa zaka za 20 ndi 40 wazaka zapakati. Ofufuza onse anapita ku chipatala cha urology ku San Diego kuchipatala. Ngakhale kuti phunziroli linapeza izo zokha atatu peresenti ya amuna amati amakonda kuseweretsa maliseche Kuonera zolaula zenizeni, panali ubale wofunika kwambiri pakati pa zolaula ndi kusokonekera kwa kugonana. Nazi zomwe kafukufukuyu adapeza:
Amuna Amene Amakonda Porn N'zotheka Kukhala Osakhutira ndi Moyo Wawo Wogonana
Izi sizosadabwitsa konse, koma amuna omwe adafunsidwa omwe amakonda kuseweretsa maliseche pazakugonana nthawi zambiri amakhala okhumudwitsa. Amuna achichepere, makamaka, anali ndi mwayi woti anene zakonda zolaula komanso kusakhutira ndi moyo wawo wogonana.
Chiwerengero cha Amuna Ndi Mavuto Okhudza Kugonana Akukwera Ndi Mtengo Wa Porn Amadya
Malinga ndi kafukufukuyo, pafupifupi anayi pa zana la amuna amati amawonera zolaula kuposa nthawi 11 pa sabata. Ngakhale atatu okha peresenti amati amakonda kugonana ndi kugonana, ambiri mwa iwo (pafupifupi 80 peresenti), amavomereza kuti ali ndi vuto la kugonana. Komabe, kuchuluka kwa kugonana kosagwira ntchito kunali kochepa kwambiri mwa amuna omwe anati amakonda kugonana popanda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
Ngakhale olembawo akunena kuti kugonana kwa amuna achichepere kumakhala kochepa kwambiri, pakhala kuwonjezeka kwa milandu posachedwapa. Mwachibadwa, izi zinawachititsa kuganiza kuti zizoloŵezi zoonera zolaula zingakhale zofunika kwambiri chifukwa chake.
Kuonera Zolaula Kwambiri Kungakulitse Kulekerera Kwa Munthu
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zakuti kuonera zolaula kwambiri kumatha kuyambitsa mavuto ndi "kulolerana." Mofanana ndi mankhwala ena, owonera zolaula amatenga nthawi yayitali powaonera. Sizingatheke kuyankha zochitika zenizeni padziko lapansi chifukwa sizikugwirizana ndi ziyembekezo zomwe ali nazo, chifukwa chake ayenera kudalira zolaula kuti amasulidwe.
"Sizovuta konse kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ngati njira yomwe timaphunzirira zakugonana komanso kugonana komanso kucheza ndi ena."
Monga Shirani M. Pathak, katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi woyambitsa wa Chiyanjano cha Silicon Valley amauza Bustle, izi zakhala zikuchitika. "Amayi ambiri amafotokoza kuti mwina sangathenso kuwachotsa amuna awo, zomwe zimawapangitsa amayi kudzimva kuti ndi osakwanira ndipo amuna awo amakhumudwa, kapena amuna samatha kukhala ndi erection, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti amuna azimva kuti ndi osakwanira ndipo azimayi amakhumudwa , "Akutero Pathak. "Sizovuta kupambana ngati zolaula zikugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati njira yomwe timaphunzirira za kugonana komanso kugonana komanso kucheza ndi ena. Zachisoni, chifukwa choti zaka zathu zadijito zitha kupezeka mosavuta, zikuchulukirachulukira. ”
Amayi Sakukhudzidwa Ndi Zithunzi Zolaula Monga Amuna
Kafukufuku wina omwe adawonekeranso adawoneka mwa amayi komanso momwe amaonera zolaula. Mosiyana ndi amuna, panalibe chiyanjano chofunika pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi kukanika kwa kugonana.
"Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zimachitika chifukwa m'modzi, azimayi sawonetsedwa zolaula kuyambira ali mwana ngati amuna ndi awiri, chifukwa azimayi amakonda kudalira malingaliro ndi malingaliro kuti awathandize pogonana pomwe amuna amakonda kudalira zowonera komanso zithunzi, "adatero Pathak. "Tsoka ilo, amuna omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kuona ndi kulandira ndikumasulira kuti zomwe akazi amafuna ndizoyimira zolakwika zochokera kwa omwe ali mmenemo ndi cholinga chofuna kusangalatsa makampani akulu akulu achimuna."
Chifukwa chake ngati mudadzifunsapo ngati kuwonera zolaula zambiri kungakhudze moyo wanu wogonana, zimamveka ngati zingatheke. Ponseponse, kafukufukuyu ndi chikumbutso chabwino chomwe ambiri zolaula zambiri sizili ngati zogonana m'moyo weniweni. Ngati mukuganiza choncho, mwina mungakhumudwe - ndipo zikuwoneka kuti moyo wanu wogonana nawonso ungatengeke.
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