ndi Gert Martin Hald
Nkhani yoyamba yofalitsidwa pa intaneti: 14 MAY 2015
J Sex Med 2015; 12: 1140-1141
Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, popatsidwa mwayi wogwira ntchito zachipatala, ochepa chabe ayesa kufufuza maubwenzi pakati pa zolaula ndi zovuta zowonongeka ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana (monga "zovuta zogonana"). Mukachita zimenezi, mapangidwe omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito makamaka amakhala ngati mapangidwe ophunzirira kapena magulu otsogolera komanso njira yosonkhanitsira deta. Mwinanso, zochitika zaumwini kapena zachipatala zakhala zikugwiritsidwa ntchito. Ngakhale kuli kofunika, maphunziro ndi zochitika zoterezi sizikhoza kuwonetsa zotsatira za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula. Chifukwa chake, maphunziro a Landripet ndi Stulhofer amapereka chiyambi choyambirira ndi chikhalidwe choyambirira pa kuyang'ana kwa mayanjano pakati pa zolaula ndi zovuta zogonana.
Kawirikawiri, zinthu zomwe amaphunzira ndi Landripet ndi Stulhofer zimasonyeza zovuta pa kafukufuku pa zolaula. Choyamba, chitsanzocho mwachiwonekere chimakhala chitsanzo chosakhala chotheka. Izi ndizomwe zimapezeka pa kafukufuku wamakono lero [1]. Vutoli likhoza kuthetsedwa ndi kuphatikizapo njira zochepa zowononga zolaula zomwe zikuchitika panthawi yomwe anthu ambiri akuphunzira zokhudza kugonana komanso makhalidwe okhudzana ndi kugonana. Poona kuchuluka kwa maulamuliro owonetsa zolaula komanso nthawi yomwe zithunzi zolaula zimadya, makamaka pakati pa amuna, izi zikuwoneka kuti ndizofunikira kwambiri komanso nthawi yayikulu.
Chachiwiri, phunziroli limapeza mgwirizano umodzi wokha pakati pa zolaula zolaula ndi zotsatira zomwe amaphunzira (ie, erectile dysfunction) ndikugogomezera kuti kukula (kukula) kwa ubale umenewu ndi kochepa. Komabe, mu kufufuza zolaula, kutanthauzira kwa "kukula" kungadalire kwambiri pa chikhalidwe cha zotsatira zomwe zaphunziridwa monga kukula kwa ubale womwe umapezeka. Choncho, ngati zotsatira zake ziyenera kuonedwa kuti ndizo "zokwanira" (mwachitsanzo, makhalidwe achiwerewere), ngakhale kukula kwazing'ono kungakhale ndi chikhalidwe chachikulu komanso chofunika kwambiri [2].
Chachitatu, phunziroli silinena za otsogolera omwe angakhale oyenerera kapena omulankhulira a maubwenzi omwe amaphunzira kapena sangathe kudziwitsa. Kafukufuku owonjezereka pa zolaula, amapatsidwa chidwi pa zinthu zomwe zingakhudze kukula kapena kutsogolera kwa maubwenzi omwe amaphunzira (ie, oyang'anira) komanso njira zomwe zitha kuchitiramo chiopsezo (ie, mediator) [1,3]. Kafukufuku wamtsogolo pa zolaula zogwiritsira ntchito komanso zovuta zogonana zingathandizenso ndi kuikapo mbali pazinthu zoterezi.
Chachinayi, m'mawu awo omaliza, olembawo akuti pali zinthu zingapo zomwe zimakhudzana kwambiri ndi zovuta zogonana kuposa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Kuti tiwunikire bwino izi, komanso zopereka zapadera pazinthu izi, kugwiritsa ntchito mitundu yonse yokhoza kuphatikiza maubwenzi owongoka komanso osalunjika pakati pazosiyanasiyana zomwe zimadziwika kapena zosokonekera kuti zithandizire zotsatira zitha kulangizidwa [3].
Kawirikawiri, maphunziro a Landripet ndi Stulhofer amapereka chidziwitso choyamba ndi chochititsa chidwi pakati pa chikhalidwe ndi chidziwitso kuti zikhoza kukhala pakati pa zolaula ndi kugonana. Tikukhulupirira kuti maphunziro ofanana ndi omwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito angagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati mwala wopitilira kufufuza pa maubwenzi pakati pa zolaula ndi kugonana pakati pa abambo ndi amai.
Gert Martin Hald, Dipatimenti ya Zaumoyo Zapamtima, Yunivesite ya Copenhagen, Copenhagen, Denmark
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