Wolemba Anna O'Rourke ( ulalo wa nkhani )
Kaya mumavomereza kapena ayi, zolaula zimakhudza moyo wa a Irish.
Sitinakhalepo ndi mwayi wopeza zolaula zosiyanasiyana monga momwe timachitira masiku ano, chifukwa cha intaneti, koma kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa ife?
Posachedwapa tafufuza pang'ono za zizolowezi zolaula za owerenga athu ndipo tapeza kuti oposa theka la inu (55 peresenti) amavomereza kuti amaonera zolaula, kaya nokha kapena ndi mnzawo. Izi sizinali zodabwitsa kwenikweni, ngakhale chomwe chinatidabwitsa ndi kafukufuku wina womwe tidapeza sabata ino.
Kafukufuku wina ku US anasonyeza kuti amuna omwe amaonera zolaula nthawi zambiri ndi omwe amanena kuti alibe chilakolako chogonana, komanso kuti ali ndi vuto la kugonana - komanso kuti chilakolako chogonana cha akazi sichinali choipa.
Ngati izi ziti zichitike, ife azimayi titha kuwonera zolaula mpaka ng'ombe zibwere kunyumba popanda zovuta zilizonse pomwe amuna amaika pachiwopsezo chogonana ngati atachita zambiri.
Wolemba za kugonana Teresa Bergin anamuuza Iye kuti izi ndizoonadi kwa amuna achi Irish.
"Amuna ena zimawavuta kuyang'anira moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe amawonongera pa zolaula," adatero.
"Kwa amuna ena, si vuto kukhala osokoneza bongo koma zimawakhudza kuthekera kwawo pakugonana komanso kulumikizana ndi anzawo."
"Amuna akamasewera maliseche zolaula nthawi zambiri, gawo lawo logonana limalumikizidwa ndi izi. Kukondweretsana pakati pa anthu sikungafanane ndi kukula kwa zolaula motero, popita nthawi, zimatha kukhala zokwanira. Izi zikachitika, mwamunayo amatha kuchepa chilakolako chake chogonana ndi mnzake kapena amayamba PIED, zolaula zimayambitsa kuwonongeka kwa erectile. ”
Ananenanso kuti kulephera kwa erectile mwachikhalidwe kumalumikizidwa ndi amuna azaka zapakati kapena akulu, tsopano akuwona amuna mwa zaka makumi awiri ndi makumi atatu.
"Ili ndi vuto lofala kwambiri pakati pa anyamata achichepere omwe akula ndi zolaula zomwe zimapezeka mosavuta pafoni kapena piritsi," adatero.
"Kwenikweni, chilakolako chawo chogonana chakhala chovuta kwambiri pa chipangizo chomwe amagwiritsa ntchito."
Koma ngati mukuganiza kuti azimayi sakusewera pa zolaula, mungakhale mukulakwitsa.
Malingana ndi Teresa, abambo ndi amai amavutika ndi ntchito chifukwa cha zolaula.
"Akazi nthawi zambiri amati ali ndi nkhawa kuti wokondedwa wawo akuyerekezera ndi zolaula zomwe zimawonedwa, kapena akuyembekeza zochitika zofananira," adatero.
"Izi zikapanda kukambidwa, zitha kukhala vuto pakati pa okwatirana."
Koma kukhala woona mtima sikungakhale kosavuta kwa mabanja achi Irish.
"Tikuvutikabe mdziko muno kuti tikambirane za mavuto azakugonana," adatero Teresa.
"Komanso, chifukwa zolaula tsopano zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri komanso zasinthidwa kukhala zachilendo, anthu sangadziwe kuti ndi chinthu chomwe chingayambitse vuto la kugonana - ' Ndi zolaula zokha, ndithudi aliyense amazionera '."
Anali ndi malangizowa kwa aliyense amene ali ndi nkhawa ndi zolaula za anzawo kapena zolaula zomwe zimachitika paubwenzi wawo.
“Lankhulani naye. Tsegulani zokambirana zanu ndipo yesetsani kukambirana zomwe zolaula zimatanthauza kwa inu nonse komanso momwe zingakhudzire kugonana kwanu. Yesetsani kuneneza, kudzudzula kapena kutsutsa.
"Ngati mnzanu akukumana ndi mavuto a erectile, mulimbikitseni kuti akaonane ndi a GP ake ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira, funani chithandizo chamankhwala, ndipo koposa zonse, pitani naye."
Mutha kudziwa zambiri za ntchito ya Teresa pa Sextherapy.ie.