Kusokonezeka kwa erectile kopangidwa ndi zithunzi kukufala kwambiri
Katswiri wina wamatsenga akuti akuopa kuti kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zovuta ku intaneti kungakhale kwa mmodzi mwa anyamata a 10 omwe ali ndi mavuto okhwima. Dr Andrew Smiler ananena kuti kukhala kosavuta kwa zolaula zosatha zosatha ndikusiya anyamata abwino ndi vuto la kugonana. Iye adanena Ngwachikwanekwane: "Anyamata omwe ndikuwawona, ambiri a iwo ali pakati pa 13 ndi 25. Ambiri ali, makamaka mbali, chithunzi cha thanzi labwino.
"Choncho ngati ndikuchita zolaula kamodzi patsiku kwa 15 maminiti koma ndikuchita zimenezi tsiku lililonse kwa zaka zisanu, ndikuyenda bwino kuti ndikhale katswiri wa zolaula."
Anachenjeza kuti chifukwa ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito olemetsa ali achinyamata, chizoloŵezi chimakula kwambiri.
"Ngati ndine 17 ndipo ndi 90% ya zochitika zanga zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ndiye kuti ndaika khama kwambiri kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana zamakono zokhudzana ndi kugonana koma ndaika nthawi yaying'ono kuti ndikuwonetsetse kugonana kwanga ndi munthu wina , kotero zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti udziwitse kwa munthu wina ndipo mumadzipeza kuti muli njira ina yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhala yosiyana kwambiri ndi kugonana ndi munthu. "
Phunziro la 2014 adapeza kuti gawo limodzi mwa atatu mwa amuna amawonera zolaula tsiku lililonse, ndikuwona kuti zolaula zakhala zikuchulukirachulukira zaka zingapo zapitazi - makamaka chifukwa chakubwera kwa mafoni ndi kulumikizana kwachangu kwambiri - mwina chiwerengerochi tsopano ndi chapamwamba kwambiri.
Dr Angela Gregory, wothandizira kugonana pa chipatala cha Nottingham University, adati: "Amuna akuyamba kukhala okhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kukondana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi."
Kwa amuna ena, amayamba kugonana ndikugonana nthawi zonse. "Ziri ngati zipsinjo zomwe sangathe kuzilemba ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala m'malingaliro awo," adatero Gregory.
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Ngakhale kuti pulogalamu ya zolaula imakhala yofala kwambiri, ngakhale kuti palibe vuto lililonse lodziŵika kuti ali ndi "zolaula" Dr Smiler, wolemba Kugonana ndi kugonana: Buku lotsogolera wa 21st Century Youth Boy, sakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa. Komano Gregory amakhulupirira amuna ena do kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi chenicheni cha zolaula.
Nthawi zambiri amawona anyamata omwe ali ndi mavuto okhwima koma nthawi zambiri sagwirizana ndi zolaula monga zimaonedwa kuti ndi zachilendo kuwonerera.
Mwamwayi, vuto lopweteka la erectile limakhala losavuta, mosavuta ngati muli mnyamata wathanzi: "Ngati mungathe kuimitsa [maliseche], mukhoza kubwezeretsa dongosolo lanu kuti likhale labwino," akutero Gregory.
Amalimbikitsa kuyenda kozizira masiku 90 - amuna ena zimawavuta, ena zimawavuta. Ndipo Dr Smiler akuwonetsa kuti muyenera kubwezeretsanso thupi lanu ndi malingaliro anu, chifukwa chake amalankhula ndi makasitomala ake ambiri pazomwe zimawoneka bwino.
Ngakhale kupweteka kwa erectile kupweteka ndi vuto lalikulu kwa amuna omwe amadzionetsera maliseche nthawi zonse, amangowonongeka akuwonetsanso kugonana m'malingaliro awo.
"Pa zolaula, kugonana nthawi zonse kumachitika mosavuta, aliyense amakhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndipo palibe amene amakana kapena kunena kuti" Sindikufuna kutero ", adatero Dr Smiler.
“Koma kunena zoona, sikuti nthawi zonse anthu amakhala ndi nkhawa. Nthawi zina mumatha kugwa mukamavula mathalauza ndipo ndizoseketsa. Koma palibe zomwe zimachitika pazenera ndipo anyamata amayembekezera kuti zonse zikhale zosavuta ndipo sakudziwa choti achite, "adalongosola.
Palinso vuto la anthu ambiri omwe samawoneka ngati nyenyezi zolaula. Dr Smiler, yemwe amagwira ntchito kwambiri ndi anyamata akuluakulu a 13-25 ndipo analemba buku pa masculinity, amakhulupirira kuti zithunzi zolaula "zimasintha malingaliro ndi ziyembekezo za yemwe ali wokongola," kutanthauza kuti amuna ambiri amapeza kuti akukonda kwambiri.
Gregory amakhulupirira kuti ngati zolaula zimakhala zovuta, zowoneka bwino komanso zodziwika, amuna ambiri adzakumana ndi mavuto a chiyanjano ndi kugonana.
Kodi pali zolaula zomwe munthu angathe kuziwona? Zimadalira munthuyo, koma Dr Smiler amakhulupirira kuti munthu akhoza kuseweretsa zolaula kamodzi katatu patsiku ndipo "sichidzakhalanso ndi zotsatirapo pa moyo wake wa kugonana kusiyana ndi zaka za 50 zapitazo pamene anyamata akulakwitsa pojambula zithunzi -wasungwana. "
Koma mukadzipeza mukuseweretsa maliseche tsiku lililonse - ndipo ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe mumaseweretsa maliseche - ndipamene mukupita pamavuto.
ndi Rachel Hosie
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