Zithunzi zolaula zimawoneka kuli paliponse lerolino - pakulengeza, pa intaneti, pa mafoni a pulogalamu, pa zojambula zojambula pazithunzi. Ndipo kupeza kosavuta kumakhala kovuta momwe anthu ambiri amachitira limodzi, nthawi zambiri ndi zotsatira zowawa.
Zithunzi zolaula zafala kwambiri masiku ano ku America kotero kuti Society of Human Resource Management ikuyerekeza kuti 70% ya zolaula zimachitika kuntchito, pakati pa maola a 9 am ndi 5 pm Pogwiritsa ntchito mafoni awo, anthu sayenera kugwira ntchito kudzera pa intaneti ya abwana. Pakafukufuku wina, 52% ya amuna azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 30 adati amawona zolaula pantchito, pomwe 74% ya amuna azaka 31 mpaka 49 amati amaziwona zikugwira ntchito.
Ndizo ngozi zambiri za ntchito. Koma zotsatira zina zowonongeka izi zikukopa chidwi, monga madokotala ndi opaleshoni amachiza chiwerengero chochuluka cha amuna kwa Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED).
Panthawi inayake, Tamara Thompson (osati dzina lake lenileni), wazaka 30 ndi St. Louis, Missouri, sanaganize kuti ubale wake pa intaneti ndi dokotala wokongola udzasanduka chinthu chenicheni. Patatha masabata angapo, iye adafuna kuti izo zisakhale.
Thompson akumufotokozera kuti ndi "munthu wangwiro kwambiri amene ndakhala ndikukumana nawo." Anali wophunzira, wokonda, wokondeka, wochenjera kwambiri komanso wokongola kwambiri. Kulongosola kwake, komabe, sikumukonzekerere tsiku lachitatu.
"Atangompsompsona mphindi zingapo, anandithandiza kuchotsa, kundikankhira pabedi, kenako ndinakonza thupi langa mpaka lingafune. Anakhala pampando ndikuyamba kuseweretsa maliseche. Poyamba, sindinkadziwa zomwe zikuchitika. Ndinazindikira pang'onopang'ono, pamene maso ake ankasunthira kuyenda mofulumira, ndiye kuti ndinali thupi pamakompyuta. "
Kafukufuku akuwonekera pa mbali zonse ziwiri za zovulaza / osayambitsa mikangano yolakwika pa zolaula, koma madokotala akuwonanso umboni weniweni wa wosagwirizana. Ameneyo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi yemwe wasiya kupeza zochitika kuchokera ku moyo ndi enieni, ndipo m'malo mwake amamangiriridwa kuti azikweza mwazinthu zopanda dzina ndipo nthawi zambiri zinthu zopanda pake zomwe zingasinthe nthawi zonse.
"Ndinaganiza kuti ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ngati 'malo ogwirizanitsa' pakati pa maubwenzi, koma sindingathe kukhala ndi chibwenzi tsopano."
Kafukufuku wochokera ku Max Planck Institute adasonyeza kuti malo osangalatsa (striatum) a ubongo amachepetsedwa kwambiri ndi ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
Mu 1992, ndi 5 peresenti yokha ya amuna omwe ali ndi 40 ndi ochepa omwe amavomereza kuti ali ndi vuto lokhazikika. Chiwerengerochi tsopano chiwerengero cha 33 - chikuwonetsedwa mu maphunziro a ku Ulaya ndi America. Kukhala ndi thanzi labwino, kukhalapo kwa kunenepa kwambiri, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala ndizo zifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti erectile iwonongeke, koma mwina amuna abwinobwino akuwonetsa zolaula monga chifukwa cha ED.
John Vargos (osati dzina lake lenileni), ali ndi zaka 28, wa Atlanta, Georgia, nkhani za erectile zinasonyeza pamene anakwatira mkazi yemwe anamutcha kuti "wokwatirana naye."
"Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula tsiku lililonse," adatero. "Ine ndi Jane tinakumana paulendo wa tchuthi. Chaka chotsatira, tinkakumana wina ndi mzake tikamatha, ndipo ndinapitiriza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula tikasiyana. Ndinkaganiza kuti zidzatha tikamakhala mumzinda womwewo ndipo tidzakhala limodzi. "
John anasamukira - koma patangopita masabata angapo, adakumana ndi vuto lokhazikitsa kapena kukonda mkazi wake.
"Ndinali ndi chibwenzi kuti ndikulimbikitseni pambuyo pa zowawa zina ndi Jane. Ine sindinayambe ndakhalapo ndi chinachake ndipo ine ndinamverera mopanda mphamvu. Titakwatirana, ndinkatopa kwambiri. "
Iye adafunanso kuti gulu likhale lolimbikitsa kuti azigonana, ndipo adakhala nthawi yochuluka pa Intaneti kufunafuna anthu ogonana.
"Ndinaganiza kuti ndimagwiritsa ntchito zolaula ngati 'chonyamulira' pakati pa maubale, koma sindingathe kuyanjana pompano," adatero.
Mkazi wake anali ndi ana awiri, choncho zotsatira za banja losokonezeka pa iwo zimamuvutitsa.
Barbara Winter, Ph.D., katswiri wa zamaganizo ovomerezedwa ndi chilolezo komanso wovomerezeka wogonana pa Boca Raton, ku Florida, amachititsa anyamata akulimbana ndi PIED, komanso amayi omwe amakhudzidwa nawo, ndi mabanja.
"Ambiri omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chochita chidwi amatanganidwa ndi kuyitanitsa zithunzi zawo, kuzisintha, komanso mitundu ingapo yomwe angapange," adatero. "Ngakhale kuti amuna, makamaka, ali ndi vuto lokonda zolaula, akazi nawonso amachita zomwezo."
Ena amaona kuti zolaula ndi njira yabwino yothetsera vuto lofala. Moyo wamasiku ano wotanganidwa kwambiri, wokhala mopanikizika kwambiri ungasiyitse nthawi yocheperako kuti ubale ukhale bwino. Rocco Amazzi (osati dzina lake lenileni), wazaka 32, waku Long Beach, New York, amagwira ntchito ziwiri kuti athe kupeza zosowa za ana komanso zosowa za makolo okalamba.
“Ndimatsegula kompyuta [ndipo] sindiyeneranso kuthana ndi malingaliro amkazi. Ndikuvomereza kuti sindikudziwikanso. Ndi moyo lero. ”
"Ndikuganiza za nthawi yomwe zimatengera kuti ndidziwane ndi munthu wina ... ndidumpha zonse, chifukwa ndimatha kuyatsa kompyuta ndikumaliza mu mphindi 10 ndikuchepetsa kwambiri. Sindiyenera kuthana ndi malingaliro amkazi. Ndikuvomereza kuti sindikudziwikanso. Ndi moyo lero. Ndi kulikonse. Palibe amene akuganiza kuti ziyenera kukhala mosiyana. ”
Kathy ndi Matt Karsten (osati mayina awo enieni) aku Kansas City, Missouri, ati PIED ndiimodzi mwamkhondo zambiri zomwe akumanapo ngati banja. Atatumizidwa ku Afghanistan, Matt adayamba kudalira zolaula. Iye anafotokoza kuti anali “kupezeka mosavuta moti kunali kovuta kupeŵa.”
Kathy Karsten anayamba kukayikira yekha kugonana atatha kuzindikira kuti mwamuna wake amagwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zambiri za amayi, kuphatikizapo abwenzi, pofuna kudzutsa, koma kuti adachita chidwi ndi kugonana kwawo.
"Zinali zopweteka kwambiri kukankhidwira kutali ndikukanidwa," adauza LifeZette. “Ndinakwiya. Ndinkalira tsiku lililonse. Ndidadzipatula pakati pa anthu ena, chifukwa ndimawona kuti sakandimvetsetsa. Ndatayika, koma ulemu wake ndi kunyada kwake kunatha ndipo adadzitayanso. ”
Awiriwa adasiyana ndipo adayamba maulendo osiyana kuti adzidziwitse. "Zatsala pang'ono kuwononga ubale wathu, chifukwa sizimatilola kulumikizana monga banja komanso kutengeka," adalongosola.
Matt Karsten anati: "Zinapangitsa kuti anthu azidzikayikira komanso kuti azidziona kuti ndine wosafunika." "Sindingathe kuchita zolaula popanda zolaula. Sindinadziwe kuti chibwenzi chinali chiyani. ”
Lero, banjali lidalongosola kuti akumva kuyandikira kwambiri kuposa kale. Ayambitsa ma blogs angapo kuti athandize mabanja ena ndipo akufuna kuchepetsa kulumikizana pakati pa maanja pa nkhaniyi.
Sandy Iyler waku Washington, DC, analibe mwayi muubwenzi wake. Banja lake loyamba linatha chifukwa chizolowezi cha zolaula cha mwamuna wake wakale chidakula kukhala PIED ndikumangokhalira kuda nkhawa. Kudzera pakufufuza kwake ndikugwira ntchito ndi wothandizira, adazindikira zovuta zakumwa, kuphatikizapo zomwe zimatulutsa zomwe mwamuna wake anali nazo, ngakhale sanathe kusintha machitidwe kuti akhazikitsenso chidaliro pakati pawo.
Lero banja lachiwiri la Iyler ndi losiyana kwambiri.
“Tonse ndife okondwa kuyesa zatsopano. Koma ndinganene kuti kusiyana kwakukulu pakukondana ndikumasiyana kwambiri. Ndili ndi moyo wapamtima womwe ndi woona mtima komanso wosabisa chilichonse. ”
Pat Barone ndi mphunzitsi wodziwika kuti credentialed ndi wolemba wa Own Every Bite! pulogalamu ya kachiwiri yophunzitsira anthu oyenera kudya ndi osamalitsa, omwe amathandiza makasitomala kuti athetse kuledzera.
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