Anthu ena amakonda chamba, koma ndinayamba kukondana nawo.
Ndikanadzuka, ndimakhala ndi vuto. Kapena mulu wa nthabwala. Ndipo pitilizani tsiku lonse mpaka pomwe ndinali wokonzeka kugona usiku ndikakhala kuti ndimagunda bong asanakagone.
Ndalama zonse za $ 100 zomwe ndinalandira (ndipo ndinapeza ndalama zabwino kwa munthu wina wa msinkhu wanga) anapita ku mphika, motero.
Ndinasuta kwambiri kuposa aliyense amene ndimadziwa kapena kumudziwa.
Ndinasuta ola liri lonse lokha kuyambira nthawi yomwe ndinali mwina 16 kapena 17 kufika pa 24.
Ndikufuna kuti mudziwe kuti ngakhale kuti chamba sichinali chovuta kwa ine, ndimachidakwa kwambiri.
Mukuyesera kusiya? Nthawi zingapo. Sitinakhalepo nthawi yoposa masiku ena a 5.
Ubongo nthawi zonse umapereka zifukwa zosokoneza bongo. Amatha kunena kuti, "kungonena kamodzi sikungapweteke." Mukudziwa kubowola. Nthawi zonse amakhala okonzeka ndi zolingalira.
Ine potsiriza ndinasiya kwathunthu ndi kwathunthu.
Ndinali munthu wopambana ndipo ndimadziwa kuti sindimafunikira kapena kufuna izi ndipo kusiya kunali kosapeweka.
Nditasiya, sindinakhalepo ndi chamba chokha.
Zinali zovuta kwambiri. Miyezi ingapo yodzikongoletsa mwanjira iliyonse. Palibe cheza kumoyo. Kupatula kuti ndidakumana ndi msungwana watsopanoyu ndipo chidwi changa chimangoyang'ana pa iye. Zomwe ndimadziwa kuti sakufuna kusuta chamba ali bwenzi ndizomwe zidandilimbikitsa kusiya ngakhale sindinamuuze kapena kutchula za chizolowezi changa chamba.
Momwemo tsiku lomwe ndinakomana naye anali nthawi yomaliza yomwe ndinasuta. Chifukwa cha iye, ndinatha kubwezeretsa moyo wanga osagwedezeka, kubwereranso, ndi zina zotero.
Posachedwapa ndinasiya kumwa mowa. Ndinkakhala wopanda chiyembekezo m'moyo wanga kwa miyezi ingapo. Koma sindinamwe chakumwa china. Sindinali woledzera momwe ndimasuta chamba, koma ndimamva kuti imalepheretsa moyo wanga ndipo sindingapite tsiku limodzi osamwa katatu usiku nthawi zina 3 kapena 4. Sindinakonde kumverera kotereku kufuna zambiri .
Ndikuganiza kuti zoledzeretsa zonse ziri zofanana ndi momwe mukusiya masamba omwe muli opanda kanthu, otsika dopamine, ndipo palibe njira koma kulima. Ndikuganiza kuti zovuta zogonana ndizovuta chifukwa cha ubongo wathu, zomwe ndinaphunzira pano kuchokera kwa Gary ndi Marnia ndi YBOP.
Koma chinsinsi chosiya nthawi zonse ndi ichi: m'malo mwa chizolowezi choledzera ndi china chake. Ndinali ndi chibwenzi changa chatsopano ndipo izi zinapangitsa kuti asiye kusuta chamba.
Achinyamata pano omwe alibe bwenzi ndipo akusiya PMO - ali ndi zovuta chifukwa ayenera kupeza machitidwe atsopano kuti atenge malo omwe PMO adadzaza.
Ndazimva zikuyikidwa chonchi. Muli ndi munda ndipo pali udzu wakale wakale ndipo mumakumba. Tsopano pali bowo lakale lalikulu pabedi lanu lamaluwa ndipo muyenera kuyikapo kenakake apo ayi udzu wina umera kumeneko.
Izi ndizofunika kwambiri: kusintha khalidwe ndi zomwe zakuthandizani, khalidwe loledzera, ndi zina.
Kodi khalidwe lanu lachizolowezi limakuchitirani chiyani? Kwa ine, chamba candithandiza kuchepetsa kusungulumwa komwe kungakhale kosakhalitsa kosangalatsa koma nthawi yayitali ikanakhala yopweteka kwambiri kuti ndikhale ndi kusintha kwabwino mmoyo wanga mofulumira (monga kusonkhana akazi).
Ngati mukufuna kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena kumwa mowa, muyenera kudziwa kuti ndi bowo liti lomwe lidzakusiyani m'moyo wanu ndipo muyenera kulidzaza mosamala. Sankhani chinthu chathanzi, ndipo musalole kuti chikhale chizolowezi. Ndikuwononga nthawi yochepa pa intaneti tsopano ndipo zimenezo zikutsegula malo a zinthu zatsopano zomwe ndikusangalala nazo. Ndikuganiza kuti lingaliro ili lochita chinthu chomwe chimatenga malo a khalidwe lakale ndilofunika kwambiri.
Anyamata omwe achira apeza china chatsopano chomwe chimalowa m'malo mwa machitidwe a PMO. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala pachibwenzi koma sindiganiza nthawi zonse. Koma china chake chiyenera kusintha. Ngati mumakonda PMO, ndipo mulibe chibwenzi, musalole kuti zikulepheretseni kusiya. Koma dongosolo lanu loyamba lazamalonda liyenera kukhala kuti mupeze china choti mutenge nthawi ya PMO ndi chilichonse chomwe PMO ikubweretserani, kapena kubwereranso sikungapeweke.
Maganizo athu sakuyenera kukhulupirira.
Akatiuza "zili bwino, pang'ono pang'ono" kapena zilizonse. Ndicho chifukwa chake khalidwe labwino, kusiya kwathunthu, ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yosiya zolaula, IMHO.
Omwe amapambana, ndipo ndawerenga maakaunti awo pano, chitani izi mwakusiyiratu, 100%. Atha kubwereranso koma ndiyachidziwikire mwangozi. Kugonana mobwerezabwereza ndi chinthu chimodzi, koma "kungowona zokongola zina zosambira" kapena zina, ndizosiyana.
Ngati mukusiya PMO zomwe zikutanthawuza kuti mukuyenera kutero musayambe kuyang'ana pa zolaula ZONSE ziribe kanthu komwe ubongo wanu ukunena.
Ndizodabwitsa momwe anthu amakhulupirira malingaliro awo. Kutulutsa nkhani: Maganizo amanama.
Ngati mwatsimikiza mtima kusiya, mudzazindikira kuti mudzakhala ndi maganizo akuti kuyang'ana kamodzi kuli bwino ndipo simudzayang'ananso . Maganizo ndi abodza. Ubongo wanu udzakuuzani zinthu zosiyanasiyana ndipo zonse ndi mabodza.
Mumangoganiza mumtima mwanu, "izi ndi zomwe a emerson adati zichitika. Maganizo anga akunama. ” Ndiye mumaponya madzi ozizira kumaliseche anu ndikupita kokakachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena zilizonse. Mumasintha malo anu, mumachita china chake chomwe chimakutengani, ngakhale itakhala 3 m'mawa. Zilizonse zomwe zingakhalepo komanso nthawi iliyonse, MUDZICHOTSA nokha kumayesero panthawiyi.
Ndizomwe zimapangitsa anyamata kuthana ndi izi bwinobwino. Malingaliro anu ADZANAMA ndipo zomwe zimachitika ndiye zimangodalira izi: Kodi mudzazindikira kuti ubongo wanu ukunamizani, ndipo mudzichotsa nokha kumayesero nthawi yomweyo?
Ndalemba za kusiya kusuta chamba ndi mowa lero. Izi zinali zovuta kwambiri koma zomwe ndidachita ndikungosiya kwathunthu 100% ndipo nditayesedwa kuti ndigunde kamodzi kokha kapena kuwombera kamodzi, ndidadziuza ndekha, "ubongo, ukunamizanso, wopusa wonyenga" Ndidadzichotsa pamayesero ndikupita kwina.