Ndi Sylvia Pownall (kulumikiza ku nkhani yapachiyambi)
Ireland ikugwira ntchito yolimbana ndi zolaula ndi ana monga ana asanu ndi awiri akupezeka pazomwe zili pa intaneti. Tsopano tikulongosola zachinayi padziko lonse chifukwa cha kugwiritsira ntchito zithunzi zolaula kumbuyo kwa UK, Canada ndi US - komanso kukonda kwathu ndi kuyendetsa mabanja ndikupuntha miyoyo.
Achipatala ndi magulu othandizira awonetsa kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa chaka chapitacho mu manambala kufunafuna kuthandizidwa ndi zofuna zawo. Wolemba za Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Ireland anati: "Zikuwoneka kuti kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa kugwiritsira ntchito kugonana kwachinsinsi kuphatikizapo zolaula.
"Tsopano ana omwe ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri kapena zisanu ndi zitatu akuchita nawo, mosadziwika nthawi zambiri, koma angayambitse mavuto aakulu.
"Takhala ndi wina yemwe akufuna thandizo atakwanitsa zaka 25 yemwe adayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ali ndi zaka 10."
Anati kuonekera kwa laptops, mapiritsi ndi mafoni a m'manja zinachititsa kuti kugonana kwa pa Intaneti kukhale kovuta kuti anthu aziwoneka mobisa.
Wolankhulayo anawonjezera kuti: "Kuwonjezeka kukuwopsya. Mabwinjawa amakhala. Anthu ambiri ali pansi pamtunda pamene amabwera kwa ife. Kawirikawiri iwo awononga ukwati wawo ndi mabanja awo.
"Kudzipha nthawi zambiri kungakhale chinthu chotsatira chifukwa akudzichepetsa kwambiri.
"Vuto liribe malamulo ozungulira izo. Zili ngati munthu wotchova njuga amene angalowe m'sitolo ndikudyetsa chizoloŵezi chake, ndi zofanana ndi zolaula, zikuwoneka kuti palibe zolepheretsa kuzipeza. "
Katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi wolemba mabuku, Trish Murphy, adanena kuti adawona kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa chiwerengero kufunafuna chithandizo kwao.
Iye anati: "Ndizofala kwambiri. Ndikuwona anthu ambiri omwe sangathe kuletsa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula, omwe amawonjezera ndipo amanyansidwa nazo kuti zimatenga moyo wawo wonse, omwe sangathe kugwira ntchito ndi munthu wina chifukwa cha izo. "
Anati ambiri ogwiritsa ntchito anali ndi ubale wathanzi ndi zolaula - koma kwa ena zomwe zimayambira monga chidwi chingabweretse zaka zachinyengo, kudziimba mlandu komanso manyazi pamene iwo akuwongolera mobwerezabwereza.
"Sikuti aliyense ali ndi mavuto," anatero Trish. "Anthu ambiri amachoka, koma anthu omwe amadera nkhaŵa kwambiri m'magulu amaoneka ngati akuyamwa chifukwa zolaula zimawathandiza ndipo ndizokhakha.
"Poyamba izo zimawoneka ngati zopanda pake, koma zimatha kupita ku webcam yamoyo ndikupereketsa zinthu, zomwe zingasokoneze maubwenzi.
"Ndizosavuta kuti mulowe m'dera lamdima limene mwanyansidwa nazo chifukwa zomwe mukupita nazo n'zovuta. Mukuchita mantha kuti winawake adziwe za iwe.
"Anthu ena amapitiliza kupita patsogolo kuti agwire kwambiri. Amadzipeza okha akusangalala ndi kuchita nawo zinthu zomwe zimawasokoneza pambuyo pake.
"Ndimawadziwa anthu omwe amatha maola asanu ndi atatu patsiku akuonera zolaula ndikukhala okhaokha.
"Tili ndi anthu mu maubwenzi omwe wina amagona ndipo mnzakeyo amapita pa intaneti kwa maola angapo. Pali lingaliro lachinyengo ndi gawo lapamtima la miyoyo yawo yosagawanika.
"Kapena mwinamwake munthuyo ali ndi malingaliro ogonana omwe sali ovomerezeka kwa munthu winayo ndipo chotero chibwenzi chimakhala chochepera zaka zambiri."
Trish anachenjeza za kuopsa kwa kutumizirana mameseji olaula komanso akuti achinyamata akudziwika kuti ali ndi zilembo zisanayambe kupirira.
Iye anati: "Ndizoopsa kwambiri, koma kuli paliponse ndipo tikuyenera kuzizindikira. Makolo ayenera kuyamba kukambirana ndi ana awo pa nkhani yonse yogonana ndi zolaula. "
Ntchito yothandizira matenda a maganizo inakhazikitsidwa ku St John of God Hospital ku Dublin zaka zitatu zapitazo pofuna kuthetsa zolaula ndi zilakolako zakugonana.
Nkhani zomwe zikuphatikizidwazo zikuphatikiza kulephera kwa erectile, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitilira muyeso ndi zofanizira - wina atadzutsidwa ndi kulakalaka kuchita zachiwerewere zomwe zitha kuphatikizira chinthu, nyama kapena kupweteka.
Dokotala Fergal Rooney, katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe amagwirizanitsa ntchitoyi, anati: "Tapeza anthu ochulukirapo omwe akukumana ndi mavuto chifukwa cha zolaula.
"Nthaŵi zina ntchito yawo imasunthira kumalo osaloledwa kumene angayang'ane zithunzi za kugwiriridwa kwa ana, koma izo zikanakhala zovuta kwambiri.
"Ambiri akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mpaka pamene zimasokoneza moyo wawo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo sangathe kugonana ndi mnzawo.
"Zolaula sizili bwino. Sizodabwitsa kuti munthu akhale pansi kwa maola ambiri atayang'ana zolaula. Sizosangalatsa pa sitepe imeneyi ndipo wakhala akukakamizidwa.
"Anthu ambiri akamagwiritsa ntchito zolaula amakhala ndi makhalidwe oipa kwambiri omwe amakumana nawo, ndipo amadana nawo.
"Amatha kukhala ndi chidwi ndi makhalidwe osiyanasiyana omwe kawirikawiri sawakonda, monga kugonana ndi abambo omwe amachititsidwa ndi zolaula.
"Izi zimabweretsa nkhani zakugonana ndipo tikhoza kuona chiwerengero cha anyamata omwe ali ndi vuto la erectile."
Malinga ndi Pornhub, wosuta wa ku Ireland amatha mphindi zisanu ndi zinayi ndi masekondi a 48 paulendo akuwona zolaula. Mtundu wa Kim Kardashian wogonana ndi Ray Jay ndiwe wowonedwa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi akukweza maganizo a 150million.
Mawu ofunikira ambiri omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ku Ireland akuphatikizapo MILF, mayi, thirakitala, achiwerewere, akusuntha ndi achiwerewere, ndipo gawo limodzi la alendo omwe ali pa webusaitiyi ndi akazi.
- Kuti mumve zambiri za misonkhano ya SLAA ku Ireland onani www.slaaireland.org, kapena funsani 01 2771662 kapena pitani ku www.sjog.ie.
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