Katswiri wina wogwiritsa ntchito maganizo opatsirana pogonana ku Manchester adachenjeza kuti kuonera zolaula kumabweretsa chiwerengero cha anyamata, atsikana omwe akufuna thandizo lachipatala kuti asagwire ntchito.
Kusokonekera kwa erectile (PIED) yochititsa manyazi ndi nkhani yokhudza kugonana yokhudzana ndi kugonana komwe kumakhudza mbadwo wa amuna omwe ali ndi mwayi wopeza malire.
Kukhala ndi mwayi wodalirika kuwonetsetsa kuti zolaula zimapereka zingayambitse zovuta zambiri zogonana, malinga ndi katswiri wina wazamasewero wotchedwa Janet Eccles.
"Kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu nthawi yayitali kumatha kuvutika chifukwa chakuti wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula samangokhalira kukondwa," anatero.
"Chomwe chimatayika apa ndi lingaliro la kugonana kwa munthu kukhala yekha ndi mnzanu wosankhidwa."
Amuna ambiri omwe akulimbana ndi zotsatira za PIED adanena kuti akukumana ndi vuto lomwelo pazowonongeka - zina zomwe zikutsatiridwa ndi mamiliyoni ambiri akugunda tsiku.
Wolemba wina yemwe adalemba zomwe adakumana nazo adati: "Zolakalaka zanga zolaula komanso maliseche zidapangitsa" mwana wanga wosauka "kukhala wonyalanyaza, wopanda pake, wopanda pake mthupi langa yemwe samangofuna chidwi cha akazi.”
Mwamuna wina, wazaka za 22, anati: "Ndinkachita mantha ndi kugonana ndi chibwenzi changa chifukwa ndinkakhala ndikuopsezedwa chifukwa cholephera kugwiritsira ntchito erectile."
"Nthawi zambiri ndimakana kukakamizidwa ndi mayiyu ndikupepesa chifukwa chomwe sitimagonana chifukwa tsiku lina ndinali nditaseweretsa maliseche tsiku lomwelo ndipo sindinali wokonda kapena ndinali ndi mantha kuti sindingathe kuchita komanso kuvutika ndi manyazi, manyazi komanso kunyazitsa kuwonongeka kwa erectile. ”
Nambala yowonjezereka ya anyamata akutembenukira kwa Viagra kuthetsa vuto - koma njira yachipatala nthawi zambiri imakhala yopanda phindu chifukwa vuto ndi PIED limayamba mu ubongo.
"Vuto ndilokuti dopamine - mahomoni omwe amasulidwa omwe amathandiza kuti zosangalatsazi zikhale zosangalatsa - ndilo gawo la mphotho mu ubongo ndipo zingathe kukhala zovuta kuti ziwathandize," Janet anafotokoza.
"Tikhoza kuona chithunzi chimodzi tsiku lomwe chimatikondweretsa ndikubwerera kwa iye mobwerezabwereza, koma ndiye kuti timapeza kuti sichitikondweretsa.
"Ndaonapo makasitomala ambiri, omwe ngakhale kuti safuna kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, amadzipezanso mobwerezabwereza malo oonera zolaula."
Otsatira amatha kupeza zofuna zowonjezereka kuti akwaniritse 'mkulu' ndipo kafukufuku pa yunivesite ya Cambridge afananitsa ntchito za ubongo zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa anthu ogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Mmodzi wa zaka 20 yemwe analemba za zochitika zake anati: "Ndinkaganiza kuti ndi zachilendo, koma zoona ndikuti ndinali dopamine junkie."
"Kuonera zolaula zomwe mumayang'ana, ndikofunika kwambiri komanso zolaula zomwe mumafunikira kuti muzimva."
"Poipa kwambiri, ndinkachita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi nthawi zambiri, zochitika zachiwerewere nthawi zambiri kapena nthawi zina zolaula."
Kufuna kukakamiza kupeza chithunzithunzi chokwanira kumatanthauza kuti malo osangalatsa a ubongo amayamba kukhala ndi "zachizoloŵezi" zakugonana, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti asakhale ndi zovuta komanso zokondweretsa zokambirana ndi anthu enieni.
"Zingakhale kuti kugonana ndi munthu wina yemwe amadziŵa bwino basi 'sakuchitanso' kwa iwo kuti athe kuchoka kwa anzawo komanso kupewa kugonana," Janet anapitiriza.
Amuna ambiri akugawana zomwe akumana nazo pa intaneti adayankhulana ndi nkhani zofanana, pofotokoza kuti chizoloŵezi chawo chowongolera chinawatsogolera kudzimva kuti ali okhaokha, akuvutika maganizo komanso osadzidalira.
Ena adanenapo za kudzipha chifukwa cha kuledzera.
"Amasowa mphamvu zawo zachibadwa zokhudzana ndi kugonana - zachilengedwe ndi kutuluka kwa libido, kuyandikana ndi chitonthozo cha wokondedwa ndi kuiwala zomwe kugonana kuli kwenikweni kwa iwo," Janet anapitiriza.
"Icho chimakhala chochitika chowongolera, chokhumudwitsa, mmalo mogawana, kugwirizana."
Chotsatira chake, amuna omwe akudwala PIED ndi oledzera amalimbikitsana kuti asiye chizolowezi ndikuyamba 'kubwezeretsanso' - njira yokonzanso ubongo kuti ikhale yolimbikitsidwa ndi zochitika zachiwerewere.
Anthu omwe ali kumbuyo kwa masewerawa amavomereza kuti ali ndi mphamvu zokhudzana ndi kugonana monga kugwira ndi kununkhiza.
Mmodzi wa zaka 19, yemwe anali ndi zaka zakubadwa, ananena kuti: "Masabata oyambirira anali ovuta kwambiri ndi zilakolako zowopsya, zodzaza ndi ubongo wa ubongo, chidziwitso chochepa komanso chisangalalo chachikulu.
"Zanga zolaula-zowonongeka - tsopano zosakhutira, zoperewera za dopamine - ndondomeko yamanjenje inandibweretsera kuwonongeka kwathunthu.
"Kenako ndinayamba kupita patsogolo kwambiri; zolimbikitsa zinkatsikira pansi, ndondomeko yanga yamanjenje inayamba kubwereza pang'onopang'ono kuti iyankhule ndi kukweza kuti ikhudze ndi kununkhiza, mmalo mozizira pakompyuta.
"Pamene malingaliro anga anawonekera bwino, chidaliro changa chinakula kwambiri ndipo nkhawa yanga ya chikhalidwe cha anthu inachepa."
Ena ambiri adalongosola ulendo wa 'kubwezeretsanso' monga 'kusintha moyo', osakhudza miyoyo yawo ya kugonana - koma kudzikuza kwawo konse.
Janet anamaliza kunena kuti: "Kugonana ndibwino kuti muzisangalala, ndizoti muzitha kufotokozera nokha ndikudziyanjanitsa nokha, mwachikondi, mwachikondi kapena mwachikondi."
"Sikuti mukungolemba zomwe mukuziwona pakompyuta."
Kuti mumve zambiri, pitani ku Janet Eccle's webusaiti.
May 6, 2014 | Ndi Kat Woodcock
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