Ndi Rose Laing, Lachitatu 12 October 2016
Christchurch GP Rose Laing akupeza kuti ndi nthawi yowonjezera kuwonetsa zolaula pa intaneti ku mndandanda wake wa matenda
Mndandanda wa zizindikiro zomwe timayenera kuganizira pa chisamaliro chapamwamba zikuoneka kuti zimakhala zotalika patsiku, koma ndikuwonjezera zatsopano zanga - kuwonetsa zolaula pa intaneti ndi zotsatira zake.
Ndinkaganiza kuti ndikudziwa zoopsa za zolaula. Ndalankhulapo za miyezi ingapo yapitayi ndi mwana wachinyamata pa nkhani ya bwenzi lake, wophunzira wina yemwe anali ndi vutoli, yemwe anali ndi vuto, anali kukhala theka la usiku pa Intaneti ndikuyamba kulephera kusukulu.
Tidakambirana za kusiyana pakati pa zolaula, zachiwerewere komanso chikondi, komanso mndandanda wonse wa kutsutsana, ndipo anandiuza anzanga ambiri kuti amaona kuti zolaula ndizo zowonongeka.
Amayi anali okhutira ndi izi koma zinthu zimasintha, ndipo tsopano mwana wanga amandiuza abwenzi ake nthawi zambiri kuti aziona zolaula ndipo sakufuna, kapena sangathe, kusiya. Iye ali, molimba mtima, akuyankhula za sukulu chifukwa chake zolaula zili zoipa kwa aliyense ndipo wandisonyeza ine zokambirana pa intaneti zomwe wagwiritsa ntchito monga kufufuza kuti athandize maganizo ake.
Amapanga maonekedwe osokoneza.
| Pamwamba pa izi, zolaula zimakhalabe makampani opondereza, ogulitsa ntchito omwe amapanga ndalama zambiri kwa ochepa, ndi kuwononga miyoyo ya anthu ambiri. |
Zimakhala zophweka kwa ana (ndipo ndikutanthauza ana; kafukufuku wa US akusonyeza kuti 90 peresenti ya ana awonapo zolaula panthawi yomwe ali ndi zaka 12) kuti awone malo omwe amawatsogolera molakwika ndi kugonana kwaumunthu.
Makolo omwe amafufuza mbiri ya kufufuza kwa ana awo akhoza kupusitsidwa mosavuta ndi malo omwe sasiya. Ndi zophweka kuyenda kuchokera kumalo osungirako zolaula kumalo opita kumalo osungirako zachiwerewere ndikukhala achiwawa komanso malo osokoneza bongo monga "zachizolowezi" zolaula zimatayika.
Porn zimagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala omwe amachititsa kuti dopamine-release release axis ndi mankhwala ovuta kwambiri. Monga muzinthu zina zolekerera, kulekerera ndi kulimbika kumakhala, kotero kuti kufunafuna chisangalalo chochulukirapo kukhala chofala; imapezeka pa foni pamsewu.
Zotsatirapo zingaphatikizepo kupsinjika maganizo, nkhaŵa, mafotokozedwe a ADHD, komanso kuwonongeka kwa erectile n'kofala.
Ngakhale kwa iwo omwe sali oledzera, zolaula zimapereka ntchito yovuta monga chida chophunzitsira kugonana kwa achinyamata. Zolakolako zonse zolaula ndizokhudza kugonana / orifice kukhudzana. Nyenyezi zazing'ono sizilankhula, kupatula kupereka malangizo, kusamalimbikitsa, kumpsompsona, kupumula kapena kuseka palimodzi. Kodi kuyang'ana kwa mtundu uwu wazinthu kumapanga bwanji anyamata kapena abambo a mtundu uliwonse wa chiyanjano?
Zotsatira zoopsa pa zochitika zoyambirira za kugonana
Anzanga aphunzitsi amandiuza kuti zolaula zimakhudza kwambiri pa nthawi yoyamba yolaula pakati pa achinyamata.
Atsikana amakhumudwitsidwa kapena kukhumudwa ndi zomwe akuwoneka kuti akuyenera kulekerera, ndipo anyamata ambiri amadabwa kwambiri kusiyana ndi kale lonse ndi kusiyana pakati pa zomwe amaganiza kuti kugonana ndikofunika komanso kufunika kokondana kuchokera kwa anzawo.
Pamwamba pa izi, zolaula zimakhalabe makampani opondereza, ogulitsa ntchito omwe amapanga ndalama zambiri kwa ochepa, ndi kuwononga miyoyo ya anthu ambiri.
Sindinayambe ndagwira ntchito momwe ndingabweretsere kuzindikira kwatsopano kwanga ponseponse popanda kuopseza odwala, koma ndithudi ndikuganiza kuti ndikuleredwa ndi munthu wamng'ono (kapena wamng'ono) yemwe akupereka maganizo , kusowa tulo, nkhawa kapena ubwenzi.
Werengani zambiri ma blog kuchokera ku Rose Laing pa www.nzdoctor.co.nz
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