Tiyenera kutenga umwini zomwe zolaula zikuchita kwa ana a NZ. Dr Mark Thorpe (2018)

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11 / 04 / 2018, Jesse Mulligan. Lumikizani ku gawo la TV la miniti ya 3.5 (zolembedwa pansipa)

MAFUNSO: Akatswiri amisala pano akuti tili pakati pamavuto azolaula.

Chaka chathachi, kafukufuku wa ku Australia anapeza a 100 a anyamata omwe adafunsidwa anawonetsedwa ndi zolaula, ndipo anthu oposa 85 adanena kuti amawona tsiku ndi tsiku kapena sabata iliyonse.

Ku United States, mayiko asanu ndi limodzi akulengeza zolaula kukhala vuto la thanzi labwino. Ngakhale The New York Times akuyitana akuluakulu kuti aletse.

Koma ngakhale kuli kosavuta kuuza boma kuti akuyenera kuchita kanthu, iyi ndi imodzi mwazinthu zomwe, ndizomwe mumachita zomwe zimawerengedwa.

Ndikufuna kulankhula za zolaula.

Kupatula, ndi mutu wovuta, makamaka pa TV pomwe ana angawone, chifukwa chake ndapeza yankho.

Kwa mphindi zingapo zotsatira m'malo mwa mawu oti 'zolaula', ndikuti 'chimanga'. Ingowawuzani ana anu kuti tikukamba za chimanga.

Pamene ndinali wachichepere simunawone chimanga. Mwinanso mwana wina amabweretsa chimanga cha abambo ake kusukulu ndipo iwe umakhoza, koma chinali chowoneka bwino. Ena mwa iwo anali atavalabe mankhusu awo.

Tsopano monga mwinamwake mukudziwa, chimanga kuli paliponse. Simukusowa kuti mugule ku mkaka, mutsegula laputopu kapena foni yanu ndipo ili pomwepo kuti mupite.

Monga munthu ndimayeso komanso osavuta - ngati kutenga mowa wozizira mufiriji. Koma ndikuchepa uku komwe ndikufuna kukambirana usikuuno.

Nthawi ina mukadzayamba kulemba "cornhub" mu adilesi yanu, tengani kanthawi ndikukumbukira izi.

Mwapang'onopang'ono mukuwononga luso lanu logonana mwachibadwa ndi munthu wina wamba.

Izi ndizomwe katswiri wama psychology a Dr Mark Thorpe, omwe amachita izi nthawi zonse, adati.

“Tili pakati pamavuto. Pali zovuta zambiri zakugonana ndi anyamata ochepera zaka 25 - ndipo izi zimawoneka ngati kukanika kwa erectile; kuchedwa kutaya umuna; kuchepa kwa libido ndi omwe amakhala nawo pamoyo weniweni, osati zowonekera; komanso kupewa ubale weniweni. ”

Ndizowona, nthawi iliyonse mukapita pa intaneti kuti mutsike, mumapanga chimanga chanu chimawoneka motere.

Mukamaliza chimanga, chimanga cholimba chomwe mufunikira.

Pano pali Dr Thorpe: "Ubongo ndi zolaula pa intaneti zimayang'aniridwa nazo, chifukwa chake pali chizolowezi chachilengedwe cholowerera muzinthu zovuta kwambiri.

"Zili ngati zomwe mudatchulapo ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mufunika kumenyedwa kwambiri kuti musinthe mitundu yambiri kotero zimangopitilira kukhala zaukali, zovuta, komanso zopereka chilango."

Awa ndiwo anthu enieni m'mavidiyo awa.

Mwana wamkazi wa winawake, mlongo wake. Ena mwa iwo amachita ntchito yabwino kuwoneka ngati iyi ndi ntchito yawo yoyamba, koma osadzipangira nokha.

Tivomereze kuti pogwiritsa ntchito chimanga tikuthandiza kampani yayikulu kupanga amayi ndi atsikana kuchita zomwe sakufuna kwenikweni, kuti amuna ngati ife timve bwino kwa masekondi ochepa.

Tengani umwini wa zomwe izi zikuchitira ana a New Zealand.

Akuti 88% ya zolaula pa intaneti ndizachiwawa. Pothandizira makampaniwa tikuthandiza maphunziro athu azakugonana, pomwe anyamata amamva kuti kumenya mbama, kutsamwa komanso kuvulaza abwenzi awo ndi njira yocheza, ndipo atsikana amakula ndikuganiza kuti akuyenera kuchita ngati akazi mumakanema chifukwa ndicho kugonana kokha komwe adawonako.

Ngati kumva izi kukupangitsani kuti musinthe, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito ndi a Dr Thorpe paupangiri wamalingaliro oti musiye zolaula.

Yayatsa Tsamba la Facebook la Project. Ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti iwonetsedwa m'mbiri yanu, ingoyambitsani msakatuli wanu wachinsinsi poyamba… mutsimikiza kuti mukudziwa momwe zimagwirira ntchito.

Ndipo tawonani, sindikuwuzani choti muchite makatani atatsekedwa. Koma ndikukupemphani kuti musawonere zolaula mutatseka maso anu.

Intaneti ikutisokoneza m'njira zomwe sitingazimvetsetse, koma kupeza njira ina yodzithandizira ndikumatha kuchita chinthu chimodzi chachikulu kuti mukhale ndi vuto lanu, ubale wanu komanso ana anu.

Jesse Mulligan ndi mlaliki pa Project