1 / 4 ya Mibadwo Ya Amuna a ku Japan 30 kwa 34 Ndi Namwalibe
Magazini ya sabata iliyonse ya ku Japan ya Playboy inanena mu kope lake laposachedwa kuti malinga ndi kafukufuku wochitidwa ndi Japanese Institute of Population and Social Security Research pafupifupi mwamuna m'modzi mwa anayi aku Japan azaka zapakati pa 30 ndi 34 akadali namwali. Japan Cherry Boy Association (...ahem, kalabu yaku Japan ya amuna omwe ndi anamwali,...koma akufunafuna mkazi woti agone nawo) ikukumana ndi vuto, malinga ndi Japanese Playboy Magazine ya sabata iliyonse. "Izi ndi gawo chabe la madzi oundana," woyambitsa Japan Cherry Boy Association, Shin Watanabe, akuuza Japanese Playboy Magazine. "Mkhalidwe weniweni ndi woipa kwambiri kuposa uwu."
Watanabe akunena kuti pali anthu ambiri achijeremani omwe ali anamwali kuposa omwe ali okonzeka kuvomereza, kunena kuti anthu owerengeka kwambiri omwe anafunsidwa za umaliseche wawo adzakhala wokonzeka kuvomereza poyera kuti asanathetse chilala chawo.
"Alipo 11 peresenti ya anthu omwe anapereka yankho losavomerezeka pa kafukufuku ndipo ndikukutsani kuti ambiri mwa iwo adzakhala anamwali. Ndipo ngakhale pali 65 peresenti omwe adanena kuti agonana, izi zimaphatikizapo anyamata omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chokha pa gawo lachigololo ndipo palibe kanthu kuyambira, choncho pali anamwali ambiri pakati pawo, "Watanabe akuti .
A Japan Cherry Boy Association tsopano akuyamikira anthu omwe ali ndi 517 omwe ali ndi zaka zapakati pa zaka khumi mpaka zaka khumi ndi ziwiri. Ambiri amalumikizana ndi azimayi omwe akuyembekeza kuti abwera pa webusaiti yawo ndikuyesera kuwatola. Amembala ena, ngakhale ochepa chabe, atha kukhala "omaliza maphunziro" kuchokera ku gululi pochita bwino kugonana.
"Ine ndine tcheyamani wa bungwe ndipo sindingathe kugonana, choncho ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti ndasokonezeka maganizo pamene wina waphunzira." Watanabe akuti. "Anyamata omwe amalephera kusintha nthawi yomweyo, akufuna kulembetsa nthawi yomweyo kapena kupatsa ena mamembala mwa kuwasiya mauthenga monga 'Amuna inu mwamsanga mwangomaliza ndi kuchita naye, nanunso.' Ndimadana nawo kwambiri. Ndikufuna anyamata omwe amatha kukhala pafupi ndi kupereka malangizo kwa mamembala ena ndikuwauza za zomwe akumana nazo. Koma zikuwoneka ngati anthu ataya namwali wawo, akufuna kuiwala kuti anakhalapo namwali poyamba. "
Anthu a ku Japan Cherry Boy Association amasonkhana nthawi zonse kuti azichita maphwando, komwe amauza kawirikawiri nkhani zokhudzana ndi momwe asagwirire ndi kugonana, kuphatikizapo nkhaniyi kuchokera kwa membala wa zaka 32.
"Ndakhala ndikupita ku masewera a yoga kwa zaka zambiri ndipo potsiriza ndimatha kutenga thupi langa losasunthika mokwanira kuti ndisamuke koma ine ndikufuna," akuwuza Weekly Playboy. "Tsiku lina, ndinatsimikiza kuti ndikudzipereka ndekha."
Mamembala a Association Cherry Boys sangathe kungoyamba kugwiritsira ntchito mtanda umodzi wa anamwali, mwina. "Tsopano, pali anamwali opitirira, omwe akuyesera kutaya umwali wawo, ndi anamwali osamala, omwe amachita zonse zomwe angathe kuti ateteze," Watanabe akutero.
Anamwali osamala amatsutsa kuti akhala ndi akazi enieni ndipo angakonde mitundu iwiri yofanana ndi yomwe imapezeka m'ma manga ndi anime, omwe sawatsogolera ku ululu wokanidwa.
Anamwali ena, omwe amadzitcha okha, amasokonezeka kwambiri.
"Nkhawa zambiri zaumunthu zimachokera ku kugonana, chabwino? Anyamata amalankhula ndi amayi chifukwa akufuna kukwaniritsa chilakolako chawo chogonana, chomwe chimalimbikitsanso kupeza ntchito yabwino. Iwe ukufuna kukhala bwino ndi mkazi, koma iwe wadzazidwa ndi kukhumba ndi kuganiza mochuluka zokhudzana ndi kugonana zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuyenda bwino ndi mkazi mulimonse, "anatero membala wazaka 30 yemwe anagula mahomoni azimayi pa intaneti kuti athetse chilakolako chake chogonana. "Popanda kukhumba, ndikuchita bwino kwambiri ndi ntchito ndi amayi kuposa momwe ndakhalapo kale."
Watanabe akunena kuti dziko la Japan likuyenera kuchita china chake ponena za kuchuluka kwa anamwali.
"Ife tiri ndi kubereka kochepa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mibadwo yaing'ono iyenera kusamalira okalamba. Ndikutha kuona kusiyana kwa m'badwo kumabwera. Nchifukwa chiyani achinyamata omwe sadziwa kanthu za kugonana amasamalira anthu okalamba omwe sangathe kugonana nawo? "Akufunsa Weekly Playboy mwatsatanetsatane. "Kuti tipewe kukangana kotero, omwe ali ofooka pa chikondi ayenera kukhala ndi chikondi kuti awapangitse bwino kuti athe kusangalala nawo, kukwatira ndi kukhala ndi ana. Ndikudabwa ngati atolankhani akudziwa momwe zimapwetekera anamwali ndipo zimawachititsa kumva kuti ali okhaokha pamene akunena kuti aliyense angathe kukonda. Timafunikira mtundu wa anthu pa anamwali. Tiyenera kumwetulira kwambiri pa namwali