NKHANI YA MENSXP
Tiyeni tiwone bwino za chinthu chimodzi - kukhala ndi ubale wathanzi ndi maliseche kungakhale dalitso pobisalira. Ndipokhapokha tikadutsa m'madzi, zinthu zimayamba kuwonongeka mwachangu.
M'dera lomwe kugonana ndi chinthu chachikulu kwambiri kotero kuti kukambirana moyenera za kugonana pakati pa makolo ndi ana awo, kapena aphunzitsi ndi ophunzira kulibe, chifukwa ambiri a ife, njira yoyamba yokhudza maphunziro azakugonana, ndi zolaula pa intaneti.
Palibe mfundo zongoyerekeza zomwe zonse zitha kusokonekera.
Kuledzera ndi chinthu chimodzi chomwe nthawi zambiri chimasokonekera.
Ogwiritsa ntchito ochepa ku Reddit, omwe amakhulupirira kuti ndi osokoneza bongo, amagawana zovuta zomwe amakhala nazo, komanso zovuta zomwe amakumana nazo tsiku lililonse:
1. Kulephera Kuzindikira Kugwira Ntchito
"Kuyang'ana kwambiri ntchito, kapena chilichonse chimakhala ntchito," akutero wogwiritsa ntchito. "Nthawi ndi nthawi, ndimakhala ndi chilimbikitso chongopita kuchipinda chotsukiramo, kuvala mahedifoni, kuwonera kopanira, ndi kutulutsa imodzi."
Kafukufuku wambiri wakhazikitsa kulumikizana pakati pazokonda zolaula, komanso chizolowezi choseweretsa maliseche, zomwe zonse zimawononga thanzi la munthu.
2. Zovuta Pakugwira Ubale Weniweni
"Chidwi changa pa zolaula ndichimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimandivuta kukhalabe paubwenzi weniweni. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala chitsanzo, ndimakumana ndi munthu wina, amadziwa za momwe ndimakhalira, ndikulonjeza kudzilamulira, ndilephera, kenako, amachoka, ”watero wosuta wina.
"Ngakhale utakhala ndi chibwenzi chotani, nthawi ina, amayamba kukuweruza chifukwa cha machitidwe ako," adatero wogwiritsa ntchito yemweyo.
3. Zoyembekezera Zosatheka
“Ndikudziwa kuti zomwe ndimaonera sizowona. Komabe, sizitanthauza kuti sindichita zomwe ndimayembekezera kuchipinda. Zachidziwikire, izi sizacholinga, zimangotuluka posachedwa, "watero mnzake wina.
4. Nkhani Zaubwenzi
“Ndimadzida ndekha ndikaonera kanema ndikutsika. Komabe, ndimawona kuti ndizosavuta kuposa kutsegulira azimayi za mavuto anga. Sindikuganiza kuti ndili ndi ine kuti ndigwiritse ntchito ubale weniweni, ndimawona kuti ndizosavuta, kungodzisamalira ndekha, ”adatero wina.
5. Zodandaula za Magwiridwe
Izi ndizofanana ndi zomwe wogwiritsa ntchito amayembekezera zosagwirizana ndi kugonana, koma mbali ina.
“Ndayamba kudziona kuti sindidzakwanitsa. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikafunsa winawake, munthuyo akhoza kumangondiseka, ndipo lingaliroli limandipunditsa, ”adatero wogwiritsa ntchito.
6. Chidwi Chosagonana Pakugonana Kwenikweni
"Sindikupezanso kugonana kwanthawi zonse kosangalatsa, ndipo popeza ndimatha kudziletsa, ndimavutika kuti ndizilamulidwa. Ili ndiye vuto lomwe ndili, ”watero wosuta wina.
“Zithunzi zolaula zimandisangalatsa. Chiyembekezo chokhala ndi zenizeni chimandivutitsa, koma sindine wokondwa nacho, sindichifuna kwambiri, "akutero wosuta yemweyo.
7. Maluso Osewerera Pagulu
"Zimandivuta kwambiri kupita pa intaneti ndikutsika, m'malo mongolankhula ndi wina, ndikuyesera kuwanyamula," adatero wogwiritsa ntchito wina.
“Tsopano zafika poti sindimakumbukira momwe ndingalankhulire ndi munthu, ndikungoyesa kuwanyamula, zili ngati kuti ndaluza luso limeneli. Zotsatira zake, zimandivuta kuyamba ngakhale kukambirana ndi akazi nthawi zina. ”
Mfundo Yofunika…
Monga chizoloŵezi chilichonse choledzera, mankhwala osokoneza bongo amatha kuchiritsidwa, ngati mutapempha thandizo ndipo mukufunitsitsa kugwira ntchito kuti mugonjetse izi.
Ngati zikukuvutani kuthana ndi vutoli panokha, palibe manyazi kupempha thandizo kwa akatswiri.
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