'Mwachiwonekere vuto lalikulu:' Nova Scotia, zolaula pa intaneti komanso thanzi lathu lamisala

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Kuphatikizidwa ndi Diet Porn, mndandanda wa akuluakulu a zaumoyo ku Nova Scotia ukufuna kuti anthu ambiri akambirane za nkhaniyi ndi zotsatira zake.

Maofesi owonetsa zithunzi ndi zosavuta kupeza pa Intaneti amatha kukhudza thanzi lathu labwino ndipo tiyenera kuyamba kulankhula za izo.

Ndiwo uthenga gulu la akatswiri a zaumoyo akugawana pa zokambirana za onse kudera lonselo kuti ziwunikire ku "ntchito yovuta" ya zolaula za intaneti.

"N'kosavuta kuti tipeze ma tabu ambiri ndipo mumadutsa ma tabu kuti mutuluke kuzinthu zambiri zomwe mukuwerengazo nthawi yonse yomwe mukuchita maliseche. Kotero inu mumapeza dopamine kuvulala, dopamine imakwera nthawi iliyonse. Simudzakhala ndi mnzanuyo, "anatero Sonja Svensson, mmodzi wa okonza nkhani za The Porn Diet.

"Ngati mutha kukonza zolaula ndipo mutayesa kukondana kuti muthe kukwanitsa ndipo simungakwanitse, manyazi omwe akugwirizana nawo angakuchititseni kukumbukira zithunzi zolaula zomwe zimapitirizabe kuyenda mpaka mutakhala ' sitingathe kukhala ndi chiyanjano chogonana ndi wokondedwa. "

Kuwonjezera pa amuna ambiri omwe akukumana ndi mavuto omwe ali nawo okhudzana ndi zoledzeretsa za pa intaneti, milandu ya kuwonongeka kwa erectile tsopano ikukwera ndipo ikukhudzanso anyamata ndi achinyamata.

"Ndimagwira ntchito yothandizira anthu kugonana ndipo nthawi zambiri timalandira maitanidwe kuchokera kwa anthu ammudzi. Ogwira ntchito zamakono, nthawizina anthu omwe ali ndi makasitomala ndipo nthawizina anthu amaitanira mwachindunji chifukwa ali ndi vuto ndi zolaula, "anafotokoza Svensson.

"Sitikufuna kuti tigwire ntchito ndi anthu omwe sali olakwa, choncho mwatsoka sitikudziwa komwe tingawatumize. Koma izi ndizovuta kwambiri. "

Svensson ndi mmodzi mwa akatswiri asanu ndi amodzi a zaumoyo omwe agwirizana kuti apereke maulendo angapo okhudza zolaula pa intaneti kudera lino. Msonkhano woyamba woyamba wa zolaula umapezeka ku Dartmouth pamapeto mwezi uno.

"Kuonera zolaula pa intaneti ndi chinthu chachikulu lero lino, koma anthu sakuyankhula za izo. Ngati sizinayankhulidwe, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, "adatero.

"Anthu amafunika kudziŵa kuti kuledzera kwa zolaula pa intaneti makamaka kungakhale kovulaza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zovuta komanso kuti pali zinthu zomwe zilipo."

Svennson anatsindika kuti sizotsutsa zolaula. Nkhanizi zidzawapatsa ophunzira mwayi wofunsa mafunso mosadziwika ndipo mndandanda wa zipangizo zomwe zilipo zikuperekedwa.

"Pali njira zabwino zogonana zolaula. Pokhapokha ngati sikumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kusokoneza-ndi-moyo wanu, ndiye kuti zingakhale zabwino, "adatero.

"Ndi njira zamakono zamakono zamakono, zakhala zovuta kwambiri chifukwa mukhoza kuyang'ana zolaula pafoni yanu nthawi zonse. Mungakhale pa basi mukuonera zolaula, m'kalasi mukuyang'ana zolaula mmalo mwa kusamala, kapena mukakhala patebulo lakale mukuyang'ana zolaula pafoni yanu m'malo mocheza ndi banja lanu. "