Mmene Zimapwetekera Zolaula
Pamela Paul anadabwa ndi zomwe adazipeza akufufuza momwe zithunzi zolaula zikusinthira chikhalidwe chathu: aliyense akuchita.
BY: Kukambirana ndi Rebecca Phillips
"Zithunzi zolaula ndi za aliyense," watero wolemba Pamela Paul, yemwe buku lake latsopano, "Zolaula," limafotokoza momwe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kosintha chikhalidwe ndi ubale waku America. Paul amayembekeza kuti azigwiritsa ntchito zolaula makamaka m'malo mwa "otayika omwe sanapeze tsiku" atayamba kufufuza bukulo. M'malo mwake, adapeza kuti ndizofunikira, kutchinga zopinga, zachikhalidwe, zamaphunziro, komanso zachuma. Adadabwitsidwa kwambiri, komabe, ndi zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito kuwononga maubwenzi, zimawonjezera kukanika kugonana, ndikusintha zomwe amuna amayembekezera kuchokera kwa akazi. Paul adalankhula ndi Beliefnet posachedwa za zolaula, momwe intaneti yasinthira kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, komanso chikhalidwe chiti chingaphunzire momwe magulu achipembedzo amakumanirana ndi zolaula. Paul atsogozanso gulu lazokambirana la milungu itatu kuti ayankhe mafunso ndikukambirana ndi owerenga momwe zolaula zasinthira miyoyo yawo.
N'chiyani chakudodometsani kwambiri pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ku America?
Moona mtima, sindinaganize kuti zolaula ndizovuta kwambiri ndisanalembere bukuli. Ndinayamba kulemba bukuli pamaso pa a Janet Jackson fiasco, matepi aku Paris Hilton asanafike. Ndinkadziwa kuti kunja kuno kunali zolaula zambiri, koma sindinaganize kuti ndi zomwe zimakhudza moyo wanga kapena miyoyo ya aliyense amene ndimamudziwa. Funso lomwe ndimafuna kufunsa linali, "Ndi zolaula zonsezi kunja, kodi zili ndi vuto lililonse?"
Ndinasokonezeka kwambiri ndi zomwe ndinapeza. Ndinalankhula ndi anthu omwe miyoyo yawo idawonongedwa ndi zolaula. Ngakhale anthu omwe sanatengeretu zolaula, maukwati akusweka, anthu omwe achotsedwa ntchito, zomwe zidachitika - ngakhale anthu omwe sanapite patali anakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zolaula. Nthawi zina amazindikira kuti anali, koma nthawi zambiri samazindikira zovuta zomwe zimawakhudza.
Kodi mungapereke chitsanzo?
Panali mayi m'modzi yemwe anandiuza kuti, "Ndili ndi zolaula. Ndikuganiza kuti ndizosangalatsa, ndimayang'ana, chibwenzi changa chimaziyang'ana. ” Theka la ola tikulankhula pafoni, amandiuza kuti chibwenzi chake ndipo sagonana bwino, kuti aka ndi koyamba kuti azigonana molakwika, kuti amawonera zolaula nthawi zonse, ndipo tsopano akuganiza zopeza zodzikongoletsera m'mawere. Uyu ndi munthu yemwe amawoneka wowoneka bwino kwambiri komanso wokonda zolaula, koma ngati mungoyang'ana pansi, mupeza kuti sizomwe zili choncho.
Kuti ndiyankhe funso lanu loyambirira, popeza kuti zonse zinali zondidabwitsa ine - ndipo sindimadziona ngati munthu wopanda nzeru - Ndinadabwa ndikuti amuna ndi akazi ambiri amati zolaula zimatha kuthandiza anthu kugonana, kuti zimawathandiza kutsegula mmwamba, ndizosangalatsa komanso zopanda vuto, koma nthawi yomweyo amuna omwe anali okonda zolaula anali kunena kuti miyoyo yawo yogonana yawonongeka. Anali ndi vuto lokhala ndi zovuta, anali ndi vuto logonana ndi akazi awo, sakanatha kusangalala ndi kugonana kwenikweni kwaumunthu. Amunawa adadzikonzekeretsa kuti azingochita zolaula ndi makompyuta, otsatsa malonda.
Inu munanena kuti si aliyense amene amaonera zolaula mopitirira muyeso, koma bukhu lanu limalemba nkhani za anthu ambiri omwe amachita. Kodi anthu amachokera bwanji pokhala makasitomala oonera zolaula nthawi zina kwa munthu amene amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo?
Ndinalemba chaputala chokhudza momwe zolaula zimakhudzira amuna ndipo ndinadutsa njira zomwe zimakhudzira ogwiritsa ntchito wamba: zimawakhumudwitsa, kenako zimakulirakulira kwambiri. Kenako ndinachita chaputala chokhudza amuna omwe anali atazolowera kwambiri zolaula. Ndipo ndinadutsanso momwemo. Ndizowopsa- wogwiritsa ntchito wamba amangowonetsa zomwezo, pang'ono pang'ono kuposa momwe zidakhalira.
Ndinkayembekezera kuti ojambula zolaula aziteteza kwambiri momwe amagwiritsira ntchito zolaula, ndipo pamlingo winawake anali, koma nthawi zambiri amakhala osangalala nazo ndipo amanyadira nazo. Koma nditawafunsa kuti, "Kodi mukuganiza kuti mungakhale osokoneza bongo?" Awiri mwa atatu mwa amuna omwe sankaganiza kuti ali osuta anati, "Inde, ndimatha kuwona izi zikuchitika." Pamaso pa intaneti, sindikuganiza kuti tikadakhala ndi vutoli.
Ndiye intaneti yasinthadi zinthu?
Pali chikumbumtima cha nkhuku ndi dzira chofunsa ngati intaneti idayambitsa vutoli kapena ngati zolaula zidathandizira kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti. Mwina ndi kuphatikiza. Tili ndi zolaula pa intaneti komanso zolaula pawailesi yakanema komanso zithunzi zolaula za DVD, ndipo zili ponseponse ndipo zimapezeka nthawi zonse. Zaka khumi ndi zisanu zapitazo, wina atha kutenga Playboy nthawi ndi nthawi, atha kubwereka kaseti ya vidiyo - anthuwa tsopano akhala ogwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku. Wogwiritsa ntchito wamba wachoka kwa wina yemwe amayang'ana magazini nthawi zina kapena kubwereka kanema akamapita kukachita bizinesi kwa munthu yemwe tsopano amakhala theka la ola kapena mphindi 45 pa intaneti tsiku lililonse.
Kodi pali mbiri ya wogulitsa zithunzi zolaula?
Palibe, ndipo ndizoopsa, nazonso. Zinali zopanda nzeru kumbali yanga, koma ndinaganiza, "Palibe amene ndikumudziwa, si aliyense amene ali wophunzira kwambiri kapena wodziwa yekha kapena amene wakhala pachibwenzi. Zithunzi zolaula ndi za otayika omwe satha kupeza tsiku. ” Ndipo ndimaganiza kuti zolaula ndi za ana - gawo lomwe achinyamata onse amadutsamo. M'malo mwake, zolaula ndi za aliyense; aliyense akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Ndinkalankhula ndi anthu omwe anali ophunzira kwambiri ku Ivy League, anthu omwe anali pachibwenzi, anthu omwe anali okwatirana, anthu osudzulana, anthu omwe anali makolo a ana aang'ono. Zinadutsa pamakhalidwe azachuma, mitundu, mafuko, ndi zipembedzo zonse. Ndinalankhula ndi amuna omwe amadziona kuti ndi okonda kupita kutchalitchi komanso munthu m'modzi wophunzitsa ku seminare yachiyuda. Ndinayankhula ndi monk. Ndinkalankhula ndi anthu amitundu ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana, ndipo onse anali kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
Tiyeni tiwone anthu achipembedzo omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Ziwerengero zanu za kuchuluka kwa amuna olalikira omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndizodabwitsa modabwitsa. Kodi chikuchitika ndi chiyani kumeneko?
Ndikuganiza kuti ndiowona mtima kwambiri za izi. Panali kafukufuku wa 2000 yemwe Focus on the Family adachita omwe adapeza kuti 18% ya anthu omwe amadzitcha Akhristu obadwanso mwatsopano amavomereza kuti amawonera zolaula. M'busa wina dzina lake Henry Rogers yemwe amaphunzira zolaula akuti 40 mpaka 70% ya amuna alaliki amati amalimbana ndi zolaula. Izi sizingatanthauze kuti amaziyang'ana, koma zitha kutanthauza kuti akuyesetsa kuti asayang'ane.
Pafupifupi, anthu achipembedzo, makamaka Akhristu, amadziwa kuti iyi ndi vuto. Adalankhulapo zambiri kuposa momwe chikhalidwe chimakhalira. Izi ndi zomwe ziyenera kusintha. Chowonadi ndichakuti zilibe kanthu kuti ndinu achipembedzo kapena ngati simupembedza - mwayi woti muziwonera zolaula mwina ndi ofanana.
Kodi chikhalidwe chadziko chingaphunzire chiyani kuchokera kuchikhalidwe chachipembedzo chochita zolaula?
Dziko ladziko lapansi lingaphunzire kuchokera kumagulu azipembedzo kuti ayenera kukambirana. Aliyense amalankhula zakukhala ndi zolaula zochuluka kunja uko, koma kodi timakambirana kuti zimakhala zovuta? Kodi timakambirana momwe zimakhudzira anthu? Ndicho chinthu chomwe m'njira zambiri, magulu achipembedzo akhala akuchita chidwi kwambiri.
Ndinadabwa ndi amayi angapo omwe ali m'buku lanu akuwoneka kuti amangovomereza zolaula monga mbali ya maubwenzi awo.
Ndikuganiza kuti azimayi ambiri amadzimva kuti ali ndi mantha chifukwa cha malingaliro a amuna ambiri omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula - kuti ndi "chinthu chamunthu" chomwe samamvetsetsa. Palinso lingaliro loti kukhala otseguka komanso ozindikira za zolaula kumawoneka ngati kosangalatsa komanso kwamiyendo. Mauthenga amenewo ndi amphamvu komanso ofala.
Kodi zimatengera chiyani kuti wina adziwe kuti amakonda zolaula?
Ndinalankhula ndi anthu mwina khumi ndi awiri omwe anali osokoneza bongo. Amakamba zakukana kwazaka zambiri. Ndinalankhula ndi amuna omwe adati samamwa bongo koma amakhala maola ambiri pa intaneti, amakhala mpaka XNUMX:XNUMX kapena XNUMX koloko m'mawa akuyang'ana zolaula. Zili ngati uchidakwa m'njira zambiri - nthawi zina pamafunika tsoka kuti muzindikire, nthawi zina china chake chimayambitsa kuchitapo kanthu mofananamo ndi manyazi kapena liwongo.
Pokhala oledzera, nthawi zambiri, zolaula zimadutsa pa moyo wawo weniweni. Angayambe kupita ku mahule, atapachikidwa m'magulu ang'onoang'ono, kukakumana ndi amayi ku malo ochezera kugonana. Panali anthu ochepa omwe anapeza kuti chidwi chawo pa zolaula zowononga anthu akuluakulu adayamba kukonda achinyamata, ndipo posakhalitsa anapeza kuti akuyang'ana zolaula za ana. Kwa amuna angapo amene ndinalankhula nawo, zimenezi zinandithandiza kuti ndizindikire.
Kodi njira zina zowonzetsera anthu zomwe zimadutsa ndi ziti? Kodi pali china chonga Zithunzi Zolaula Zosadziwika?
Inde. Pali magulu angapo a magawo 12, monga Ogonana Osadziwika. Sindiwo zolaula kwenikweni, koma onse makamaka amalimbana ndi zolaula, kapena zomwe zimadza pambuyo pake, popeza zolaula zimakonda kulowa m'moyo weniweni. Ndipo pali mabungwe angapo achipembedzo. Pali Pure Life Ministries, ndi mipingo ina yomwe yakhazikitsa njira zochizira zolaula.
Mukunena kuti zolaula zakhala nkhani yakulankhula zaulere, ndipo owolowa manja samayang'ana pazinthu zokhudzana ndi kunyoza azimayi.
Ngati zolaula zimakhudza anthu akuda kapena Ayuda kapena ochepa kapena gulu lina, ndikuganiza kuti owolowa manja angayankhe mokwiya. Koma ndi akazi ndipo sipanakhale yankho. Izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa chakuti zotsutsana ndi zolaula zakhala zikuvomerezedwa ndi magulu omwe amawoneka ngati osayenerera kapena osatheka. Pachikhalidwe, panali magulu awiri omwe anali odana ndi zolaula. Chimodzi chinali ufulu wachipembedzo, amenenso adati amaphunzitsanso za kugonana komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, choncho owolowa manja sanafune kuyanjana nawo. Kumbali inayi, azimayi omwe anali odana ndi zolaula adachita zovomerezeka, ndipo njira yomwe azimayi ena ambiri amaganiza kuti ndi yotsutsana ndi amuna. Magulu awiriwa atagwirizana kuti athane ndi zolaula mzaka za m'ma 1980, anthu omasuka ambiri anazimitsidwa.
Nthawi yomweyo, gulu lokonda zolaula linali ndi mkangano wamphamvu womwe umakopa anthu omasuka. Zinali za Lamulo Loyamba, ufulu wachibadwidwe, ufulu wa anthu. Ndizodabwitsa, chifukwa atha kukhala akulimbikitsa ufulu wa anthu kuti aziwonera zolaula, koma sakulimbikitsa ufulu wa azimayi omwe ali zolaula kapena ufulu wa anthu omwe safuna kuti zolaula ziziponyedwa kumaso kwawo kulikonse komwe angapiteko.
China chake ngati kanema "The People vs. Larry Flynt" chingalimbikitse aliyense wowolowa manja kuti akhale kumbali ya Larry Flynt. Imasokoneza kwambiri nkhaniyi. Takhala nthawi yayitali kuteteza ufulu wa anthu kuti aziona zolaula. Koma sitinakhale nthawi yayitali titeteza ufulu wa anthu wotsutsa zolaula.
Iyi ndi bizinesi yayikulu. Ali ndi maloya, ali ndi zotsatsa, ali ndi olimbikitsa alendo. Zithunzi zolaula ndizopangidwa, ndipo pali madola mabiliyoni ambiri omwe ali pachiwopsezo, ndipo achita ntchito yabwino pakupanga uthenga womwe umati, "Ngati muli omasuka, ngati ndinu okonda dziko lanu, ngati mumakhulupirira Malamulo oyendetsera dziko lino. Bill of Rights, ndiye muyenera kuteteza zolaula kaya mumakonda kapena ayi. ”
Mumalemba momwe zolaula zilibe zoletsa zomwe zofalitsa zina zambiri zimakhala nazo, monga malamulo a FCC. Chifukwa chiyani malamulo ena sanakhazikitsidwe?
Choyambirira, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti zolaula ndimtundu wazofalitsa ndipo ndizopangika- ndipo zonsezi ndizoyenera. Media zimayendetsedwa nthawi zonse - FCC imayang'anira media, pali zinthu zina zomwe sizingawonetsedwe kwa ana, makanema ena omwe amangowonetsedwa nthawi zina. Ma TV okha omwe sanalamulidwe ndi zolaula. Zithunzi zolaula ndizopangidwa, monga ndudu ndizopangidwa, mowa ndi chinthu, aspirin ndichinthu. Zinthu zonsezi zili ndi magawo okonzera magawo, malamulo amomwe mungagulitsire, omwe mungamugulitsire. Koma zikafika zolaula, timati, "Ayi, ayi, ayi, muyenera kukhala ndi zolaula zosagwirizana ndi malamulo, apo ayi mukusokoneza." Lingaliro loti zolaula siziyenera kuyendetsedwa ndizodabwitsa.
Pakhala pali zisankho zambiri zokhudzana ndi zolaula ndi Khothi Lalikulu. Zina mwazaka [1972] Matanthauzidwe a zolaula za Miller vs. California akadalipo - amafotokoza zolaula ngati zomwe zilibe chikhalidwe kapena zokongoletsa kapena chikhalidwe chamunthu, ndikuti zinthu zamtunduwu ziyenera kuyang'aniridwa ndi anthu wamba. Koma mdera lanu ndi liti m'nthawi ya intaneti? Zimakhala zovuta kukakamiza. Koma kunena zowona, sindikuganiza kuti tayesetsa kwambiri.
Kodi mukuyembekeza kuti buku lanu lidzabweretsa zolaula kukhala zokambirana pagulu?
Anthu ayenera kudziwa kuti zolaula sizosangalatsa. Ayenera kumva izi kuchokera kwa anthu omwe amadziwa bwino - anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Ndudu zina zidatamandidwa ndi madotolo ndikuwakongoletsa m'makanema. Kusuta ndudu ndichinthu choti mungakonde. Tafika pamenepo ndi zolaula. Koma anthu akadziwa kuti kusuta ndudu sikokwanira kwa inu, kumwa kwake kunayamba kuchepa. Chiyembekezo changa chikanakhala kuti izi zichitika ndi zolaula.
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