Jim ali ndi zaka 31 ndipo zolaula zomwe zimayambiranso "zolaula" zimamulepheretsa kugwira ntchito "mwachizolowezi".
Adauza Newsbeat zakusokonekera komwe zidamuchitikira atayamba kufunafuna zolaula pa intaneti. "Intaneti imakupatsirani malo achinsinsi omwe palibe amene amadziwa," akutero. "Mutha kuyesa zinthu popanda zotsatira."
Zambiri zolaula ndizo zokhudzana ndi kugonana koma anthu omwe ali ngati Jim (osati dzina lake lenileni) zingakhale zovuta zomwe zimawononga ubale, mabwenzi ndi ntchito.
“Ndili wachinyamata sindinakhalepo ndi chidaliro chopita kwa mtolankhani ndikugula buku la FHM.
"Masiku amenewo, kupeza zithunzi zolaula kunali kovuta kwambiri."
Maganizo achiwawa
Jim akuti akuwona akazi akuchitidwa mwankhanza pawindo amasintha momwe anachitira nawo moyo weniweni.
“Ndidakwiyira atsikana kwambiri.
"Panali china mkati mwanga chomwe chinali ngati, 'azimayi awa ayenera kukhala ndi ine'. Pali malingaliro ambiri olakwika, okwiya, achiwawa.
"Ndikulandira uthengawu kudzera pa zolaula, zomwe akazi ndi zinthu zenizeni - zoti ndi zanu.
"Mukabwereranso zaka 15 kale mwina mumakhala mukugonana kapena simunatero, ndipo tsopano muli ndi anthu onga ine omwe sanagonanepo, koma awonapo zogonana zilizonse pansi pano.