Simukuyenera kukhala wodetsedwa kuti mudandaule za zolaula. Chifukwa cha intaneti, anthu a ku America adakankhidwa, mosadziŵa, kuti ayese kuyesera kuti awonetse ngati kulimbika kwa zolaula komanso zolaula zidzathetsa kugonana kwa mibadwo yotsatira.
Masiku a anyamata akudumpha pa Playboy pamasitolo a mankhwala osokoneza bongo akhala atapita kale. Zaka zapitazo, Playboys adakulungidwa mu pulasitiki ndikumangirira kuseri kuti asunge zithunzi zowala za "atsikana" pafupi ndi maso a ana. Zovuta kwambiri zomwe zikuwoneka tsopano mu dziko limene makompyuta a pakompyuta akhala pakhomo lachangu ku nyanja yowopsya kwambiri yowononga zakugonana.
Raunchy samayamba kufotokoza zinthu zomwe mwana aliyense angapeze ndi mawu osakira pang'ono ndikudina pang'ono panjira kapena mbewa. Ndikubwera mwachangu ndikuwonetsa zithunzi ndi makanema osonyeza zogonana mosiyanasiyana, koma zolamulidwa ndi malingaliro olakwika azimayi azimayi omwe amachita ngati mahule kwa amuna omwe njira zawo zogonana zimawoneka kuti zaphunziridwa mndende. Zinthu zoyipitsitsa zikuwoneka kuti zikuchokera ku Eastern Europe - makanema olakwika, zolaula zazing'ono zomwe zimakondwera ndikuzunzidwa komanso kunyozedwa kwa atsikana.
Izi ndizo zinthu zomwe zimawopsya moyo zomwe anthu sanaziwonerepo kapena kuzidziwa kale. Koma tsopano, mnyamata kapena mtsikana aliyense wa 14 wazaka zapakati angathe kuzilumikiza mosavuta pa laputopu payekha m'chipinda chogona. Ndipo, ngakhale kuti ndalama zimalowa mkati mwa intaneti zomwe makampani opanga zolaula amapeza mabiliyoni ake, pali zinthu zambiri zaufulu zomwe palibe kuti khoma liripo kuti munthu asachoke ku mafano.
Sizolingalira kapena zozizwitsa zosonyeza kuti pali vuto la zolaula. Akatswiri a komiti monga Bill Maher amaseka anthu achipembedzo omwe amakhulupirira kuti alipo. Kutsutsa kwazimayi kumatulutsidwa ngati harangues wa mafilimu opanda chiwerewere. Anthu a ku Libertari amathandiza ojambula zithunzi kuti azilankhula momasuka. Koma nzeru komanso kukula kwa umboni zimasonyeza kuti kulipira ndalama zochepa zomwe zimayamba ndi kugulitsa ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zomwe zimachitika m'munsi mwa makampani opanga zolaula.
Phunziro latsopano lomwe linasindikizidwa mu Archives of Sexual Behavior linanena kuti zolaula zakhala "magwero apamwamba a maphunziro a kugonana" omwe akuika zizindikiro zatsopano za kugonana kwa anyamata. Kafukufuku wa amuna a ku America a 487 a ku koleji amasonyeza kuti "kuona zithunzi zolaula zomwe mwamuna amaziyang'ana, makamaka kuti azigwiritsira ntchito panthawi yogonana, kupempha zithunzi zolaula zogonana ndi mnzake, mwadala mwadzidzidzi kujambula zithunzi zolaula panthawi yogonana kuti akhalebe wokwiya, ndikukhala ndi nkhawa pazochita zake zogonana ndi chifaniziro cha thupi. Komanso, zolaula zowonongeka zimagwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika ndi kusangalala ndi khalidwe lachiwerewere ndi mnzanu. "
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, anyamata omwe amadzichepetsera pa zolaula amakhala ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso zomwe ayenera kuzifunsira kwa ogonana nawo. Akazi a zaka zapamwamba omwe amafunika kuthana ndi anyamatawa amatsimikizira kuti izi ndi zoona ndipo wina amadabwa ngati mliri wa chiwerewere umene wagunda ma campuses ambiri ukhoza kuwonjezeka ndi kupezeka kwa zolaula, makamaka pa moyo wa abale. Palinso zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti zolaula zimayambitsa kugwiriridwa ndi ankhondo.
Nayi chinthu china chododometsa: Akuluakulu oyang'anira zamalamulo ku Los Angeles akupeza kuti, mwa achinyamata achichepere omwe amazunza anzawo - tikulankhula anyamata azaka 12 pano - kupeza zolaula ndizoyendetsa bwino pazomwe amachita. Achichepere kwambiri kuti adziwe momwe kugonana kwabwinobwino kumakhalira, amayamba kugonana ndi zolaula za makanema olaula.
Ana si okhawo amene amakhudzidwa ndi zovuta zolaula. Amuna ambiri amakhala osokoneza bongo, amaopseza ntchito ndi mabanja chifukwa sangathe kuyang'ana kutali. Chithunzi cha 2013 cha Joseph Gordon-Levitt, "Jon Jon," ndi chithunzi chokondweretsa koma chachinsinsi cha mnyamata yemwe amaona kuti n'zosatheka kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima ndi mkazi chifukwa cha zolaula zake. Ndikofunika wotchi.
Erotica siipa. Zithunzi zogonana zingakhale zojambula, zowunikira komanso zokondweretsa. Koma pitirizani kupitirira pazithunzi zolaula pa intaneti ndikupeza uthenga umodzi wofunika kwambiri: Azimayi sali oposa maofesi omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti agwiritsidwe ntchito ndi kuzunzidwa kwa amuna ndi abambo sichidziwika ndi zinthu zosazindikirika zomwe zimafuna kutumikiridwa.
Ndicho filosofi yoperekedwa kwa achinyamata a ku America ndi makampani opindulitsa kwambiri pogwiritsa ntchito chida champhamvu kwambiri chothandizira kuti chifike kunyumba iliyonse. Anthu ena amazitcha kuti ufulu wa kulankhula kapena zosangalatsa "wamkulu"; Ndikutcha kuti ndikunyoza.
ndi David Horsey wa LA Times, December 15, 2014
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