Kukonzekera kwa ubongo kumawonetsa zolaula
Kunali kotentha kwambiri, kulandila komwe kunaperekedwa ku kafukufuku wofalitsidwa sabata yapitayo mu Journal of Sexual Medicine. Kafukufuku amene anachitika pakati pa achinyamata 4,600 ku Netherlands, azaka 15 mpaka 25, adapeza kuti zolaula zomwe zimachitika kwambiri pa intaneti masiku ano ndizochepa modabwitsa. Kuchita ndi nkhani? Anthu sanachite chimodzimodzi. Koma mukudziwa kuti amafuna kutero. (onani ndemanga zanga kumapeto kwa nkhani)
Pundits adakonda malingaliro otsutsa, makolo amakonda kukhululukidwa. Zachidziwikire, kwa wolemba kafukufukuyu, yemwe adati "maphunziro am'mbuyomu akadatha kufotokoza za mgwirizano pakati pa zolaula ndi zikhalidwe zakugonana," yankho labwino: Zedi, fella. Momwemonso tidaganizira za mgwirizano pakati pa mowa ndi kuyendetsa galimoto mosasamala. Ndiroleni ndikutengeni kuti mukayende.
Chiwerengero chimodzi tsopano chikuika zaka zapakati pa kuyang'ana koyamba ku 11.
Kwa chaka chimodzi ndakhala ndikufunsa achinyamata za zolaula - ndipo akhala owona mtima. Nditafunsa mwana wazaka 29 wopambana sabata yatha ngati akuwona kuti zolaula zimakhudza moyo wake, pabedi kapena panja, yankho lake linali lofanana. "Zikwi zana," adatero. Mkazi uyu amapezeka kuti akupezeka zolaula zomwe sizimusangalatsa, ngakhale zosasangalatsa, pomwe - mozama - mnzake samamva vuto lililonse. Izi sizokhudza mwayi wa msungwana mmodzi kapena kuyenda kwamunthu m'modzi. Ndi za m'badwo wa iwo. Sindinamvepo mwayi kukhala ndi zaka 40.
Masiku ano masamba a 12% ndi zolaula, ndipo aku America aku 40 miliyoni ndi alendo obwera pafupipafupi-kuphatikiza 70% azaka zapakati pa 18- mpaka 34, omwe amayang'ana zolaula kamodzi pamwezi, malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa wa magazini ya Cosmopolitan (yomwe, tivomerezane, ndiye ulamuliro pano). Odwala 94% kwathunthu mu kafukufuku wina adawonetsa kuwonjezeka kwa anthu omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Zakhala maphunziro a kugonana kwa mbadwo wonse ndipo zitha kukhala zofananira ndi zomwe zikubwera-zikusokosera pa intaneti, osati pampando wakumbuyo. Chiyerekezo china tsopano akuti zaka zoyambirira kuwonedwa koyamba pa 11. Tayerekezerani mukuwona "Last Tango ku Paris" musanapsompsone koyamba.
Kafukufuku wambiri amalumikiza zolaula ndi malingaliro atsopano komanso olakwika paubwenzi wapamtima, ndipo kulingalira kwamitsempha yama ubongo kumatsimikizira izi. Susan Fiske, pulofesa wama psychology ku University of Princeton, adagwiritsa ntchito MRI scan mu 2010 kuti awunikire amuna omwe amaonera zolaula. Pambuyo pake, zochitika muubongo zidawululidwa, amayang'ana azimayi ngati zinthu kuposa anthu. DSM-5 yatsopano idzawonjezera matenda akuti "Hypersexual Disorder," omwe amaphatikizapo zolaula. (onani ndemanga zanga kumapeto kwa nkhani)
Kuwona zolaula mobwerezabwereza kumabwezeretsa njira za neural, ndikupangitsa kufunikira kwamtundu ndi mulingo wokopa wosakhutira m'moyo weniweni. Wogwiritsa ntchito amasangalala, kenako awonongedwa. Koma kusinthika kwa malingaliro athu m'maganizo athu kumapangitsa kuti kuwonongeka kusinthike. Mu "Ubongo Womwe Umadzisintha Wokha," katswiri wazamisala Norman Doidge alemba za odwala omwe amamwa zolaula kwambiri ndipo amatha kusiya, kuzizira, ndikusintha ubongo wawo. Amangofunika kusiya kuziwonera. Kwathunthu.
Palibe mwa amunawa omwe anali osokoneza bongo, kapena ma kooks, a Dr. Doidge akunena. Koma "chifukwa mapulasitiki amapikisana, ubongo umayang'ana zithunzi zatsopano, zosangalatsa zomwe zidawakopa zomwe zidawakopa kale" - kuphatikiza atsikana ndi akazi. Dokotala atawafotokozera zomwe zikuwachitikira, "adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito makompyuta awo kwakanthawi kuti afooketse ma network awo ovuta, ndipo chidwi chawo chakuwona zolaula chidazilala."
Njira yotereyi shenanigans ikukhala protocol. Ku Utah's Desert Solace malo ochitira zolaula, amaphunzitsidwa za "zolaula ngati matenda amubongo (osati kulephera kwamakhalidwe)," nthawi yofikira 10:30 ndikuletsa ma laputopu onse, Nooks, Kindles, iPads ndi zida zothandizidwa ndi Wi-Fi. Mwa achinyamata omwe ndidawafunsa, teetotalism yokha ndi yomwe imagwira ntchito. Kupanda kutero, monga momwe amanenera, "zokwawa zimabwerera."
Njira zakukonzanso izi, zimapezeka, ndizofanana ndi zomwe timagwiritsa ntchito tikayamba kukondana, kupitilira munthu m'modzi ndikukumana ndi wina watsopano. Choyamba ife "timaphunzira" njira zakale, kudula ndikubwezeretsanso kulumikizana mabiliyoni ambiri muubongo wathu. Kenako timapanga zatsopano. Chifukwa chake, mwanjira ina, chikondi chimagonjetsadi zonse - ngakhale zolaula. Chonde uzani wachinyamata wapafupi.
-Iyi ndiyo gawo langa lomaliza la Masewera. Zikomo powerenga, kutumiza mafunso ndi malingaliro anu, ndipo koposa zonse, ndikudabwa ndi ine.
Nkhaniyi idatuluka pa Meyi 4, 2013, patsamba C12 mu kope la US la Wall Street Journal, lokhala ndi mutu wakuti: New Light on the Web's Dark Corners.
Mavuto awiri ndi nkhani:
- Mu kufotokoza kwake kwa kuphunzira kwatsopano iye anati "Kafukufuku wina wapeza kuti zolaula zomwe zimachitika kwambiri pa intaneti masiku ano ndizochepa kwambiri. ” Kafukufukuyu amangofunsanso za machitidwe ena ogonana. Sizinakhudze mavuto aliwonse ambirimbiri omwe timawona akuchotsedwa. Onani wathu PT positi pa kafukufukuyu - Kuphunzira Zolaula: Kodi Kuwona Kufotokozera Kuchita-Kapena Osati?
- DSM yomwe ikubwera siyikhala ndi "vuto la hypersuality".
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