Mu gawo la "The Game" la Star Trek: The Next Generation , William Riker akubwerera kuchokera ku dziko la Risa lomwe lili ndi tchuthi ndi masewera omwe akufunitsitsa kugawana ndi gululo. Ochepa amayesa mahedifoni omwe amawonetsa zomwe tsopano tingatchule kuti masewera enieni owonjezera, omwe amawalamulira mwanzeru. Pa gawo lililonse lotsatizana, masewerawa amayambitsa malo osangalatsa a malingaliro, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti akhale osokoneza. Anthu ambiri ogwira ntchito m'gululi amasewera masewerawa. Pang'onopang'ono, zosangalatsa zosasangalatsa zimakhala chizolowezi chosokoneza maganizo. Zimadziwika mwachangu kuti masewerawa ndi chida chowongolera malingaliro chomwe chimalowetsedwa ndi alendo kuti alamulire Enterprise.
Ngati zinthu ngati izi zikadalipo mdziko lathu lapansi, tikadadziwa bwanji, ngati tonse timasewera masewerawa? M'chigawochi, Wesley Crusher akuyesera kudzutsa mamembalawo osaphula kanthu. Pakati pamasewera, amatsutsa ndikunyoza machenjezo ake kuti masewerawa ndiabwino. Data Yokha, yemwe ngati android sangatetezedwe ndi masewerawa, amatha kupulumutsa sitimayo.
Bwanji ngati pangakhale masewera onga amenewo, ndipo theka la anthu athu anali kusewera, ndipo zimayambitsa matenda amitundu yonse, koma palibe amene angazindikire chifukwa tonse timasewera?
Pambuyo pa nkhani yaposachedwa ya Anthony Weiner yokhudza kutumizirana zithunzi zolaula, Pamela Anderson adapangitsa anthu ambiri kuseka polemba nkhani mu Wall Street Journal yonena za kuopsa kwa chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. "[Tili] m'badwo wa anthu okonda chiwerewere omwe amayesa kuwononga anthu ambiri omwe ochepa a ife tikanavomereza," akulemba motero katswiri wa kanema wokhudza kugonana , pamodzi ndi Rabbi Shmuley Boteach. Mwadzidzidzi, tsankho la mafuko ndi kusankhana mitundu kunakhala kosavuta kutsutsa nyenyezi yakale ya Baywatch ndi machenjezo ake.
Akufuna kuti kusintha kwa kugonana kukhale kosintha ndi "kusintha kwakuthupi," komwe "kumalowetsa zolaula ndikulakalaka - kulumikizana kwa kugonana ndi chikondi, kuthupi ndi umunthu, makina amthupi ndi malingaliro, kumasulidwa kwachisangalalo ndi maubale ogwirizana." Monga Mfalansa, ndimati: Ameni.
Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi koipa chifukwa ndi njira yodzizunzira nokha komanso ena. Sindikufunika kutulutsa Baibulo langa kuti ndizindikire izi. Mmodzi mwa akatswiri pamakhalidwe abwino a m'zaka za zana la 18, Emmanuel Kant, adalondola pomwe adati chinsinsi chamakhalidwe ndikulumikizana ndi anthu ena monga momwe amathera mwa iwo okha, osati ngati njira. Monga anthu, osati zinthu. Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndiye tanthauzo lalikulu kwaumwini komanso kwa ena.
Koma pali umboni wambiri wosonyeza kuti palibe funso lokhudza zamakhalidwe abwino koma zaumoyo wa anthu onse. Mantha okhudzana ndi zolaula ndizosavuta kuchotsa chifukwa zolaula zakhalapo kwamuyaya. Koma umboni wa sayansi ukuwonetsa kuti zolaula zamasiku ano - makanema apamwamba kwambiri, otsatsira pakukankha kwa batani - zomangira ndi ubongo wathu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Makamaka kwa achinyamata, omwe amawonera zolaula asanawone okha kusiyana ndi zenizeni.
Lipoti la 2011 lochokera ku Italian Society of Andrology and Sexuality Medicine (Italy lodziwika kuti ndi dziko la anthu odzikuza) limafotokoza momveka bwino momwe zingathere kuti: "Zolaula za pa intaneti zikupha kugonana kwa anyamata." Mfundo yake ndi yosavuta. Chisinthiko chinatipatsa njira "yokhutiritsa" pankhani ya chakudya ndi kugonana, zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe chisinthiko chimasankha. Kugonana ndi chakudya zimayambitsa kutulutsa dopamine komwe kumalepheretsa malingaliro athu achilengedwe okhuta. Monga momwe wofufuza Gary Wilson, yemwe amaphunzira za momwe zolaula za pa intaneti zimakhudzira ubongo, akufotokozera , monga momwe pali mliri wa kunenepa kwambiri, palinso mliri wa "chizolowezi chogonana."
Mofanana ndi zovuta zonse zowononga, kugwiritsira ntchito kumabweretsa kukhumudwitsa: Tikufunikira kwambiri kuti tifike pamwamba. M'magwiritsa ntchito achinyamata, omwe njira zawo zowonongeka zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri, zimagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri, choncho zimakhala zosavuta kumvetsa zochitika zogonana. Kugonana kwauchidakwa kumapangitsanso chizoloŵezi chachilendo kuwonetsa kuti kutuluka kwa dopamine, komwe kumalongosola kuti kuwonjezeka (ndi kuwonjezeredwa) kwa feteleza zowonjezereka komanso zopambana. (Zomwe amzake ena amzake amayesera kuberekana ndi asungwana osakonzeka, omwe ali ndi vuto losokonezeka maganizo m'maganizo.)
Ndipo tili mu kuyesayesa kwa nkhumba: Ofufuza omwe adayesa kuyesa kuphunzira zodabwitsazo sanathe kumaliza maphunziro awo chifukwa sanathe kupeza anyamata omwe sanagwiritse ntchito zolaula pagulu lolamulira. Aliyense akusewera.
Aliyense, kupatula omwe anasiya, ndi gawo la gulu lodziwika bwino lotchedwa NoFap. Nthawi zambiri, kusabereka ndiko komwe kumayambitsa kusiya. Ndipo tili ndi gulu lolamulira. Umboni, wochokera ku mawebusayiti monga Your Brain On Porn ndi Reddit , ndi wosangalatsa komanso wodabwitsa kuwerenga. "Kusiyana kwa malingaliro, khalidwe, ndi malingaliro [...] kwandiwonekera bwino tsopano." Anthu, mobwerezabwereza, amanena osati kokha momwe amachitira bwino kugonana komanso kugonana kwabwino, komanso kusintha kwa moyo wonse, makamaka pankhani ya kudzipereka komanso ubale ndi ena. Kusiya zolaula kwenikweni ndi mankhwala a "young loser syndrome." Anthu omwe anasiya koleji amapeza digiri yawo. Amuna omwe sankatha kulankhula ndi atsikana amapeza zibwenzi.
Pali kufanana ndi masewera omwe tonse timasewera, monga momwe mnzanga wa Ethics and Public Policy Center, Mary Eberstadt, akunenera . Panali masewera omwe anyamata ambiri ankasewera, omwe amawoneka osavulaza mokwanira, ndipo mwachangu anakhala abwino. Koma panali china chake cholakwika. Umboni wa zotsatirapo zoyipa za masewerawa unadziwonetsa molimba mtima. Tinakana kukhulupirira, chifukwa cha zokonda zachuma komanso chifukwa anthu amadana kuuzidwa kuti chizolowezi chawo ndi choipa kwa iwo. Ndikulankhula za kusuta. Zinatenga zaka zambiri kuti tizindikire kusuta ngati vuto la thanzi la anthu, ndikumaliza kuigwiritsa ntchito m'gulu la anthu. Ngakhale kuti zolaula sizimayambitsa khansa, pali umboni wabwino woti zimawononga miyoyo ndi mabanja.
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