Mauthenga apamwamba a 4 a Porn Akugwiritsa Ntchito: Kodi Ali Ovomerezeka? (L. Hatch PhD)

Kodi anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la kugonana ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ? Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la kugonana omwe ali ndi makhalidwe ena osiyanasiyana okhudzana ndi kugonana, nthawi zambiri amapeza zifukwa zoganiza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti si vuto kwenikweni ndipo kungakhale chinthu chabwino. Kodi akulakwitsa? Tiyeni tiwone mfundo zina zomwe anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli amaganizira komanso chiŵerengero changa chovomerezeka pa chilichonse. Werengani zambiri

Zolakwa ndi zabwino chifukwa zimandipulumutsa ku mavuto. 

Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto la kugonana omwe amalandira chithandizo cha machitidwe osiyanasiyana osokoneza bongo amanena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zawo sikuvulaza kwenikweni. Amaona makhalidwe oopsa omwe asiya monga machitidwe omwe angawapangitse kumangidwa kapena kuchotsedwa ntchito ndipo amakhulupirira kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumatanthauza njira yopanda vuto. Mtsutso ndi wakuti "zingakhale zoyipa kwambiri; taonani zomwe ndinkachita kale !"

Peresenti yovomerezeka: 5%. Ena anena kuti zolaula zimatha kuchotsa nkhanza zogonana kapena kuti kulola zolaula za ana kukhala zovomerezeka kungachepetse umbanda. Ena akuti ochita zachiwerewere amanena kuti angathandizidwe kupewa nkhanza zenizeni za ana pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zimatsanzira zomwe zinachitikazo. Koma monga momwe ndikudziwira, zolaula si njira yovomerezeka yochepetsera kuvulala kwa ochita zachiwerewere.

Peresenti yosavomerezeka: 95%. Ambiri omwe amachita zachiwerewere komanso omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zachiwerewere amadziwa kuchokera pa zomwe zolaula pa intaneti zimatha kukhala zomwe zimayambitsanso machitidwe ena ogonana.

Porn zimandilola kuti ndizitsegula njira zatsopano.

Anthu ena osokoneza bongo ndipo anthu ena ambiri amakhulupirira kuti zolaula ndi njira yothetsera zilakolako zakugonana ndikulandila malingaliro ena okonda zachiwerewere. Mwanjira imeneyi zolaula zimawoneka kuti zimamasula komanso zikuwonjezera chisangalalo cha kugonana.

Peresenti ndiyolondola: 25%. Ndikupatsa 25% chifukwa pali akatswiri ena azakugonana omwe amalumbirira kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi omwe amakonda kugonana nawo pomwe kasitomala amene akuchira akufuna njira yopezera malingaliro ndi zizolowezi zabwino zogonana.

Peresenti yosavomerezeka: 75%. Monga zizolowezi zonse, chizolowezi chogonana ndimatenda omwe amapita patsogolo. Omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo amakonda kupita kuzolakalaka komanso zochitika zina mopitilira muyeso. Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumatha kuyambitsa chizolowezi m'dera latsopano komanso lowopsa.

Porn zimakhala zabwino pamene ine ndi mnzanga timagwiritsa ntchito kuti tipeze moyo wathu wa kugonana

Anthu ambiri, oledzera komanso osakondera amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo monga njira yolimbikitsira kapena kugwirizanitsa zokhudzana ndi kugonana.

Peresenti ndi yolondola: 10%. Chifukwa ichi chingakhale choyenera 100% kwa maanja omwe palibe mnzawo amene ali ndi chilakolako chogonana ndipo bola ngati onse awiri akuchifuna. Koma ngati mnzawo mmodzi ali ndi chilakolako chogonana ndiye kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumakhala kovuta kwambiri.

Peresenti ndizosavomerezeka: 90%. Ngati mnzanu wina ali ndi chizolowezi chogonana kapena amene akuyambiranso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndiye kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumatha kukhala njira yopezera malingaliro olowera pakhomo lakumbuyo, titero. Wosuta akhoza kukhala kuti akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kuti apangitse kugonana kwa okwatirana ndikuwonetsa zomwe akuchita zogonana. Wokondedwa akhoza kukhala mnzake wosadziwa.

Zizindikiro zimakhala zochitika zapadera, zapadera, zauzimu.

Okonda zachiwerewere nthawi zambiri amawona zolaula zawo ndi mtundu wapamwamba kwambiri. Oledzera ndi ena amawona kuti ali ndi ufulu wofufuza momwe angaganizire zogonana munjira zawo zachinsinsi kupatula zogonana.

Peresenti ndiyolondola: 15%. Ndimapereka lingaliro ili kukhala lovomerezeka chifukwa ndikukhulupirira kuti ochita zachiwerewere amakonda kwambiri kutseguka ndi kuwona mtima kotero kuti timaiwala kuti anthu amafunikira kwambiri moyo wamkati wamkati. Ndikuganiza kuti tonsefe tifunika kukhala ndi malingaliro athu, malingaliro athu ndi zokonda zathu zomwe sitifuna kugawana ndi aliyense.

Peresenti yosavomerezeka: 85%. Zithunzi zolaula zimakhala zolimba komanso zowononga koma sizomwe zimakhala zachipembedzo. M'malo mwake mipingo yambiri yakhala ikulimbikira kwambiri popereka njira zothandizira anthu amipingo yawo omwe akulimbana ndi zolaula komanso zachiwerewere. Okonda zachiwerewere omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula samapezamo chitseko chauzimu, koma kuwonongeka pang'ono pang'ono komwe kumabwera chifukwa chothamangitsa "okwera."

Ndi zifukwa zina ziti zomwe mwamvapo chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula? Ndipo ndizovomerezeka bwanji, kapena ayi?