Kugonana ndi akatswiri a ubale kumapeza amuna akuvutika ndi ntchito chifukwa cha 'zochititsa chidwi' zolaula
- Azimayi amadziona ngati osatetezeka pa matupi awo ndipo amavutika kuti achite '
- 'Vuto la kugonana' limakhala losafunika kwambiri, pomwe chiwerewere chikukula
- 'Achinyamata ambiri akuphunzira zakugonana kudzera pa zolaula, ndipo zimawononga malingaliro awo.'
By Deni Kirkova
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Atsogoleri akugonana ku Britain komanso akatswiri a ubale awonetsa mantha awo kuti kugonana kwachipongwe kumawononga ubale.
70 peresenti ya amuna omwe ali ndi zaka 18-34 amavomereza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kamodzi pa mwezi ndipo kugwiritsa ntchito kwa amuna ndi akazi akuchuluka kwambiri. Koma, pa mtengo wotani?
Magazini a Azimopolitanti anafunsa kuti 68 akutsogolera kugonana komanso akatswiri a zaumoyo za zotsatira za zolaula pa ubale wa lero, ndipo zotsatira zake zinali zoipa kwambiri.
'Achinyamata ambiri akuphunzira zogonana kudzera pa zolaula, ndipo zimawononga malingaliro awo'
Oposa makumi asanu ndi limodzi mphambu makumi asanu ndi atatu a opaleshoni adafunsa kuti kukhulupirira zolaula kwasokoneza maubwenzi ndi 90 peresenti yawona kuwonjezeka kwa mavuto a ubale chifukwa cha zolaula zaka zaposachedwapa.
Monga momwe zolaula zilili mosavuta, anthu amitundu ina adanenedwa kuti 'kugonana kwa vanilla' n'kosafunika kwambiri, pomwe chizoloŵezi chogonana - chomwe chimaoneka ngati vuto lalikulu la kugonana - chikuwonjezeka.
Pafupipafupi onse openda (94 peresenti) awona kuwonjezeka kwa zochitika zolimbana ndi zolaula ndipo 63 peresenti amakhulupirira zolaula zimapangitsa kuti amuna aziyembekezera kugonana ndi anzawo.
Zopanda kunena, zolaula zakhala ngati bomba nthawi yothetsera maubwenzi ndipo zikuphwanya chidaliro cha amuna ndi akazi kuchipinda.
'Zithunzi zolaula zimatha kukhudza kuthekera kwa amuna kupanga ubale ndi akazi enieni, osati omwe ali pa laputopu yawo'
Amuna ochulukirapo akuvutika ndi nkhawa chifukwa cha zozizwitsa zomwe amawona pa zolaula, pomwe amayi amawona kuti sakhala otetezeka pa matupi awo ndipo amawumirizidwa kuti achite.
Magazini a February a Cosmopolitan akutuluka tsopano
Zimakhala zovuta kwa ena kuti 85 peresenti ya akatswiri amaganiza kuti zolaula zakhudza kwambiri chikhulupiliro cha amayi ndipo 67 peresenti amavomereza kuti amayi ali pachipsinjo kuti azikhala ngati ziwonetsero zam'chipinda chogona.
'Zithunzi zolaula zimatha kukhudza kuthekera kwa amuna kupanga ubale ndi akazi enieni, osati omwe ali pa laputopu yawo,' atero a Psychosexual Carol Featherstone.
Katswiri wa zamaganizidwe Karen Lobb-Rossini akuti, 'Achinyamata ambiri (atsikana komanso anyamata) akuphunzira zakugonana kudzera pa zolaula, ndipo zimawononga momwe amadzionera komanso matupi awo.'
Ngakhale akatswiri ena anena kuti zolaula zitha kuthandiza maubwenzi ena, akatswiri ambiri tsopano akukhulupirira kuti zitha kupweteketsa ena pobera zomwe zikuyembekezeka mchipinda chogona, 'atero a Louise Court, Mkonzi wa Cosmopolitan.
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