Mvetserani ku zokambirana (kuchokera ku 5: 05 mpaka 9: 05) Daniel Simmons ndi 23 wazaka zambiri akuchira zolaula. Amati sakanatha kugonana kapena kuyang'ana kwambiri pazinthu za tsiku ndi tsiku komabe, akuti, sakanatha kuyima.
“Ndinali ndi zaka 15 pamene ndinayamba kuonera zolaula makolo anga atandigulira laputopu. Ndidachita zomwe mwana aliyense wachinyamata amachita ndikutsegula masamba azolaula, "akuuza Newsbeat.
“Icho chinakhala chinthu cha tsiku ndi tsiku mofulumira kwambiri. Ndinali kuonera zolaula kwa maola awiri patsiku. ”
Kenako adayamba kuwona zolaula zomwe zimamusokoneza.
"Ndidapeza tsamba lawebusayiti lomwe limakonda zolaula ndipo ndimamva ngati ndili ndi epiphany. Ndinkaona ngati sindili ndekha.
"Ndinachita masiku 100 osadziletsa zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche.
"Zili chimodzimodzi ngati kupita kuzizira kozizira. Masabata awiri oyambilira anali osangalatsa modabwitsa.
“Zinali zoyipa, zinali zovuta kwenikweni. Panali masiku osagona. Panali mausiku omwe ndimadzuka ndikutuluka thukuta.
“Pakhoza kukhala masiku omwe ndimangoyamba kugwedezeka popanda chifukwa.
“Thupi langa lonse limangonjenjemera ndipo sindimadziwa chifukwa chake.
“Ndinkakhala ndi nkhaŵa zoipa za anthu ndipo masiku ena ndimadzimva kukhala wapamwamba padziko lapansi ndipo ndimatha kuchita chilichonse.
"Ndatha kubwerera kuzizolowezi zanga ndipo ndakhala bwino koma zakhudza zovuta zanga.
“Ndikakhala ndi mkazi ndazindikira kuti kumatsika pang'ono kumeneko ndipo sindimakhala wosangalala.
"Ndinayamba kusinkhasinkha tsiku lililonse ndipo sindinaonere zolaula tsopano kwa chaka chimodzi ndi theka.
“Ndinganene kuti ndinali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula, koma mwina chizolowezi chodziseweretsa maliseche chinali mbali yake.
"Sindinathenso kuyanjananso ndi amayi enieni pomwe ndimayesa chifukwa ndimayang'ana zolaula zambiri.
“Sizinali zosangalatsa kukhala ndi mkazi weniweni.
“Zinandipweteka kwambiri. Sindinadziwe chomwe chinali vuto ndi ine. Ndimangoganiza kuti ndine wamphumphu.
“Sindinkatha kumva chilichonse chokhudza kugonana. Ndinalibe libido. Libido yanga imamverera ngati libido yabodza.
"Ndikanakhala ndi libido yolaula, koma osati ya anthu enieni.
“Mumayang'ana zinthu zomwe simungayang'ane konse. Chilichonse chimapezeka mosavuta.
"Ndinkawona zinthu zomwe zinkandisokoneza zomwe sizinali zogwirizana ndi zomwe ndimadziwa kuti kugonana kwanga, zinthu monga zolaula ndi zolaula.
"Ndidatsika kwambiri. Sindingathe kuyang'ana pazinthu zanthawi zonse.
"Sindinadziwe kuti ndinali ndi vuto loonera zolaula. Ndinali wokaniratu koma ndinazolowera zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi. ”
Daniel akuti sanawonerere zolaula tsopano kwa chaka chimodzi ndi theka.
"Zinthu zambiri zidasintha nditayamba kuchira," akutero.
“Ndinayamba kuzindikira zomwe zinali zofunika.
“Ndikudziwa kuti kunja kuno kuli anyamata ndi atsikana ambiri omwe akuvutika ndi izi.
"Pali ambiri kunjaku omwe akubisala ndipo ali ndi vuto ndipo amalankhula za zomwe ndikufuna kuchita chifukwa ndikuwona kuti ndizofunikira."
Zomwe katswiri anena
Robert Hudson ndi katswiri wazogonana. Anatinso Daniel akuwonetsa bwino zizindikiro zakugonana.
“Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula si vuto kwenikweni. Zili ngati kumwa. Anthu ambiri amatha kumwa bwino.
"Ikayamba kukhala ndi zovuta zoyipa ndi pomwe [zolaula] zimayamba kulamulira moyo wanu.
"Ndizovuta mukayamba kuletsa zochitika zapabanja kapena misonkhano ndi anzanu chifukwa mukufuna kupita kunyumba kuti mukayang'ane zolaula."
Robert akuti pali njira zothandizira anthu omwe amadzinenera kuti ali zolaula.
"Chinthu choyamba chomwe timawapempha kuti achite ndikusiya kuseweretsa maliseche masiku 90. Amalola kuti machitidwe awo achepetse ndikusiya kuyang'ana zolaula.
"Simunachiritsidwe panthawiyo koma zomwe zimakuthandizani kuchita ndikudziwitsani kuti simukugwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa mwadzuka kapena kusangalala.
"Mwina umagwiritsa ntchito zolaula chifukwa chotopa, kupanikizika kapena kusungulumwa."
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