Bob akulemba kuti:
... ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito ya Findom kwa pafupifupi zaka zisanu tsopano. Ndakhala ndikuchita maliseche ku zojambula ndi zithunzi zake kuyambira pachiyambi. Tsopano ndakhala ndikuwerengera pang'ono pa nkhaniyi koma ndakhala wopanda mphamvu pamene ndiri ndi mkazi, yomwe nthawi yomaliza ndinapita tsiku lomwe sindinathe kuchita, ndinali ndi manyazi. Chinthu chomwe chimandivutitsa ine ndikhozabe kufika pamtima kwambiri pamene ndikuyang'ana ziwongolero zake, ndikuwona zithunzi zake, ndimadzuka pamene ndikuwerengera limodzi maimelo ake. Sindikumvetsa chifukwa chake sindingathe kusiyanitsa awiriwa ndikuchitabe ndi mkazi. Ndimadandaula kwambiri ndi Dr. Sue.
Ndikuwopa kuti muli ndi vuto la zolaula Bob. Amuna ambiri omwe ndimalankhula ndikudumphira kuti akwaniritse khalidwe lawo ndi chizoloŵezi chawo ndi mawu omwe amaperekedwa mozungulira kwambiri pazinthu zogonana ndi zenizeni. Koma uwu ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha chizolowezi chogonana.
Intaneti yakhala ikuthandiza pazinthu zambiri zomwe abambo ali nazo lerolino. Porn zimapezeka mosavuta kuposa momwe zinalili kale komanso zowoneka bwino kwa amuna aang'ono ndi aang'ono; Ana aang'ono monga 12 akhala akudetsa nkhawa.
Koma apa pali wotsutsa, zolaula sizipezeka mu DSM-5 (Kufufuza ndi Kusanthula Buku la Mental Disorders) lomwe ndilo gawo loyera la matenda a maganizo koma tonse tikudziwa kuti liripo ndipo ndilo vuto lalikulu lomwe limakula chaka chilichonse . Dongosolo la DSM ndiloti limakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi makampani opanga mankhwala ndipo ali ndi nkhawa zolemba zolemba kuposa momwe zimakhalira ndi iwo kuphatikizapo zambiri zazomwe zimakhalapo kale. Mwachitsanzo iwo amamva kuti ali ndi paraphilia (fetish) ndi matenda a maganizo. [Ichi ndi chifukwa chake ndikulangizira aliyense kulowa mmaganizo a umoyo wathanzi kuti angopeza 'zofunikira zanu
sukulu chifukwa 99.9% ya zomwe mudzaphunzire ndikuchokera kwa odwala osati bukhu lomwe liri lopanda malire - mwachidziwikire.] Kotero chifukwa palibe umboni wa sayansi umene ungapangitse anthu achikulire akale kukhala osangalala kuti awoneke Bukuli limatisiyira ife popanda mankhwala a 'by-the-' 'mapulani. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangachiritsidwe. Icho chimangotanthauza ngati dokotala inu mumayesera njira zosiyana mpaka chinachake chimamangiriza. Tiyeni tiyambe kuyang'ana pa chifukwa chomwe ndikuganiza kuti Bob ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula.
Ngakhale palibe umboni wa sayansi umene ungapangitse anyamata achikulire kukhala osangalala kuti tili ndi luso loyang'anira zochitika ndipo akatswiri ambiri a maganizo ndi aumulungu apanga maphunziro ophweka ndi zochitika zomwe zingatipangitse kuzindikira zochitika zina zobwereza.
Kusokonekera kwa Erectile - Kulephera kupeza erection osagwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe mumazikonda kapena zosatheka kuti mukhale okonzeka poyang'anitsitsa umunthu wa anthu atatu mmalo mwa chithunzi chachiwiri.
Kusokonezeka / Kukhazikitsidwa - Kulephera kulumikizana kapena kuchitira chifundo mnzanuyo kuphatikizapo kukhala opanda chilakolako chogonana nawo. Mukuyamba kupeza wokondedwa wanu akukwiyitsa chifukwa mumafuna zolaula, zolaula zimakufikitsani. ' Ndakhala ndi ambuye akundiuza kuti amangokhalira kuseweretsa maliseche chifukwa mumadziwa kuti mungadzitengere nokha pamene iwo sakusakhalanso.
Mutha kukhalanso wokhazikika pamene mukusiya kupita ndi anzanu kapena ngati simunakwatire simukuvutikira kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi chifukwa ndi ntchito yambiri kapena ikukuchotsani ku zolaula zanu. Ndipo panthawi zina zovuta kwambiri amuna amakhala kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito kuti aziwonerera zolaula ndi kuseweretsa maliseche pomuopseza moyo wawo wokha.
Matenda a anthu amtundu wina angathe kutsagana ndi zolaula. Lingaliro la kupita kunja ndi kuyandikira kwa mkazi limakhala lochuluka chotero kuti akhale kunyumba komwe kulibe malo abwino kumene sangathe kukanidwa. Ambiri amamwali akugonjetsedwa ndi zolaula.
Koma kuwonongeka kwa erectile ndi nambala imodzi. Kotero mu nkhani ya Bob mukhoza kuona kuti sangathe kupeza erection kapena ngati akufooka kapena sangathe kusungidwa pamene ali ndi mkazi. Ndipo ali ndi chifukwa chabwino choganizira.
Tsopano tikuyenera kuwonjezera mu chinthu china, chakuti uwu ndi ubale wa D & s. Izi zinayamba osalakwa mokwanira. Mumapeza Domme, mumamugulira zomata, mumamanga ubale ndipo samakuuzani kuti musachite chilichonse koma kungowonera makanema ake kapena kumvera ma audi ake mukangoyenda osati china chilichonse. Izi zimabweretsa zinthu ziwiri, kufunitsitsa kwake kuchita zomwe adauzidwa komanso kubwereza kuwonera zomwe adalemba ndikuthamangitsidwa komwe kumakhazikitsa gawo lalikulu la ubongo wodziwa ngati Domme akudziwa kapena ayi. Osati kuti uwu ndiudindo wake koma ngati amasamala za subs yake ndiye ayenera kukhala ndi malingaliro amtunduwu koma kunena zowona amuna ambiri samatsatira malamulowo. Amagula, amatumikirako pang'ono kenako nkuchokako. Koma ena, monga Bob, amakhala ziweto zodzipereka zomwe zimachita chilichonse chomwe auzidwa.
Nkhani zoipa ndi njira yokhayo yothetsera zolaula ndikusiya kuyang'ana zolaula. Ndikufuna kunena kuti pali njira yosavuta koma izi ndizo khalidwe lachikhalidwe limene limatanthauza kuswa khalidwe. Simungathe kuphwanya khalidwe ngati mudakali ndi khalidwe.
Bob ali ndi vuto chifukwa njira yokhayo kuti abwererenso ku 'kugonana kwenikweni' ndi kuti asiye kuyanjana ndi Domme ndikusintha khalidwe lake. Kotero zikufika pa chisankho, pitirizani kutumikira Domme ndikukhala komwe mwamugwiritsira ntchito ndi zosangalatsa zomwe amapereka kapena kuimitsa kukhudzana ndi ntchito ndikulowa mu dziko lenileni. Zimatengera nthawi monga momwe zidakhalira kukhala chidakwa ndipo anthu ambiri samafuna kugwira ntchito.
Ndaziwona izi ndi mazana a makasitomala m'zaka zambiri ndipo sizili zophweka kukankha chifukwa zimamveka bwino. Koma zolaula ndizovuta komanso zimayambitsa kuti mutaya mnzanuyo, banja lanu ndi anzanu. Ngati mukumva kuti mukupita kumalo osokoneza bongo, ndikuganiza kuti ndiyimire tsopano ndikusintha zochita zanu musanayambe kukumba dzenje lakuya. Mukhoza kukonza nthawi zonse, koma patapita nthawi, mutha kukonza nthawi yayitali.
Ngati mukupeza kuti muli ndi nkhawa kapena muli ndi vutoli, ndikukuuzani kuti muwone katswiri wa zamaganizo ndikukambirana njira zina zamagetsi kuti muthandizidwe kupitilira kuwonjezera pa uphungu wathanzi kuchokera kwa wothandizira yemwe amadziwika kwambiri ndi chiwerewere ndi zolaula m'deralo. . Sikoyenera kutayika okondedwa anu kapena kusachita nawo zokoma zomwe zimagonana ndi munthu.
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