Pa 29 Machi, 2019, ( LifeSiteNews ) — Anyamata achichepere akuchotsedwa mphamvu zawo zogonana mwachibadwa ndi akazi pamene kuonera zolaula pafupipafupi kumakonzanso ubongo wawo, zomwe zimawononga luso lawo lochita zogonana.
Mwachidziwitso, amuna am'nyamata ali ndi zaka zapakati pa zaka khumi ndi zisanu (12) amakhala akuloledwa kugonana, kukondana, kutsutsana ndi kubereka, kutsutsana chikondi, kutsutsana, ndi chisangalalo.
Ndipo chithandizo chimenecho chimaperekedwa kwaulere kudzera pa intaneti.
"Mpaka chaka cha 2002, chiwerengero cha amuna osakwana zaka 40 omwe ali ndi ED (erectile dysfunction) chinali pafupifupi 2-3 peresenti," Mary Sharpe wa Reward Foundation adauza The Guardian . "Kuyambira mu 2008, pamene zolaula zowonera pa intaneti komanso zodziwika bwino zidayamba kupezeka mosavuta, zawonjezeka pang'onopang'ono."
“(P)orn ikusintha momwe ana amakhalira ndi chilakolako chogonana,” anapitiriza Sharpe, ndipo zikuchitika, “pa msinkhu umene amakhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu cha matenda amisala ndi zizolowezi. Zoledzeretsa zambiri ndi matenda amisala zimayamba ali achinyamata.”
Nkhani ya Guardian inati, "Kuposa atatu mwa anyamata tsopano akukumana ndi vuto lopweteka la erectile."
Chodabwitsachi chakula kwambiri moti chiri ndi dzina: "Erectile Dysfunction" (PIED).
“M’malo mosonyeza chilakolako chake chogonana ndi anthu enieni, achinyamata a masiku ano nthawi zambiri amapezeka pamaso pa chinsalu, ndipo amagwirizanitsa ubongo wake ndi zinthu zogonana kuti akhale yekha m’chipinda chake, kuti aziona zinthu molakwika m’malo mochita nawo,” inatero kanema wophunzitsa, Adolescent Brain Meets High-speed Internet Porn.
Mnyamata ndi mawu amene ndingagwiritse ntchito pofotokoza mmene ndinamvera ndikayesa kugonana ndi akazi enieni, "anatero mnyamatayo yemwe watchulidwa mu kanema. "Zinkaoneka ngati zonyansa komanso zachilendo kwa ine."
"Zili ngati ine ndakhala ndikukonzekera kukhala pansi kutsogolo kwa chinsalu (kuseweretsa maliseche) kuti malingaliro anga akuwona kuti kukhala chizolowezi chogonana m'malo mogonana kwenikweni," adatero.
"Azimayi samanditembenuzira, pokhapokha atapangidwa awiri ndi kumbuyo kwa galasi yanga yowunika," anatero wina.
Ena amalongosola chiyembekezo chawo chokha chokhazikitsa ndi kusunga chisamaliro pachibwenzi ndi "kulingalira zolaula."
Popeza zodabwitsazi ndizatsopano - ndiponsotu, kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti yothamanga kwambiri komanso kulumikizana mosavuta, kwachinsinsi kudzera pama foni am'manja, iPads, ndi ma laputopu apakompyuta ndizatsopano zatsopano - maphunziro owunikira akuyenera kuchitidwa.
Pakadali pano, umboni wotsutsana ndi anthu okhudzidwa ndi anthu okhudzana ndi maganizo, kuphatikizapo akatswiri a maganizo, odwala matenda a maganizo, ndi urologists - akunena kuti akumva zowawa zamtunduwu kuchokera kwa anyamata omwe adakhalapo pachimake pa ubwino wogonana.
Urologist Paul Church anauza LifeSiteNews kuti pakalipano palibe umboni weniweni wa mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile, vutoli "ndimadokotala komanso othandizira ambiri, kuphatikizapo ndekha, ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi vuto lalikulu kwa mbadwo wotsatira uno. "
"N'zovuta kudziwa kuti ndi anyamata angati omwe akuvutika ndi vuto la ED loyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Koma n'zoonekeratu kuti ichi ndi chinthu chatsopano, ndipo si chachilendo," adatero Dr. Abraham Morgentaler, mkulu wa Men's Health Boston komanso pulofesa wa matenda a urology ku Harvard Medical School.
"Ndikudziwa kuti izi ndizoona chifukwa cha zomwe ndimakumana nazo ndi izi zikuchitika kwa anthu omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito," adatero Maureen Newberg, wogwira ntchito zachipatala wothandizira (LCSW) ogwira ntchito m'dera la Washington, DC.
"Ndili payekha pomwe peresenti ya 95 ya makasitomala anga ndi anyamata ndi amuna. Otsatsa onsewa ali ndi vuto la zolaula kapena chizoloŵezi chogonana, "David Pickup, yemwe ali ndi chilolezo chokwatilidwa ndi banja, adamuuza LifeSiteNews.
"Zomwe ndimakumana nazo pa nkhani zawo ndi kupambana kwawo kutulukira zolaula zachititsa kuti apeze kuti zolaula ndizo 'mankhwala,'" anatero.
Kuledzera, monga zizoloŵezi zina, kumasokoneza miyoyo ya achinyamata onse. Katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku Ulaya, Dr. Gerard van den Aardweg, anati:
Amayi omwe ali akapolo ndi amuna osauka, otalikirana ndi anzawo. Mimbulu yokhayokha. Zowonera zolaula, amalimbitsa chidwi chawo chokhala makanda ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhala "wamkulu," ndipo pomwe sangakwanitse kulumikizana.
Zotsatira zosayembekezereka, zosayembekezereka zomwe achinyamata amachita nthawi zambiri zolaula mwinamwake zimawonjezera kupweteka kwa erectile ndi kuchepetsa ubale wabwino m'banja.
Mark Regnerus, pulofesa wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu ku yunivesite ya Texas ku Austin komanso mnzake wamkulu ku Austin Institute for the Study of Family and Culture, adapereka lingaliro la mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi kuthandizira ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mu 2012.
Wofufuzayo adawona kuti "Chithandizo cha anyamata achichepere pakukonzanso ukwati sichingakhale chochokera ku malingaliro okhudza ufulu waukulu, ufulu, ufulu, ndi kudzipereka kwabwino pachilungamo. Zingakhale, pang'ono chabe, zotsatira za kuwonetsedwa nthawi zonse ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana zogonana," zomwe zimawonedwa kudzera mu zolaula pa intaneti.
"Mafilimu otchuka kwambiri pa webusaiti amachititsa kuti anthu asamagwirizane - kapena gulu linalake - kuchokera ku Regnerus. "Gazers amathandizidwa ndi phula lozimitsa moto".
"Awa sali agogo ako a Playboy," adatero.
Mphamvu zoopsa zowononga zolaula kudzera pa intaneti
Pamene nkhondo ya ufulu wa kulankhula "ufulu" wa ojambula zithunzi ndi mafakitale awo yakhala ikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa zaka zambiri, owerengeka sanazindikire kuti anyamata achichepere akuwonongeka. Tsopano kuwonongeka sikungatheke kunyalanyaza.
Dr. Donald Hilton, pulofesa wothandizira ku Dipatimenti ya Neurosurgery, University of Texas Medical School ku San Antonio komanso membala wa Board of Directors of Medical Institute for Sexual Health, analemba m'nkhani yotchedwa Pornography: Fueling the Fire of Sexual Poisoning :
Ndi kulikonse. Tsamba lachiwiri lochezera kwambiri pa webusaitiyi linali ndi anthu a 92 mabiliyoni omwe amafika ku 2016, okwanira mavidiyo a 12.5 kwa munthu aliyense padziko lapansi. Yakhala njira yoyamba yophunzitsira achinyamata kugonana komanso ngakhale kutetezeka tsopano, ndi achinyamata ambiri omwe adawona kugonana, kuphatikizapo pakati pa anthu awiri.
Kutulutsa zakugonana koopsa pa umunthu kumawononga iwo omwe amaziwona ndipo ndizosokoneza kwa iwo omwe akupitiliza kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Komabe, mfundo izi zimatsutsidwa mwamphamvu ndi ogulitsa zolaula komanso omwe amapeputsa omwe amaphunzitsa izi. Amati vuto lokhalo lokhala ndi zolaula ndichomvetsa manyazi komanso chikhalidwe chomwe zipembedzo zimakhazikitsa.
Dr. Jeffrey Satinover, m'mawu omwe adaperekedwa ku komiti ya Senate ya ku US mu 2008, adafotokoza kuti: "Nthawi zonse zimaoneka ngati zodziwikiratu kuti zolaula ndi mtundu wina wa 'kuonetsa.' Chifukwa chake, ubwino wake, kusowa kwake, kapena zoyipa zake nthawi zonse zakhala zikukambidwa m'mawu oyenera 'kuonetsa,' ndipo malamulo athu amawonetsanso zomwezo. Timakangana pa 'makhalidwe abwino' a mabuku owonetsa zolaula; chikhalidwe chake ngati luso 'lapamwamba' kapena 'lotsika'; ngati lili ndi 'phindu lowombola.' Maumboni okhudza 'ntchito' za 'mabuku' owonetsa zolaula ndi 'zochita' za 'kuvina' kowonetsa zolaula amalembedwa pamlingo wapamwamba kwambiri wa malamulo adziko la America - mawu omwe ali m'mawu ofotokozera momveka bwino kuti kumvetsetsa zolaula ngati kuwonetsa ndi maziko ndipo sikukayikira.
"Pakufika kompyutayi, njira yoperekera kwa zovuta zowonongeka (intaneti zolaula) zakhala zotsutsana kwambiri," anapitiriza Satinover.
"Zili ngati kuti takhala tikupanga mawonekedwe a heroin 100 nthawi zamphamvu kwambiri kuposa kale, zogwiritsidwa ntchito pakhomo pakhomo pawo ndipo zimayikidwa mwachindunji ku ubongo kudzera m'maso," adawonjezera Satinover. "Tsopano ilipo mosalekeza kuperekera kudzera mwachindunji chogawidwa, kutamandidwa ngati luso komanso kutetezedwa ndi Malamulo oyendetsera dziko lino."
Kukonza zowonongeka
Dr. Tim Lock, katswiri wa zamaganizo komanso wothandizira pulofesiti ku Institute for the Psychological Sciences, Divine Mercy University, anati: "Kugonjetsedwa ndi kugonana kwapachiwerewere ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pano."
PIED adzakhala ndi ife "mpaka anthu atha kukwatulidwa ndi mphamvu ya kudziletsa ndipo makolo akhoza kutsimikiza kufunika kogwiritsa ntchito mafayilo a intaneti (ndi intaneti kuyankha) kuti ateteze ana awo kuti asafike ku malo osayenera," adatero Lock mu mawu ku LifeSiteNews. "Sizaphweka kapena zopanda mphamvu kulera mwana amene amadziletsa kudziletsa, chiyero, chiyero, ndi kudzichepetsa. Aphunzitsi a ana ayenera poyamba kukhala otsimikiza za mfundo izi. "
"Ndizovuta kugulitsa," anatero Lock. "Mukapanda kudziwa kuti Mbuye wathu adadza kudzapatsa moyo, ndikuupatsa."
Dr. Hilton akufotokoza zofunikira zinayi zofunika:
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Choyamba, tiyenera kuteteza mbadwo wotsatira ku chiwerewere choopsa cholimbikitsidwa ndi makampani opanga zolaula ndi olemba mapemphero ake;
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Chachiwiri, tiyenera kubwerera kudziko kumene akuluakulu amakana zolaula;
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Chachitatu, chikhalidwe chathu chochuluka sichisamala za tsankho ndi kugonana, komabe timakondwerera onse ngati anthu akuchita zogonana komanso makamera akusuntha. Tiyenera kugwirizanitsa makampani oonera zolaula kukhala ofanana;
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Chachinayi, tiyenera kubwerera ku chikhalidwe cha ulemu, chifundo, ndi chifundo, zomwe zikutsutsana ndi chikhalidwe cha masiku ano.
Zambiri zokhudza kusiya zolaula ndi kuthawa zotsatira zake zomwe zingawononge thanzi lanu zingapezeke patsamba lothandiza la webusayiti ya Your Brain on Porn.