Zatumizidwa: 09 / 24 / 2013 - LINKANI POST
Ziwerengero zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zambiri zimakhudzidwa. Othandizira zolaula amatulutsa manambala awo pofuna kuwonjezera ndalama zotsatsa, ndipo omwe amatsutsa zolaula amatenga ziwerengero zomwe angapeze kuti athe kuwonetsa vuto lomwe likufalikira. Ngakhale ziwerengero zowerengera kwambiri zikuwonetsa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula - komwe kumayendetsedwa ndi kupezeka kwa intaneti, kuthekera komanso kusadziwika - kukukulira. Zomwe mungaone zowopsa kuposa kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe timadya ndizomwe zingakhudze moyo wanu wogonana.
Zolakwa Zimagwiritsidwa Ntchito, Chimwemwe Chimatha
Pa kafukufuku waposachedwa wa akatswiri otsogola a za kugonana ndi maubwenzi a 68, a 86% adati amakhulupirira kuti zolaula zasokoneza ubale wawo. Pafupifupi magawo awiri pa atatu aliwonse, 63 peresenti, adati akuganiza kuti zolaula zimasintha zomwe amuna amayembekeza pazogonana ndi mnzake weniweni, ndipo 85% adati akuganiza kuti zolaula zasokoneza kudzidalira kwa akazi, makamaka chifukwa akazi kumva ngati tsopano ayenera kukhala ngati nyenyezi zolaula m'chipinda chogona.
Kafukufuku wina amapereka zotsatira zofanana. Mwachitsanzo, Kafukufuku wina adawululidwa kuti azimayi omwe anzawo amawona zolaula nthawi zambiri (mwa kuyerekezera kwa mayiyo) samakhala achimwemwe muubale wawo kuposa azimayi omwe amagwirizana ndi amuna omwe nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena sagwiritsa ntchito zonse (kudziwa kwa mkazi). Kafukufuku omwewo adapeza kuti kudzidalira kwa akazi kapena akazi anzawo kumachepa chifukwa zolaula zomwe amuna kapena akazi anzawo amachita zimawonjezeka. Chodandaula chofala kwambiri cha azimayi omwe anzawo amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi ndikuti sangathe kufanana ndi zithunzi zomwe zawonetsedwa pa intaneti.
Mwina, komabe, ndi amuna omwe ayenera kukhala ndi nkhawa poyeza. Taganizirani za Robert, wolemba mapulogalamu a pa kompyuta a 26:
Chibwenzi changa Melissa ndi wogulitsa yemwe amakhala masabata ake akuyenda, amabwera kunyumba ndikukhala ndi ine kumapeto kwa sabata. Moyo wathu wogonana unali wabwino mpaka pafupifupi chaka chapitacho. Ndinkakonda kuyembekezera Lachisanu usiku chifukwa ndimadziwa kuti chinthu choyamba chomwe chidzafike atafika kunyumba ndikuti tigone chifukwa chogonana, thukuta, komanso zogonana kwambiri. Mphamvu zathu zogonana (zanga) nthawi zambiri zimabweretsa gawo lofulumira, lotsatiridwa ndi shawa (limodzi), chakudya chamadzulo, ndikupanga zosangalatsa mosangalala usiku womwewo. Chaka chatha, komabe, ndakhala ndikuvutika kuti ndikwaniritse erection, ndipo nthawi zina sindimatha kutulutsa umuna. Ndipo sitikuchita kawiri usiku umodzi monga tinkachitira kale. Ndakhala ndikuwonetsako zolaula kangapo kuti ndithane nazo. Zomwe sindingathe kumvetsetsa ndichifukwa chake ndili wokonzeka, wofunitsitsa, komanso wokhoza ndikamalowa patsamba langa lolaula - zomwe ndimachita pafupipafupi Melissa ali panjira - koma sindingathe kugwira ntchito ndikakhala ndi chinthu chenicheni pomwepo patsogolo panga. Sindikutopetsedwa ndi Melissa, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndiwokonda kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa.
Kulephera kwa Robert kuchita zachiwerewere kumakhala kofala pakati pa anyamata kuposa momwe munthu angaganizire, ndipo zimakhudzana mwachindunji ndi zolaula. M'malo mwake, zikuwonekeranso kuti zolaula pa Intaneti Ndilo vuto lalikulu la erectile dysfunction (ED) ndi kuchepetsa kuthamangitsidwa (DE) mwinamwake amuna okhwima mu chigololo chawo. Mu phunziro limodzi, Amuna ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amanena kuti kuvutika kukuwonjezeka ndi anzawo ogonana nawo padziko lapansi. Atafunsidwa ngati zodabwitsazi zili ndi ubale uliwonse wowonera zolaula, omvera adayankha kuti poyamba zimawathandiza kukhala achimwemwe panthawi yogonana, koma popita nthawi zidakhala zosokoneza. Chifukwa chake, chifukwa cha zolaula, azimayi ochulukirachulukira tsopano akupeza ubale ndi amuna omwe ali ndi vuto logonana, lomwe limakhudza azimayi mofanana ndi amuna. Kupatula apo, ngati mwamuna wanu sangathe kuzikweza, kupitilizabe, kapena kufikira pamalungo, chisangalalo chanu chogonana chimatha kuchepa.
Madandaulo amodzi pa zolaula zomwe zimachititsa kuti amuna azigonana ndi awa:
- Alibe vuto pochita erection kapena zolaula ndi zolaula, koma mwayekha, ndi wokondedwa wake, iye akulimbana ndi chimodzi kapena zonse.
- Amatha kuchita zogonana ndi kukwaniritsa zolaula ndi mnzake, koma kufika poyambira kumatenga nthawi yaitali kuposa momwe iyeyo ndi mnzawoyo amachitira.
- Amatha kumangokhalirana kukondana ndi mnzake, koma amangokhalira kuwonetsa zojambulajambula pogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti.
- Amakonda kwambiri kujambula zithunzi zolaula kuti azikhala ndi moyo weniweni, kuti aziwoneka mozama komanso kuti azichita nawo zinthu.
- Amasunga zinsinsi zokhudzana ndi zolaula kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wake (nthawi yambiri yogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, mafano owonedwa, ndi zina zotero)
- Wokondedwa wake amamva ngati "mkazi winayo."
Vutoli silimangobwera chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa maliseche kapena mpheto; ndizokhudzana kwambiri ndikuti amuna ambiri amakhala okangalika m'maso komanso amatsegulidwa ndi zokopa zatsopano. Kwenikweni, bambo yemwe amathera 70, 80, kapena 90% ya moyo wake wogonana akuganizira ndikuchita maliseche zolaula - zithunzi zosawerengeka za achinyamata, zosangalatsa, zosintha mosiyanasiyana ndi zochitika zogonana -, popita nthawi, amatha kupeza -flesh amakumana ndi zolimbikitsa pang'ono kuposa kuwonongedwa kosatha kwazinthu zatsopano m'mutu mwake. Chifukwa chake zomwe tikuwona tsopano pamlingo wokulirapo ndikulumikizana kwamalingaliro ndi omwe amagonana nawo omwe akuwonetsera osati monga kukhumudwitsa kugonana, koma mwamalingaliro monga kusowa chidwi ndi maubwenzi apamtima apadziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo mankhwala opititsa patsogolo kugonana - Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, ndi zina zotero - sizingakonze zinthu chifukwa mankhwalawa amangochepetsa mitsempha yamagazi kuti ikhale yolimba, osapanga imodzi. Ubongo ndi thupi zimayenera kudzutsidwa koyamba mwa iwo okha. Popanda izi, palibe mlingo wa "erection enhancing" mankhwala omwe angathandize.
Ndiye… Kugonananso?
Kwenikweni, nkhani sizabwino kwenikweni. Kuti tikalimbikitsidwe, tiyenera kungoyang'ana ubongo wa omwe amasiya kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Ndizodziwika bwino kuti kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kosalekeza kumapangitsa ubongo "kudziyanjanitsa" wokha. Kusintha kwa mitsempha iyi, kwakukulukulu, ndiko komwe kumapangitsa kukhala kovuta kwambiri ndikuyambiranso pakati pa anthu omwe amayesa kusiya. Komabe, kafukufuku wochuluka wasonyeza kuti ngati munthu wokonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo amakhalabe wosaganiza kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mpaka chaka, ubongo nthawi zambiri umabwerera kuzinthu zoyandikira kwambiri. Umboni wosonyeza kuti zizolowezi zamakhalidwe - kuphatikiza zolaula - ndizofanana, ndipo ubongo umatha kudzikonza ukakhala ndi nthawi yoti uchiritse. Malinga ndi tsambalo Ubongo Wanu pa Zithunzi, kuzimitsa zolaula nthawi zambiri "kumayambiranso" ubongo, kulola ma dopamine receptors omwe awonongeka chifukwa cha kukokomeza (ndikupangitsa kuti azikhala osagonana komanso osakondweretsanso nkhawa) kuti abwezeretse, pamapeto pake ndikubwezeretsa mphotho yamaubongo ku chinthu choyandikira choyambira. Mwanjira ina, wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi yayitali atakhala kutali ndi zolaula, ndizotheka kuti kutaya mtima kwakuthupi ndi / kapena kusakhudzidwa kudzatha.
Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S, ndi wamkulu wotsogolera pulezidenti wa chitukuko cha kuchipatala Zomwe Makhalidwe Omwe Amakhalira. Wolemba komanso wodziwa bwino za ubale pakati pa zipangizo zamakono ndi zamagonana, Bambo Weiss wakhala ngati katswiri wa zachipatala ku CNN, Oprah Winfrey Network, New York Times, Los Angeles Times, ndi Today Show, pakati pa ena ambiri . Bambo Weiss ndi wolemba ya Utsogoleri wa Cruise: Kumvetsetsa Kugonana kwa Amuna Amuna Amuna, ndi wolemba mabuku pamodzi ndi Dr. Jennifer Schneider pa Webusaiti Yonse Yosasokonezeka: Kugonana, Kugonana, ndi Kuganiza Zowonongeka pa Intaneti Zaka ndi kusindikizidwa kwa 2013, Palimodzi, Pakati Pakati: Zotsatira za Zipangizo zamakono ndi intaneti pa Zogonana, Chibwenzi ndi Ubale, kuphatikizapo nkhani zambiri ndi ndemanga zowonedwa ndi anzawo.
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