Mwachiwonekere, kusakhoza kukonzekera ndi vuto lathupi, koma zinthu zingapo, kuphatikizapo zachipatala kapena zakuthupi, komanso zovuta zamaganizo ndi zamaganizo zingayambitse. Nazi zina mwazimene zimayambitsa: kuthamanga kwa magazi, matenda a mtima, shuga; mankhwala ena; kugwiritsa ntchito mowa ndi mankhwala, kusuta; kupanikizika, nkhawa, mkwiyo, nkhawa; kunenepa kwambiri, kudzikonda, kutsika kwa libido. Zokwanira monga momwe mndandandawu ukuwonekera, chinthu chomwe sichikuwoneka kuti chikuwoneka pazomwe zimayambitsa zovuta za erectile ndi zolaula.
Koma kodi kuwonera zolaula sikuyenera kuthandizira pakukonzekera, osaletsa? Mwinamwake, mwina ayi.
Pambuyo pa intaneti, kupezeka kwa zolaula kunali kokha ku mavidiyo ndi zolaula, monga Playboy ndi Penthouse. Pamene amuna ena anali ndi magulu a anthuwa, anyamata ambiri anali ndi mwayi wochepa. Koma intaneti tsopano yachititsa kupezeka kwa zithunzi zolaula ndi mavidiyo pafupipafupi komanso mopanda malire.
Zithunzi zosatha zowonongekazi zalimbikitsa chikhumbo chachibadwa cha abambo kuti "azisaka" ndikuganiza zakugonana. Zotsatira zake, chisangalalo cha kuganiza za kugonana kuphatikizapo kuperewera kosatha kwa mafano olimbikitsa chasandulika kuyang'ana pa zolaula kukhala masewera a kufunafuna mafano osangalatsa ndi osangalatsa kwambiri kwa amuna ambiri, ambiri. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe amuna amawonera zolaula, komanso momwe zimakhalira chizolowezi ndikudya maola ambiri. Nazi zomwe mayi wina anandiuza:
Zowopsa monga izi zitha kukhala, ndakhalapo nazo Amuna amavomereza kwa ine mu uphungu kukhala ndi zolaula zochulukirapo kuposa izi. Monga mwamunayo, amuna ambiri sadziwa kuti kuwonera zolaula ndi nkhani yayikulu bwanji. Kupatula apo, kodi si zachilendo kuti amuna azifuna kuyang'ana mkazi wamaliseche? Inde, koma kuchuluka kwambiri kwa chilichonse kumayambitsa mavuto - ngakhale zinthu zabwino (ngakhale zolaula sizabwino).
Tsopano chiwerengero chowonjezeka cha amuna akulipoti zovuta kupeza ndi kusunga erection akakhala pachibwenzi ndi anzawo. Ndikudziwa amuna omwe amakhalanso ndi vuto lofikira pachimake akagonana ndi akazi awo kapena atsikana. Ndipo amuna ena amatha kutaya chidwi chogonana ndi mkazi weniweni. Tsopano amuna samangoganiza zogonana pamasekondi 6 aliwonse? Kodi sakuyenera kuti azigonana kwambiri mpaka atagonana nthawi iliyonse? Nchiyani chimapereka? Porn zingayambitse mavuto a erection.
Kuukitsa kugonana kumatulutsa mankhwala osangalatsa a dopamine mu ubongo. Monga chirichonse, dopamine wambiri angakhale vuto. Poona zolaula zimakhala zachizoloŵezi zingayambitse mitsempha mu ubongo kuti ikhale yosamvetsetseka komanso yomvera dopamine. Izi zimabweretsa chibwenzi chokwanira (ndi mkazi weniweni) kukhala wosakwanira kuti apange dopamine yokwanira kuti azimutse. Zotsatira za kusintha kumeneku mu ubongo (zomwe zimasinthidwa ndi njira) zikhoza kuwonetsedwa m'mafotokozedwe apambuyo a amuna omwe akusowa zolaula zambiri kuti awutse ndi kufika pamasewera.
Pali madokotala omwe amanena kuti zolaula za erectile zosokoneza ndi nthano. Koma palinso anthu ambiri amene amakhulupirira zolaula ndizosavulaza. Sindikugwirizana nazo.
Zoona zokhudzana ndi zolaula ndizoti zimapatsa chisangalalo cha kanthaŵi kochepa koma pamodzi ndi zomwe zimabweretsa mavuto a nthawi yaitali. Kugonana ndi zolaula mobwerezabwereza pakapita nthawi kumapangitsa kuti munthu azigonana komanso kugonana. Zotsatira zake zogonana, kaya zenizeni kapena zamagetsi, zomwe zimangoyambitsa chisangalalo sichimachitanso, ndi zina zambiri, ndipo zowonjezera zatsopano ndi zatsopano zimayenera.
Kuzindikira zonsezi sikuli kovuta kuwona momwe kugonana kwabwino ndi munthu amene mudakhala naye kale sikungamukhumudwitse wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula monga momwe amachitiranso. Mwamuna m'modzi yemwe ndimamuthandiza kuti ndizigwiritsa ntchito zolaula amafunika kuseweretsanso maliseche atagonana ndi mkazi wake.
Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti erectile yosavomerezeka imatha kusintha. Lekani kuwona zolaula ndi maliseche, ndipo kawirikawiri mkati mwa miyezi ya 3 ma dopamine mu ubongo wanu amabwerera kumayendedwe abwino. Komabe, kusiya kuonera zolaula n'kosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita. Ngakhale zolinga zabwino, mphamvu zolaula zolaula komanso zophweka zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti amuna ambiri asiye okha popanda kuthandizira.
Pali nthano zambiri zomwe timamva ngati ana. Mmodzi mwa amayi otchuka kwambiri mawu akhala, “Valani jekete. Ugwidwa ndi chimfine. ” Koma imodzi imaphatikizapo anatomy yamwamuna, “Ukapitiliza kusewera nayo, tsiku lina idzagwa.” Ine kwenikweni ndimaganiza kuti izo zinali, “Kuchita maliseche kumakupangitsa khungu.” Zachidziwikire, sichigwa kapena simukhala khungu, koma Ndi nthano yoti kuyang'ana zolaula kulibe vuto lililonse ndipo chowonadi ndichakuti kuwonongeka kwa zolaula kwa erectile kumatha kukhala chimodzi mwazotsatira zake.
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