Eya, Alanis Morissette. Izi ndizovuta. Mwinamwake. Asayansi apeza kuti zithunzi zolaula kwambiri pa intaneti zomwe mumadya, sizing'onozing'ono kuti mupeze chinthu chenicheni.
Katswiri wa zachipatala Dr Harry Fisch akuwulula m'buku lake laposachedwa The New Naked kuti, ahem, kusangalala kwambiri ndi zolaula kungayambitse kusokoneza kugonana - kutanthauza kuti simungathe kuzipeza.
TV TV imati zitha kukhala 'zophweka mosavuta' kulowa m'mphepete mwa chizolowezi chowonera zolaula komanso kuti kukhala ndi 'zochita zambiri' mukamaziwonera kungapangitse 'kukhala kovuta kwambiri' kudzutsidwa - ndikukhalabe okhudzidwa - mumkhalidwe weniweni.
Komanso - nkhani zoipa zonse - zingakhudze momwe zimadzutsa amuna kupeza akazi awo okondedwa kapena abwenzi awo okondedwa.
Akunena kuti akamakumana ndi anthu akudandaula chifukwa cha kugonana kwapadera, Mmene Zimakhudzira Kugonana (ESP) za zolaula zimakhala "zoonekera mwamsanga".
'Kuonerera zolaula ndi maliseche ndiko kugonana mofanana ndi chakudya chofulumira,' akutero. 'Ndiko kukondweretsa kanthawi, ndipo ndibwino kamodzi kanthawi pamene mukulakalaka Frying kapena ors ena akuphwanyidwa mu goop yachitsulo yamoto ya machungwa, koma kwa chakudya? Kumbukirani za izo. '
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti akuganiza kuti zolaula zonse ndizoipa kwambiri. Nthawi imene anthu amaziyang'ana 'mopanda malire,' monga momwe amaikondera, manja awo paokha. Yesani manja a wina aliyense, iye akuyamikira.
Kwenikweni, chokani kuchoka pa laputopu (pang'ono) ndipo mubwererenso m'chipinda chogona.
Mukhoza kuwerenga zambiri m'buku la Dr Fisch, The New Naked: The Ultimate Sex Education for Grown-Ups.
Lachitatu 16 Apr 2014
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