Ndi Harriet Williamson
Lachitatu 30 May 2018
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti 36% ya anyamata pakati pa zaka za 16 ndi 24 akhala akukumana ndi mavuto a kugonana m'chaka chatha.
Ziwerengerozo ndi zapamwamba kwa amuna pakati pa 25 ndi 34, ndi pafupifupi 40% mwa omwe anafunsidwa akuvomereza kuti ali ndi nkhani mu chipinda chogona.
Kulephera kugonana kumagwirizanitsa ndi amuna achikulire ndi ntchito ya Viagra pozindikira za anthu, koma si oposa 50 omwe angathe kukhala ndi mavuto ndi ntchito yogonana.
Ntchito Yogonana mu Britain ikufufuza kuti amuna a misinkhu yonse akukumana ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zogonana, kuphatikizapo kusakhudzidwa ndi kugonana, kusowa chisangalalo pa kugonana, osamva kukondana mu kugonana, kumva ululu, kuvutika kupeza kapena kusunga chiwombankhanga ndi vuto likumalizira kwambiri kapena likufika mofulumira kwambiri.
Pakati pa 36% ndi 40% a amuna omwe ali pansi pa 35 ali ndi vuto limodzi kapena angapo.
Kukambirana moona mtima pa nkhaniyi kwatha nthawi yaitali.
Wolemba woyambitsa phunziro, Dr Kirstin Mitchell wa ku yunivesite ya Glasgow, amakhulupirira kuti mavuto opatsirana pogonana akhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zanthawi yaitali pa ubwino wokhudza kugonana m'tsogolomu, makamaka kwa achinyamata.
'Pankhani ya kugonana kwa achinyamata, kafukufuku amadziwika makamaka pofuna kupewa matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso mimba yosakonzekera. Komabe, tiyenera kulingalira za thanzi labwino kwambiri.
Chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe zingakhale zochititsa manyazi, ndiye kuti anyamata ambiri sakhala otsimikiza kwa anzawo kapena abwenzi awo kapena kuyendera GP awo.
Lewis, 32, wakhala akuvutika ndi mavuto angapo omwe atchulidwa mu phunziro la Kugonana. Amauza Metro.co.uk kuti: 'Kungakhale nkhani yeniyeni m'chipinda chogona koma kukatsegulidwa ndi mnzako nthawi zonse ndi njira yabwino yothetsera.'
Pambuyo pa Lewis akukambirana zomwe zikuchitika ndi chibwenzi chake, adakambirana za momwe angamulimbikitsire kuchita. Kungokhalira kulankhulana ndi vutoli kunapangitsa kuti ndikumva kuti palibe chinthu chochuluka kwambiri 'ndipo nthawi zina kugonana kumakhala kophweka.
Amuna ali osachepera kwambiri kukachezera GP kuposa abambo awo, amuna amangocheza ndi dokotala kasanu pachaka poyerekezera ndi amayi omwe amapita ku GP kasanu pachaka. Izi zikhonza kukhala zovulaza kuthupi ndi m'maganizo, ndipo zikutanthawuza kuti pali anthu ambiri omwe amatha kukhala chete chifukwa cha zovuta za kugonana zomwe sangafune kupeza thandizo la akatswiri.
Chaka chatha, boma linalengeza mapulani Kugonana ndi maphunziro a ubale akukakamizidwa ku masukulu onse ku England. Ngati achinyamata akuphunzitsidwa za kufunika kwa mgwirizano ndi maubwenzi abwino, kumakhala kosavuta kuti alankhulane ndi anzawo popanda manyazi komanso akhale ndi chidziwitso chogonana komanso chaulemu.
Aoife Drury, kugonana ndi maubwenzi ogwirizana ku London, akudzudzula kuti amuna amayamba kugonana popanda kugonana popanda khalidwe logonana kuti apereke malingaliro oyenera pa ubale.
Amatiuza kuti: 'Anyamata omwe sadziwa maphunziro a kugonana angakhale akudziyerekezera ndi nyenyezi zolaula pamaganizo ndi kuntchito (kukula kwa mbolo komanso kutalika kwa nthawi yaitali).
'Izi zingayambitse nkhawa ndi kudzidalira ndipo zingayambe kugonana ndi abwenzi awo zovuta. Kusokonekera kwa Erectile kungakhale zotsatirapo pambali pamunsi wa libido.
'Wamng'ono wa msinkhu wawo akamayamba kuyang'ana zolaula nthawi zonse, amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi chibwenzi chosiyana ndi abambo komanso mwayi wowonjezera kugonana kumawonjezeka.
'Izi ndizofukufuku ofunika kwambiri pankhani ya maphunziro a kugonana, kumasuka kwa zolaula, zomwe zingasangalatse poona kuti zikuwoneka kuti ziwonjezeke ku zinthu zoopsa kwambiri komanso zotsatira za achinyamata.'
Komabe, si aliyense amene amawonana mgwirizano pakati pa kuonera zolaula ndi mavuto m'chipinda chogona. Kris Taylor, yemwe ndi katswiri wophunzira pa yunivesite ya Auckland, akulembera VICE kuti: 'Pamene ndikufufuza zopanda pake zafukufuku zomwe zinkatsimikizira kuti zolaula zimayambitsa matenda osokoneza bongo, ndinapeza zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimayambitsa erectile dysfunction.
'Zithunzi zolaula sizili pakati pawo. Izi zinaphatikizapo kuvutika maganizo, nkhawa, mantha, kumwa mankhwala ena, kusuta, kumwa mowa komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, komanso zinthu zina monga matenda a shuga ndi matenda a mtima. ' (Chidziwitso: Gary Wilson adasokoneza mawu a Taylor apa: Debunking Kris Taylor a "Zochepa Zoona Zovuta Zokhudza Kugonana ndi Erectile Dysfunction" (2017)
Malinga ndi 2017 Kufufuza kwa Los Angeles, kutayika kwa kugonana kungakhale kuyendetsa galamala, osati njira ina. Kuchokera kwa amuna a 335 omwe adafunsidwa, 28% adati adakonda kugonana ndi munthu wina. Wolemba, Dr. Nicole Prause, adawona kuti kuonerera zolaula kwakukulu kunayambitsa zotsatira za kugonana komwe kulipo monga amuna omwe amapewa kugonana ndi ena ena ofunika chifukwa cha vuto lomwe angaliyang'ane podzitcha okha. (Zindikirani: Malingaliro a Nicole Prause achotsedwa patsamba lino)
Inde, palibe cholakwika ndi kuseweretsa maliseche kapena kuwonera mavidiyo a akuluakulu ogonana ogonana. Vuto ndilokusankha izi chifukwa simungathe kuchita ndi mnzanuyo komanso mumanyazi kuti mungalankhulepo kapena funani thandizo.
Jack wazaka 24 wa ku London amavomereza. Anauza Metro.co.uk kuti adakumana ndi mavuto akugonana ali ndi zibwenzi zatsopano.
Anati: "Patadutsa mwezi umodzi, mumaganiza kuti ndinu wopanda pake ndipo adzakusiyani - izi zingachititse kuti mukhale ochepa ndipo mutayamba kuganiza molakwika, simungathe kuchita.
'Ndinayankhula ndi mnzanga zokhudzana ndi izi (anamasulidwa sizinali zomwe adachita molakwitsa) ndipo anatsegulira anzanga odalirika. Ndinkaona ngati ndikufunika kuchita zonsezi kuti ndisiye mthunzi wotsatira ine. "
Jack analankhula za kukula ndi abwenzi amasiye omwe sakanenapo za momwe amamvera.
'Zinkaonedwa kuti ndi "amphongo" kuti achite zimenezo. Chikhalidwe chonsechi chiyenera kusintha. '
Ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti achinyamata apatsidwe mwayi wokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso maphunziro a ubale omwe akutsindika kufunikira kwa kuyankhulana ndi kulemekezana. Othandizana omwe angathe kulankhulana bwino ndi wina ndi mzake ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi zosangalatsa zokhudzana ndi kugonana.
Ngati simungathe kufunsa zomwe mukufuna pabedi kapena kuyankhula ngati pali vuto, pali chiopsezo kuti kugonana kumakhala kosalala, kovuta, kosavuta kapena koipa.
Kuopsa kwaumuna kumathandizanso apa, kuteteza amuna kutsegulira abwenzi kapena abwenzi, kapena kupita kukafuna thandizo la akatswiri. Izi zikhoza kupangitsa anyamata kuti agwire ntchito yopanda kugonana ndikufalitsa nthano kuti kugonana ndi chinthu chomwe chimafunika kuti azidandaula.
Zingakhale zopweteka zokambirana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, koma siziyenera kukhala. Ngati mukuvutikira kuchipinda, simungakhale nokha.
Ben Edwards, mphunzitsi wapamtima, zikuwonekeratu kuti manyazi okhudzana ndi kugonana akuyenera kusintha.
'Tiyenera kuvomereza kuti matenda amisala, nkhawa komanso zovuta zogonana sizofooka,' akutiuza. 'Ndiofala kwambiri ndipo tiyenera kuthana nawo. Kuvomereza kuti mukufuna thandizo ndichinthu chachikulu ndipo mudzalandira zabwinozo.
'Amuna nthawi zambiri amamva kuti sayenera kusonyeza maganizo awo, koma ndizofunika kuika pambali ndikukonza nkhanizi kuti tipindule.'
Kwenikweni, kupanikizika ndi manyazi ndi opambana opha anzawo. Azineneretseni pofuna kutseguka, kuwona mtima ndi kusangalala.
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