'Ana a zaka eyiti amadziwika ndi zolaula'
Kwazulu Natal / 13 Jun '16
Kerushun Pillay
Durban - Othandizira ogwiritsa ntchito zakumwa zoledzeretsa ku South Africa komanso akatswiri azakugonana akuti pakufunika thandizo lalikulu kuti ana a masiku ano azidwaladwala chifukwa cha zolaula.
A Mercury adafunsidwa kuti kuthetsa zolaula kupyolera mu matekinoloji kunachulukitsa mwayi wokhala ndi chizoloŵezi chogonjetsa, chomwe chinapangitsa mwamuna kukhala wolimba kwambiri ndi kuwononga mphamvu yokhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi wachikondi.
Achipatala aku South Africa komanso akatswiri azamaphunziro azakugonana akunena kuti kuzolowera zolaula mwa ana kunali "mliri" womwe ukukula.
Anati kuonera zolaula kwa ana kunali "mliri" wochuluka. Mwana mmodzi ali wamng'ono monga 10 adachiritsidwa.
Heather Hansen, yemwe ali m'bungwe la Teenworx, akuyambitsa maphunziro a sukulu. A Hansenen, yemwe ali m'bungwe la Teenworx, anati: "Zomwe tapeza zaka zapitazo mu zokambirana zathu ndi maphunziro athu pa maphunziro a kugonana ndi kuti aphunzitsi akuluakulu a 5, 9 ndi zaka za 10, adziwonetsa zolaula."
Clive Human, yemwe ndi mkulu wa Standing Together kwa Oppose Pornography, ananena kuti: "Pali achinyamata ndi atsikana omwe anganene moona mtima kuti sanaonepo zachiwerewere."
Anati zaka zapakati zomwe ana ankaonera zolaula tsopano zinali 8.
"Achinyamata akuyamba kuyesa pamene ali aang'ono kwambiri kuti athe kusokoneza malingaliro omwe akuwonetserako komanso kusowa kwa zolaula zomwe zilipo," anatero Sheryl Rahme, katswiri wa mankhwala osokoneza bongo ku Changes Rehab Center.
Kuwonetseratu kumeneku, kuvomerezana konse, kugonongeka kwa kugonana m'moyo wotsatira. Rahme kuona zolaula mobwerezabwereza kunachititsa "ubongo" wa ubongo, anati Rahme.
"Achinyamata omwe amaonera zolaula amaphunzitsa matupi awo kuti azidzuka makamaka m'njira zachilendo ... zoperekedwa ndi zolaula. Zithunzi zolaula zimawadziwitsa ku njira zachizolowezi zogonana. Sali okonzeka kuchita izi. ”
Hansen adati izi zinayambitsa chikhumbo cha "kukhudzidwa kwakukulu" kuti zidzutse. "Mupeza ana a zaka 18-25, omwe ayenera kukhala pa chibwenzi chawo, ndi kusokonezeka kwa erectile," adatero.
M'moyo wam'mbuyo, ochita zolaula ankavutika kuti asonyeze kapena alandire chikondi ndi chiyanjano kuchokera kwa bwenzi lawo, adatero.
Kusokoneza bongo "kumayambitsa chisokonezo cha maubwenzi ovuta kwambiri a banja komanso maubwenzi apabanja", anatero Human. "Apa ndipamene chisoni chachikulu, kuwonongeka, ndi chisoni zimachitika."
Anthu ambiri amauza ana awo kuti asamawone koma sakudziwa zokwanira kuti awathandize, kuwaphunzitsa ndi kuwasamalira iwo, Rahme adati.
"Popanda kukambirana zimenezi mosamala, mwachichepere achinyamata amatha kupititsa patsogolo zochitika zawo zapadera popanda kumvetsetsa bwino za chiyanjano chogonana, chikondi ndi phindu limodzi," adatero.
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