Zofiira ndi zoyera za mafilimu a buluu: Momwe chiwerewere chimayambitsira ubale
Banja likuyesetsa kuthetsa ukwati wawo. Mnyamata sakukondwera ndi kusowa kwake pazochitika zina zogonana. Mayi wamng'ono samakhutira ndi zomwe amzake amadziŵa momwe angamukhudze pabedi. Zonsezi ndi zotsatira za kuyembekezera chiwombankhanga pa zenizeni.
Zithunzi zolaula ndizithunzi za kugonana, ziwalo zogonana kapena zochitika zogonana. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ngakhale kuti amuna amatha kuyang'ana mafilimu, amayi amatha kuchita nawo chiwerewere pa Intaneti, omwe amadziwika kuti ndi-kugonana.
Zithunzi zolaula zakhala zikuyenda mofanana ndi zomwe zasayansi. Nthawi iliyonse imene sing'anga imatulutsidwa, zolaula zinayamba kupezeka. Mu 1830s munali zithunzi; mu 1900s, mafilimu a buluu adalowa m'ma kanema; Mu 1970s VCR yathandiza pulogalamu yoonera zolaula m'nyumba zawo.
Zingakhale zochepa pamene makompyuta ndi ma CD amakhala zinthu m'nyumba iliyonse koma kuyambira kubwera kwa intaneti, pakhala pali kukula kosawonongera zithunzi zolaula.
Pepala la sayansi la Al Cooper ndi anzake ku 1998 limafotokoza izi chifukwa cha katatu-A Engine effect yomwe ikuphatikizapo kupeza, kukwanitsa komanso kudziwika. Pokhala ndi mwayi wa intaneti tsopano womwe ulipo pamphuphu zathu zazing'ono ndi wifi yapamwamba ndi mafoni apamwamba, anthu tsopano akuonera zolaula mosavuta. Izi ndi zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zithunzi zolaula zisayime pambali pazomwe zilipo kale.
Kodi ndi bwino kuyang'ana zolaula?
Palibe cholakwika chilichonse powonera zolaula ngati wamkulu. Ikhoza kugwira ntchito monga chilimbikitso chodzikondweretsa nokha ndipo ikhoza kuthandizira anthu ndi maanja kuti azifufuza njira zosiyanasiyana zosangalatsa okha.
N'zosakayikiranso kuti musasangalale ndi zolaula. Ena amakonda ndipo ena samatero. Mosiyana ndi zimene anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, akazi amaonanso zolaula. Si ntchito yomwe imangokhala pa chikhalidwe chimodzi. Komabe, nkofunikira kuti ana asadziwoneke ngati atangoyamba kumene kugonana akhoza kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoipa pa iwo.
Kuonerera zolaula kungakhale ntchito yosangalatsayi makamaka ngati mumakhala ndi maliseche. Koma izi ndizo zolaula zomwe zimachititsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri. Mofanana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mowa kapena juga, munthu akhoza kuyamba kudalira kwambiri zolaula.
Kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kumachitika chifukwa thupi limayamba kusangalala ndi mankhwala omwe amasulidwa mu ubongo. Izi zayesedwa pa makoswe ndipo zimatsimikiziridwa. Ngakhale kuti palibe njira yowonetsera zolaula pa makoswe, tawonera kuti ma dopamine ambiri amatulutsidwa mu ubongo pamene wina ayang'ana zolaula. Ndi dopamine iyi imene munthu angafune pamene akugonjetsedwa ndi zolaula.
Zizolowezi zolaula
Mofanana ndi zizoloŵezi zina, kusuta zolaula kumalepheretsa moyo. Ngati mukuwonerera zolaula mwanjira yathanzi, sikungakhale ndi zotsatirapo zoipa pa moyo wanu kapena maubwenzi. Koma ngati mukukumana ndi zina mwa zotsatirazi chifukwa cha zizoloŵezi zanu zolaula, nkofunika kulingalira zomwe zimachitika zolaula m'moyo wanu.
- Kuonera zolaula kwambiri mpaka kusokoneza moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi maudindo
- Kupatula nthawi yowonerera zolaula kapena kufunafuna zolaula zina zomwe zingakulimbikitseni chifukwa chokwera zakhala zovuta
- Kuwona kuti ndikutaya nthawi pamene simungathe kuonera zolaula
- Pitirizani kuzigwiritsa ntchito ngakhale zitakhudza moyo wanu
- Kuchita maliseche
- Zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana monga kukwera msanga kapena kusowa mphamvu
- Kulephera kuukitsidwa ndi mnzanu kapena kuchepetsa kugonana ndi mnzanu
- Kuonera zolaula ndi njira yothetsera malingaliro anu (kuwachitira ngati apamwamba)
Pali njira zingapo zomwe zolaula zimakhudza anthu komanso omwe ali pachibwenzi. Achinyamata omwe sanayambe kugonana kwenikweni angayambe kukhala ndi ziyembekezo zapamwamba zomwe siziri zenizeni. Akachita zogonana, kusokonezeka kumeneku kungayambitse kusagwirizana ndi ntchito.
Nthawi zina munthu amatha kuyang'anitsitsa mtundu wolaula wa zolaula monga ukapolo, nyamakazi (komwe mkazi akulamulira mwamuna), kugwedeza (gulu la kugonana kapena kusinthanitsa) kapena ngakhale kumapazi. Izi zingawachititse kuti asadzatsedwe pokhapokha izi zidzakwaniritsidwa.
Kawirikawiri, mu maubwenzi, okwatirana kapena abwenzi angaone kuti kudalira zolaula kumangopeka. Zingasokoneze zokhazokha zokhudzana ndi kugonana pakati pa banjali komanso zimayambitsa zochitika za thupi ndi kudzidalira.
Pankhani ya mabanja, pali ngozi yoti ana adziwe zolaula ndipo izi zikhoza kukhumudwitsa mwanayo komanso mphamvu za banja lonse.
Chifukwa chiyani zolaula zimasokoneza zoona?
Pali zithunzi zambiri zolaula, ngakhale za mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya feteleza. Ndi msika wofanana ndi wina aliyense ndi cholinga chopanga ndalama zambiri momwe zingathere. Pali magulu angapo a kamera omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndipo pali kusintha kwakukulu komwe kumakhudza. Chilichonse kuchokera m'matupi a zolaula-nyenyezi kupita ku zochitika zogonana zomwe zawonetsedwa mu filimuyi ndi cholinga choti azisewera m'maganizo a owona.
Ndizovuta kwambiri komanso zambiri za kugonana kwenikweni muzipinda zapadera sizili choncho. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikana yemwe ali ndi zithunzi zolaula zomwe ndizofala kwambiri nthawi zambiri amawonetsa amayi omwe ali ndi misomali yaitali ndi amayi akuyika zipsinjo muzitha zawo. Zoonadi, izi sizikusiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika pakati pa anyamata.
Zithunzi zolaula zakhala zikupangidwa kukhala omvera amuna monga cholinga. Izi zimabweretsa nkhani ziwiri pa tebulo. Imodzi ndi mafilimu ang'onoang'ono omwe amaika pa zokondweretsa mkaziyo. Chachiwiri, izo zimawoneka zinthu zina zomwe sizodziwika monga momwe timaganizira. Mwachitsanzo, kugonana kwa m'kamwa, kugonana kwa abambo ndi kukakamizidwa kwa amayi kumakhala kofala mu mafilimu ambiri owonetsa zolaula koma sizingalandiridwe ndi wokondedwa m'moyo weniweni.
Inde, pali BDSM ndipo inde, palinso anthu omwe amachititsa kugonana m'kamwa, kugonana kwa abambo ndipo angakonde kukhala okonzeka. Zithunzi zolaula zingakhale njira zabwino kuti mabanja azifufuza dziko lonse lapansi ndikupeza njira zatsopano zosangalatsa okha. Koma kuvomereza ndi kulankhulana kumabwera nthawi zonse.
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