Kodi timapeza kuti pali kusiyana pakati pa kumwa mowa mopitirira muyeso ndi chikhalidwe cha intaneti? Charlotte Loppie, Pulofesa wa UV ku Sukulu ya Zaumoyo za Umoyo, Social Policy, ndi Community Based Based Aboriginal Health Research, posachedwapa adawona kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa chiwerengero cha ophunzira aamuna kufunafuna uphungu wokhudzana ndi vuto la erectile mu maubwenzi chifukwa chowona zithunzi zolaula pa Intaneti .
Malinga ndi zolaula za pa intaneti zingathe kukhala "zowonongeka," Loppie akufotokoza, chifukwa "kuthamanga mofulumizitsa moto" kwa zinthu zosaoneka bwino kumapangitsa woonerayo kuti asayambe kugonana ndi munthu weniweni.
Chinthu chimodzi cha zochitika izi ndi kudzidzimva yekha wolaula wolaula komanso wamkulu wazaka zolemba za Creative Writing, Spencer Thompson, yemwe analankhula ndi Loppie za vuto lake lauchidakwa chaka chatha. Loppie akuti Thompson ndiye akukumana ndi mlandu mofanana ndi Thompson koma akuwonjezera, "Ndakhala ndikuphunzira ndi anzanga kwa zaka zambiri omwe akulimbana ndi izi."
Thompson akufotokoza kuti chidwi chake pa zolaula chinayamba m'kalasi la 10 komanso kuti akupitirizabe kuvutika ndi chizoloŵezi choledzera. "Ndimakayikirabe," akutero. "Palibe mankhwala."
"Nthawi zina ndimangolakalaka nditakhala mwana wa zaka za m'ma 80. Iwo sankayenera kuchita nawo [makompyuta]. "
Mu 2015 voliyumu ya Kukambitsirana kwa Texas kwa Law & Politics, Alexandra Harrison akulemba kuti: “Munthu amene amakonda kuonera zolaula pa Intaneti amakhala ndi chizolowezi chogonana kapena chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito Intaneti. American Bar Association (ABA), imafotokoza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi vuto logonana ngati 'chizolowezi chodalira mchitidwe wogonana womwe umapangitsa kuti akhale osokoneza bongo, omwe akupitilizabe kuchita zomwe zimawakhudza ndipo omwe akukakamizika kupitilira momwe angakwaniritsire kukana, kuwongolera, kapena siyani. '”
M'masiku ake "ovuta kwambiri," kuonera zolaula kunangokhala kosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo wa Thompson. Ankadumpha sukulu kuti aone zolaula pa Intaneti, ndipo pamapeto pake sanathe kugwirizanitsa kugonana ndi maganizo ndi zokondana. Thompson anati: "Ndili ndi vutoli, maganizo anga amachoka ndipo ndine wolimbikitsidwa ndi thupi."
Harrison akupitirizabe Ukachenjede wa Texas: "A ABA amanenanso kuti ngakhale kuti" chizoloŵezi chimawoneka, munthu amene amamwa mowa amayamba kuchita zinthu zosavuta kapena zoopsa kuti azipanga mofulumira, "komanso 'kuumirira, kupitiriza, ndi kukakamiza kupitiliza,' m'malo mochita zinthu zinazake, chiwerengero cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo. "Kotero kusangalala sikusakhalanso ndi kugonana paokha koma za ntchito yapadera yoonera zolaula pa intaneti.
"Iwe umapitirira ku zinthu zowopsya kwambiri chifukwa [mtundu wakale] sukuchitiranso iwe. . . koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, chikumbumtima chanu chikunena kuti ndizo [zokhumudwitsa], "akulongosola motero Thompson.
Malinga ndi Emma Carter wa Pulogalamu Yowonongeka kwa BC (CARBC), palibe kafukufuku amene akuchitika panopa pa zolaula zolaula pa Intaneti. Ngati kufufuza kokwanira kumayambitsa zinthu zatsopano zolaula, zosiyana ndi zamankhwala zimakhala zofala. Chokhazikitsidwa bwino ndi kugawikana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi omwe akumana ndi zolaula pa Intaneti. "Pazaka zanga zonse [ndikugwira ntchito yokhudzana ndi kugonana], sindinamvepopo mayi akuti [akuyang'ana] zolaula kwambiri kuti [sangathe] kukondwera ndi wokondedwa weniweni," anatero Loppie.
Buku la Dr. Daniel Linz la 2007 Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti: Kutsutsana Maganizo akuti "malemba monga 'chiwerewere' kapena 'zolaula' angatiuze zambiri zokhudza dziko lathu ndi maudindo a amuna kusiyana ndi kuwonetsa matenda atsopano." Linz akuwonetsa kuti popeza iwo omwe akupezeka kuti ndi "chizoloŵezi chogonana" ali osiyana kwambiri ndi amuna, ena ochita kafukufuku amakhulupirira kuti zokhumba za anthu omwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana angapangitse abambo kufotokoza zaumuna wawo pogonana.
Malinga ndi Harrison, "Coolidge Impect," yomwe imatchulidwa kuti chilakolako chofuna kugonana ndi amuna, imatanthawuza kuti chidziwitso chosatha cha intaneti chatsopano ndichokongoletsera kuledzera kwa amuna.
Komabe, Loppie amadzifunsa ngati kulira ndi nthawi yoyenera. "Ndikuganiza zomwe tikuona [zomwe zimatchedwa kuonera zolaula pa Intaneti] zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mopitirira muyeso."
Mosasamala kanthu, anthu ena a pa intaneti amagwira ntchito kuti athetse anthu omwe akuvutika ndi zolaula pa Intaneti. Mu 2011, tsamba lotchedwa NoFap linayambira ndipo potsiriza linapezeka ngati pulogalamu. Webusaiti ina yotchedwa YourBrainOnPorn.com imaphunzitsa ogwiritsa ntchito zokhudzana ndi sayansi komanso imalimbikitsa njira yotchedwa Reboot komwe abambo amapewa kuchita maliseche komanso zolaula masiku a 90. Thompson akutsimikizira kuti ndondomeko ya Reboot imamugwirira bwino pomuthandiza kuthetsa vuto la erectile lomwe limayambitsidwa ndi zolaula pa intaneti.
Thompson amapereka uphungu kwa anthu amene amadandaula kuti angawononge kwambiri zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti: "Ngakhale mukuwona zinthu zovuta [zinthu] pa intaneti, [ndipo] mukuganiza kuti ndizo. . . iwe umalowa mkati, ine sindingapange chiweruzo icho mpaka iwe utachokapo. "
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mungayambe kuonera zolaula pa Intaneti, alangizi othandizira alipo othandizira. Pitani ku blog ya Thompson kuti mudziwe zambiri za zomwe zinamuchitikira: spencerthomp.wordpress.com
By Cayden Johnson February 4, 2016
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