Katswiri wamatenda apamtima Harry Fisch, MD wachita ntchito yofunikira kwambiri ponena zinthu zina zomwe ziyenera kunenedwa posowa zidutswa pakumvetsetsa kwamasiku ano zakugonana. Mwachitsanzo, amalankhula za zovuta zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti pazogonana amuna ndi ziyembekezo zawo, komanso zovuta zakugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri chidole chogonana mwa akazi. Amalangizanso anthu omwe amafunikira thandizo kuti alandire kwa asing'anga omwe amamvetsetsa zakugonana. (Akatswiri azakugonana ambiri amakana kukhalapo kwake!)
Nazi zina mwamalemba kuchokera ku "Wamaliseche Watsopano":
"[Zithunzi zolaula], zomwe zimayenera kulimbikitsa amuna (kapena akazi) zogonana zitha kuwononga zonse zomwe akuchita komanso momwe amagwirira ntchito. Nanga bwanji palibe amene akulankhula zakukhudzana ndi kugonana…? Mwina chifukwa chogonana amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Akukambirana chifukwa chomwe mnyamata amaonera - osati zomwe zimachitikira mbolo yake akaiyang'ana. ”
"Ndikanena kuti zolaula zikupha anthu aku America pakugonana, sindikuseka, kapena sindikokokomeza."
"Zizolowezi zolaula ... ndizofala kwambiri kuposa momwe anthu ambiri amaganizira."
"Funani dokotala wodziwa zachiwerewere yemwe ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo komanso kugonana."
"Ndikutha kudziwa kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe mwamunayo amayamba akangonena zenizeni zakugonana komwe amakhala nako."
”Mwamuna amene amaseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi amatha kukhala ndi mavuto akakhala ndi mnzake. Onjezerani zolaula, ndiye kuti atha kuyamba kugonana. ”
“Mbolo yomwe yazolowera mtundu winawake wa zotengeka zomwe zimayambitsa kukodzedwa msanga sizigwira ntchito chimodzimodzi ikadzutsidwa mosiyana. Chiwalo chimachedwa kapena sichimachitika konse. ”
“Chimene chimandipusitsa kwambiri n'chakuti anyamata ambiri achichepere amakhala pachibwenzi choyamba ndi munthu ayi, koma ndi zomwe amaonera pamakompyuta awo. … Njira yokhayo yophunzirira za amayi ndikucheza nawo nthawi yayitali. Ndipo njira yokhayo yodzigwirira bwino ndikugonana ndi akazi enieni. ”
"Sindikuganiza kuti [kunena kuti vibrator ndi] upangiri wabwino kwa iwo omwe akuchita zachiwerewere, chifukwa cholinga chachikulu ndikuti azikhala ndi zibwenzi ndi anzawo, osati zoseweretsa zawo zogonana. Vibrator ndiyabwino kwambiri kukweza nkongo kotero kuti ngati mutayigwiritsa ntchito pafupipafupi, mutha kukhala opanda ziwalo popanda iyo. … Cholinga chogonana ndi kusangalala limodzi, osati kudzisangalatsa kuposa chibwenzi. … Uku ndiko kusamvana kwakukulu komwe ndili nako ndi akatswiri azakugonana. ”
"Kuchita maliseche kumatha kukhala vuto lalikulu m'banja mwanu ngati wina azolowera kudzisangalatsa kotero kuti sangadzukitsidwenso ndi kugonana kwanthawi zonse."
Fisk imakhalanso ndi zinthu zowonjezereka zonena za kuika maubwenzi kumbuyo, koma ndondomekoyi yayitali kale.
Chinthu changa chotsutsa buku ili ndi kalembedwe kake. Ndimaona kuti ndizowonongeka kwambiri chifukwa cha kufunika kwake. Koma palibe buku liri langwiro, ndipo zomwe zili zowona.
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