FREDERICTON - Wofufuza pa Yunivesite ya New Brunswick ati kafukufuku watsopano wathetsa nthano yoti achinyamata ambiri akusangalala ndi moyo wosangalala wogonana.
Lucia O'Sullivan, pulofesa wama psychology ku yunivesite ya Fredericton, adati opitilira atatu mwa anyamata ndi atsikana onse ali ndi vuto lachiwerewere - ali ndi vuto limodzi kapena angapo "osalekeza komanso okhumudwitsa" pakugonana.
"Tili ndi chithunzichi chomwe chimagonana pakati pa achinyamata, makamaka koyambirira, ndichosangalatsa, chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa," adatero Lachitatu. "Koma zomwe tidapeza pomwe tidayamba kuwatsata pakapita nthawi ndikuti achinyamata ambiri ali ndi mavuto azakugonana omwe akukumana nawo."
Kafukufuku wa achinyamata oposa 400 a 16 ku 21 ku New Brunswick anapeza a 79 a anyamata ndipo azimayi a 84 pa 100 alionse anafotokoza mavuto a kugonana pazaka ziwiri.
Mavuto omwe anthu ambiri amagwiritsa nawo anali kuphatikizapo kukhutira ndi kugonana, chikhumbo chochepa komanso mavuto okhudza erectile ntchito, pamene amayi adanena kuti sangakwanitse kufika pamasewero, kukhutira ndikumva ululu.
O'Sullivan adati: "Sizachilendo pakati pa achinyamata kuti azigonana koyipa, kowawa, kosayenera." "Ngati sakusangalala nawo ... akuchita chifukwa akuwona kuti akuyenera."
Zina mwazovuta zikhoza kuyendetsedwa kumapeto kwa maphunziro, iye adati, makamaka nkhani zokhudzana ndi kuyendetsa amuna kapena kuphunzira momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mankhwala.
Koma O'Sullivan, yemwe kafukufuku wake amayang'ana kwambiri zakugonana komanso maubale apamtima, adati kusakhala ndi chidwi, kukondwerera komanso kusakhutira ndi vuto lalikulu.
Ngati mavuto okhudza kugonana sakukhazikitsidwa, adawachenjeza kuti akhoza kuyamba kukhala ovuta kwambiri kugonana pambuyo pake m'moyo, kuyika mavuto pa maubwenzi.
O'Sullivan adayambitsa kafukufukuyu pambuyo poti dokotala ku chipatala cha kuyunivesite adanenapo za kuchuluka kwa ophunzira omwe ali ndi mavuto a erectile, zowawa komanso - makamaka zotupa za vulvar, kapena kung'ambika.
"Mulingo wachisamaliro unali kuwapatsa mafuta awa ndikuwadziwitsa kuti ali pachiwopsezo chachikulu chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana," adatero. "Koma kenako adayamba kuwafunsa kuti 'Kodi mukugonana komwe mukufuna, komwe mumakusangalatsani? Mwadzuka? ' ndipo anayamba kuzindikira kuti panali vuto lina lalikulu. ”
Gawo lina lavutoli ndi maphunziro azakugonana ku Canada, O'Sullivan adati.
“Nthawi zonse taphunzitsa achinyamata za mavuto azakugonana. Timaganizira za 'Musakhale nawo ndipo ngati muli nawo, onetsetsani kuti mwapewa tsoka ili,' 'adatero. "Sitinena kuti, 'Tikatero, muyenera kukhala ndi gawo losangalala m'moyo wanu."
Ngakhale kusintha kwamaphunziro azakugonana, O'Sullivan adati Canada ikupitilizabe kutsala mayiko ambiri akumadzulo kwa Europe kuphatikiza Denmark, yomwe adaitcha mwana wonyamula maphunziro azakugonana kuyambira ku kindergarten.
Malingaliro opititsa patsogolo maphunziro azakugonana ku Canada nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi ocheperako koma ochepa omwe amalankhula mokweza, "adatero.
"Zimabweretsa chisokonezo kotero kuti aliyense amasokonezeka," adatero O'Sullivan. "Koma tikudziwa kuti kupereka maphunziro okhudzana ndi zakugonana kumapatsa anthu mwayi wosankha, kusankha, mphamvu komanso kupanga zisankho. Amachedwetsa kugonana, amakhala ndi zogonana zotetezeka komanso amachepetsa (matenda opatsirana pogonana) komanso mimba. ”
Nkhani inanso yokhuza kugonana kwa achinyamata ndi nkhani zofalitsa mafilimu komanso kuchuluka kwa zolaula, adatero.
"Kufikira zolaula ndikotakata, kwakukulu, kwakukulu, pafupipafupi komanso koopsa kuposa kale," adatero O'Sullivan. “Simumangodalira magazini a zolaula a abambo anu.
"Tayamba kuda nkhawa kuti zikusintha zomwe akuganiza kuti ndi zachilendo."
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