Kuda nkhawa nthawi zambiri kumathandizira ku ED. Kodi munthu angadziwe bwanji kuchuluka kwa zolaula komanso nkhawa? Ngati muli ndi erection yolimba mukamachita maliseche opanda zolaula kapena zongopeka zolaula, komanso mwachangu komanso kuthamanga, ndiye kuti nkhawa ndiyomwe imayambitsa. Komabe, si zachilendo kuti amuna akhale ndi ED chifukwa cha nkhawa komanso kuphatikiza zolaula. N'zosadabwitsa kuti nthawi zochepa zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala opanda nkhawa zimatha kuchititsa kuti anthu azikhala ndi nkhawa.
Zovuta zina ndi kugonana ndiyenera kuyembekezera
Zoyenera kuchita, ndidakumana ndi chokumana nacho chofananacho chaunyamata. Kuonera zolaula koyamba, koma ndinapeza kuti zochitika zanga zogonana zenizeni zimakhala zosasangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa. Ndidakumana ndi "mantha pagulu" ndimadandaula magwiridwe antchito kangapo, ngakhale ndimakhala ndi munthu yemwe ndimakopeka naye kwambiri. Ndili wachinyamata ndinali ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu pazomwe ndimakumana nazo koyamba, koma sindimayembekezera kuti zenizeni zakugonana nthawi zambiri zimabweretsa mantha, kusokonezeka komanso kusokonezeka, komanso kuti kuyang'anira makanema ogonana inali ntchito yovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimaganizira.
Zinandivuta kukhala chilili pomwe panali zinthu zambiri zoti ndiziganizire! Kuonera zolaula kapena zosewerera zakanema zandichititsa kuganiza kuti zimayenda bwino nthawi zonse. Mwina zina zinali zokhudzana ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula koyambirira, koma ndikuganiza kuti anthu ambiri amakumana nazo. Chowonadi chogonana koyamba chimatha kukhala chosiyana kwambiri ndi malingaliro oyamba aja, kapena makanema apa kanema.
Ndimakumbukira mnzanga akundiuza kuti adapeza koyamba kovuta. Nthawi zonse ankadziganizira kuti ali ndi chiwerewere changwiro, koma mwanjira inayake akuwona izi patali. Anazindikira kuti zinali zachilendo kugona ndi munthu wina "mwa munthu woyamba", momwe amamuonera. Ngakhale zinali zovuta choncho, adalowa pachimake pazinthu mwachangu; Mtsikanayo anakhala mkazi wake, ndipo zaka makumi awiri pambuyo pake adakali limodzi! Kuda nkhawa kumatha kutha.