Inde [ndaona zopindulitsa], zowonadi! Chidaliro, kufunitsitsa kukwaniritsa zinthu, kukhala moyo wachilengedwe, chifukwa zimakupangitsani kuchita zinthu ndikupeza njira yolumikizirana ndi anthu (kuphatikiza azimayi ndi chilichonse chomwe chingakhale chofunikira kuti mupange ubale wapamtima nawo, ngati ndi choncho ).
-Zizindikiro ziti zomwe zidakupangitsani kuti musiye zolaula?
Ndinalibe ambiri, koma zifukwa zanga zinali kukwaniritsa zomwe ndagawana pamwambapa. Ndinayamba kukhala ndekha ndipo ndimadziwa kuti ndingayendeyende m'moyo ndikapitiliza kuchita izi. Yankho lidalipo, chifukwa ndidayamba kuchita zinthu zambiri mosasinthasintha ndikusintha moyo wanga ndipo ndipitiliza kutsatira njirayi.
Zomwe ndinganene ngati zizindikiro: Pamene ndinali pachibwenzi changa chotsiriza, nthawizina ndimapewa kuchita zinthu ndi iye (inde… zoyipa), analibe zikhumbo zazikulu zakumupanga ndikumudabwitsa ndikuti ubalewo ukhale wabwinoko. Kugonana pomwe kumatulutsa umuna nthawi zambiri sikunali kosangalatsa (ndipo sichoncho). Ndinali ndi lingaliro labodza lofuna izi, koma sizinali kwenikweni. Ndili ndi malingaliro awa, ndidazindikira kuti kumaliseche ndi kutulutsa umuna ndizosiyana kwambiri: nthawi zambiri m'moyo wanga sindinakhale ndi vuto (lomwe sizingachitike ngati sindinasunge umuna - kuwunika makamaka my thupi). Ngakhale kugonana, nthawi zina kunali kovuta kuwonetsa (osati kwenikweni nthawi zonse) ndipo kwenikweni sizingatheke ngati zinali kupyolera pamlomo.
-Kuthamangitsa kulikonse?
Ndinasintha chifukwa chake ndinabwereranso (akukonzekera kupeza nthawi yogawira izo mu post yaikulu ndi kusintha izo).
-Muli ndi zaka zingati?
Ndili ndi zaka 28 ndipo ndikulakalaka nditayamba izi ndili ndi zaka 20-22…
LINK - Adabwereranso tsiku 100 (palibe kung'ung'udza, kungoti lipoti)
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