Ndine chaka cha 40 MBA, katswiri wodziwa kolala. Ndakhala ndikuwonera zolaula pa intaneti pa zaka 7. Ndinazindikira kuti ndi vuto la zaka za 4 zapitazo pamene mkazi wanga adanena kuti sakukhudzana ndi kugonana chifukwa nthawi yokhayo mbolo yanga inali yovuta kwambiri
ndi pamene ndinali ndi zolaula. Zopatsa chidwi! Yankhulani za nkhonya m'matumbo.
Kotero ine ndinapita woyera kwa miyezi 4 ndinawona kusintha kwakukulu mu ntchito yanga yogonana. Koma mimba zanga zimanditsogolera pang'onopang'ono kutsitsa njira ya mafilimu a pa intaneti.
ngati inu, Ndinadzudzula mkazi wanga chifukwa chosakhala womasuka kuchita chibwenzi. Ndinapepesa zochita zanga podziuza kuti mwina sindinama. Zabwino, koma tangoganizani, a PIED abwerera ndi kubwezera!
Ndili ndi zingwe ziwiri (mapazi achikazi ndi matako) omwe, monga momwe mudafotokozera, adakula ndikukhala olimba. Ndakhala ndi lingaliro la mahule chifukwa azimayi oganiza bwino samachita zinthu zomwe zidandilimbikitsa kuchita zolaula.
Ili ndiye funso langa. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji kuti mwana wamwamuna, ngati amasangalala ndi anthu awiri, ali ngati momwe mumalangizira "wopepuka" komanso wathanzi pakati pa achikulire awiri achikondi ndi ovomerezeka? Kutengera china chake chonyansa chowononga?
Ndakhala ndikutenga phazi kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 7. Sindinathe kupeza kachidindo kameneka momwe munalongosolera momveka bwino, koma ndikukumbukira za kusisita mafuta m'mapazi a azakhali anga nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndikanatha ndikuwona kuti chinali chosangalatsa mwanjira yazaka 7, malingaliro asanakwane msinkhu sakanatha kufotokoza .
Ndipo ndili ndi zaka 18, ndili ku koleji intaneti isanachitike, ndidazindikira kuti ndimakonda (ndikhululukireni mawuwo) kupembedza. Zonsezi sizinayambitsidwe zolaula, komabe zolaula zawatengera kuzipanda zatsopano (mwachitsanzo, akazi, manyazi amawu, Full TT, ndi zina) kapena ndikuganiza zotsika.
Tsopano muli pa 90 / 10. Zikuwoneka kuti mukulimbana ndi 10% mwakuthamangitsa ming'onoting'ono. Mwachiwonekere PMO ili pa tebulo. Ndikumvetsa kwathunthu! Koma kodi ndiyenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti ndisiye masewera olimbitsa thupi, mwachitsanzo, kuchotsa moyo wanga wonse ngakhale ndi akazi enieni?
Zikomo chifukwa chotenga nthawi kuti mulembe zolemba zanu zoyambirira. Ndikuyembekeza kuti mungapeze nthawi yogawana zina.
Maganizo aulere
NDI - Maganizo aulere
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