Zachidziwikire, nditatha kulimbana ndi zolaula kwa zaka zingapo, ndine wokondwa kunena kuti nkhondoyi yafika pachimake. Poganizira momwe nkhani za anthu ena zidandithandizira kukhala ndi chidwi chokwaniritsira zolinga zanga, ndidaganiza kuti ndiwonjezera nkhani yanga.
Ndinayamba kusintha moyo wamtundu wa 3 zaka zapitazo ndipo zidakula kwambiri mpaka nthawi yanga yatha mpaka gawo langa lomaliza la Zolaula.
Munthawi yoyipa kwambiri ndimatha kuwonerera kangapo patsiku ndipo izi zimandibweretsera nkhawa komanso kusadzilimbitsa mtima pagulu. Ndinali ku koleji ndipo ndinali ndisanakhalepo ndi zibwenzi zenizeni. Izi zinachepetsa chidaliro changa.
Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidapatsidwa mwayi wogonana, ndidazindikira kuti zaka zonse zowonera zolaula zidandichititsa kuti ndisakhale wokondweretsedwa ndi azimayi enieni. Zinali zosatheka kuti ndikhale ndi phokoso m'moyo weniweni. Ndinganene kuti uku ndikumenyedwa kopitilira muyeso kuti andipatse vuto loti ndisiye zolaula. (Komabe, kumbali yabwino, kuthana ndi manyazi osayanjana ndi azimayi kunandikakamiza kuthana ndi mantha anga onse kuti ndikhale pachibwenzi, popeza iyi inali vuto langa lalikulu. Chidaliro changa mu zochitika zamkati mwachangu.) anakhala wolimba kwambiri chifukwa cholephera.)
Sindinamvepo bwino ndikamaonera zolaula. Izi zinawonjezera chikumbumtima changa / kulemera kwanga pamapewa anga omwe sindinathe kuwongolera ndikuchokapo.
Othandizira kutsinje wa reddit nthawi zambiri amatchula 'Superpowers', ndipo nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndizosangalatsa. Komabe, zomwe ndinganene ndikuti kuyambira kusiya zolaula, ndakhala wochezeka, maubwenzi anga akhala bwino kwambiri, ndipo izi zadzetsa chisangalalo chachikulu m'moyo wanga. Chisangalalo chowonjezereka ichi m'moyo wanga chinakumbidwa masabata a 2 apitawo pomwe ndinataya unamwali wanga. Zotsatira zakutsogolo pazaka zanga zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula (7 kapena 8) zikadali zazitali munjira yovutira kubisirana pogonana kwenikweni, ndipo kwakanthawi, kulephera kufikira malingaliro athunthu. Komabe, izi zoyipazi ndizolumikizana mwachindunji ndi kugwiritsa ntchito dzanja langa panthawi ya maliseche kuposa zolaula zokha. Ndazindikira kuti ndikakhala kuti ndisiya kutaya maliseche, zizindikirazi zikuyenda bwino.
Upangiri wanga wa 2 kwa omwe akugwirabe ntchito mpaka kusiya zolaula: 1) Dziwani kuti nthawi zina mudzalephera kangapo musanachite bwino, musamangoganizira kwambiri za zolephera, koma yesani kuyambiranso kubwerera kavalo mwachangu komanso popewa kupuma kwakanthawi 2) Ndazindikira kuti si aliyense amene angakhale wosangalala ndi izi… koma kwa ine zomwe zidandithandizira kwambiri ndikupemphera. Sindinayambe ndadziona kuti ndine wachipembedzo, mu zipembedzo zachipembedzo. Koma m'malo mwake khulupirirani kuti payenera kukhala wopanga onse. Kwa ine, kupemphera kunathandizira koposa china chilichonse pothana ndi mavuto awa. Osati kuyesera kutembenuza aliyense kukhala china, koma ndi momwe zokumana nazo zidayendera.
Zindikiranso, ngati wayamba ulendo wosiya zolaula. Ndinu kale kwambiri kuposa ena ambiri.
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