Posachedwapa ndangoonera kanema wa pa YouTube wonena za momwe "mawebusayiti azithunzi" za Porn adayambira mu 2006. Zinandipangitsa kuganizira momwe nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinawonetsedwa zolaula inali mu 2008. Ngakhale kuti sindinayambe kuzifunafuna mpaka mu 2009, ndikuzindikira kuti sindinkadziwa momwe zingandikhudzire.
Anandidziwitsa nthawi "yabwino", ndinali ndikungoyamba kumene kukula ndipo ndinali ndisanakhalepo ndi mkazi, ngakhale mahomoni anga anali atangoyamba kumene. Ngakhale ndimakhala ndi zovuta kuchokera kwa atsikana amoyo ngati openga, ndikuganiza kuti pakapita nthawi ubongo wanga udangowonekera pazenera ndipo thupi langa lidasiya kuyankha ngati zonunkhira ndikukhudza nthawi ina chaka chatha. Ndipamene ndinachita mantha kwambiri kuti sindingathe kuchita ndi mkazi weniweni kotero ndinasiya kuzizira mu Ogasiti 2015. Ndimagonana ndi MO koma mosalekeza palibe zolaula kuyambira pamenepo.
Mfundo yomwe ndikuyesera kupanga ndikuti maphunziro ndichofunikira. Ndikadakhala kuti ndikadadziwa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche mobwerezabwereza kuzinthu zabwino komanso zowopsa kumandipangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi mavuto azaumoyo mtsogolo, ndikukhulupirira kuti mwana wanga wachichepere akadasiya nthawi yomweyo. Pali ana ang'onoang'ono omwe adzakule ndikutha kupeza zolaula nthawi iliyonse komanso kulikonse. Moona mtima ndikuganiza kuti ife monga gulu tikufunika kuchita ntchito yabwinoko pophunzitsa achinyamata za zovuta zomwe zingachitike chifukwa cholaula nthawi yayitali, pasanakhale vuto lalikulu lazovuta zakugonana.
Ndikuganiza kuti ili likhala vuto lalikulu kwambiri, chifukwa mbadwo wakale sunakule / kukula ndi zolaula zomwe zimapezeka nthawi yomweyo m'badwo watsopano. Ubongo wawo "sunasinthidwe" monga momwe ife tiriri. Vuto lomwe ambiri ayamba kukhala nalo silikhala pansi pake - lidzalumikizidwa molunjika kuubongo, monga PIED ndi nkhawa zomwe zimapangitsa ED. Awa ndi mavuto omwe mapiritsi sangachiritsidwe mosavuta.
Tl;dr Tiyenera kuchita bwino pophunzitsa ana za zotsatirapo zoyipa za zolaula.
LINK - Sindinadziwe Kuti Ndakhala Ndikumva Zolaula Kwa Nthawi Yaitali Bwanji
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